Are you a lifer?

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  1. L-u-c-y
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    Do you think you will remain locked for the rest of your life? (on and off)

    Or do you think it's a phase you will grow bored of eventually?
     
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    It really depends on my wife. If she gets bored and says to stop, I'll stop.
     
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    Good morning,

    An excellent question. Since I just got my very first tattoo that clearly indicates our new (past 3-4 years) dynamic I hope that it does indeed work for us for the rest of our lives.

    Over the past few years, it was a little periodic due to pregnancies, job changes, and babies. But at the start of 2018, we recommitted ourselves and it is working very well for us. So much so that I was keen to get a tattoo!

    I believe that my KH (@Domina-na-na) thoroughly enjoys her role and has no wish to return to our former D/s lifestyle where she was the sub and I was dominant. Who would have thought we'd have such a 180 reversal.

    Have a good day.

    HC
     
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    Breathe Be true to yourself

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    Interesting question.

    I can't predict the future, but I feel the deepened dynamic produced after I added chastity to our relationship is far too pleasing to consider removing it. Certainly not any time soon, if ever! :lock::love:
     
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    Based on the status of our relationship I think I will continue to be locked until one of us parts this earth, Just hope She remembers where She remembers where the keys are kept before old age senility kicks in.
     
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    Mash2214 Locked today, tomorrow, forever

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    I would like to think that I would remain locked for the rest of my life, it may not be that long I am 55 ( ha ha ) I have become very comfortable with my daily activities while wearing my cage. I haven't found anything that I do daily that would require my cage to be removed for a long period of time. Unless they install metal detectors at all coffee shops and grocery stores, if that happens carbon fibre cages may become very popular. So vote is for a Lifer.
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    She has said she sees no reason for her to remove it (for more than the few minutes of play), or to stop wearing it. I suppose if I came up with some sort of explanation that didn’t involve me wanting to be able to play with it...such as something medical, or mentally it started to upset me, we would divert our dynamic.

    No, I’m afraid you couldn’t get the genie back in the bottle with us, kind of in too deep, and experienced too much freedom to allow me to just stop.
     
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    If the opportunity arose. No pun intended. Would prefer to be for life
     
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    I don't see us stopping, but life is a long time. Ill just say "indefinitely permanent."
     
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    Only in the later part of year number 2, and She's gone more than She's around lately, so it's hard to say. My gut reaction is that it will be indefinite for now.
     
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    Nothing last forever and chastity as any other things is only another phase in life
     
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    My record is 2 weeks to the exact hour....and I barely made it. I am alone without a kh, so I self lock and put the key in ice in a small container that goes into a medium ice container and finally a large one. That way when I get extremely desperate for release it takes so much time to melt the Ice that I usually quit trying and end up lasting another day or more. It would be up to miss Lucy to determine my fate this time. Every time she looks at the key she will know that she has complete control over a my limits and complete control over this mans penis in NJ USA. Having a mistress like Mis Lucy I am sure my limits will be pushed. She is so hot and I get the feeling she doesn't realy like men very much, so I might have gotten in a little deeper than I wanted. Miss Lucy told me strait out that she don't care how horney I get or anything about me and my poor dick because it is all about her, and I don't matter at all. When she sends the lock then my dick will be hers for more than 2 weeks! Wow!I am almost shaking just thinking about it. How can I possibly stay in chastity more than 14 days? Last few time I tried I started dripping and leaking after the first week. The cum was very thick and it didn't explode like a regular orgasm. It just sort of dripped our and made unwanted messes, but there was never any feeling of release. It was finally too much for me and I always had to unlock myself early many times
     
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    For as long as I have someone to encourage/enforce it, I will continue. If I lose that stimulus, I may well weaken and revert. Here's hoping I continue to have the support of a dominant woman to keep me in check.
     
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    I would think I'd be locked off an on for life but things change and never know how either of our kinks might change.
     
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    i would love to be ,but without a KH near its almost imposable
     
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    If Mrs Chaste is to be believed (and there's no reason not to), then its a life sentence for me! It just seems the natural thing now for my penis to be locked in its little cage and the very idea of it being any other way just doesn't seem right somehow!
     
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    if I find a true deese like miss Lucy why not. ❤️
     
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    I guess that will depend upon how long my partner stays denied - being one who values equality - I am keen on both myself and my partner enjoying the same things for each other's benefit.
     
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    forever. I love that I don't have control.
     
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    I may not stay locked the rest of my life but I am a Lifer when it comes to FLR & Servitude.

    I felt the earth shudder ... @Breathe has a limitation? Say it ain't so!

    Oh, the beauty of direct simplicity.

    No doubt :strong:.
     
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    deaf_chastity 5/3 TomAllen-Rectrix scale

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    hard for me to said, as it is part of my life for almost decade now. What future look like for me may affect whatever I will keep to wear chastity cage or not
     
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    For me I would say chastity has been and will be part of my life going forward. Previously with my x wife, chastity was my little secret as she made me feel a freak and ashamed but I alway love the feel of be locked away (self locked should I say)
    Whereas now my lovely new wife knows I love it and now taken the key on a perminant basis and we have committed to a chastity contracted and now in my second month locked under her control which is now taken it to a new ground.
     
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    Finally, the orgasm of a man lasts a few seconds, and the pleasure of desire and delicious when one is padlocked.
    would be like delicious preliminaries that last a lifetime :love::lock:
    when orgasm comes, everything stops :(
     
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