Newly Controlled, Still self-locked

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    I’m thrilled to have found this community. I’ve recently turned 30 and have been married for 6 years. Over the course of my life before and even after marriage I’ve struggled with my submissiveness in the bedroom and often found seeking out risky sexual encounters and am very fortunate never to have been hurt/sick.

    To very briefly explain where I’m at, my wife has recently agreed to take control of when I’m allowed to orgasm and so far allowed one release. Additionally, we began having an open relationship about 2 years ago and she has had a serious boyfriend for 1 year who has lived with us for 6 months. I have not been with her since he moved in. The topic of cuckolding has been discussed and they expressed interest, but no same room play has been allowed.

    Things have been tough over the last few years, but it’s looking better than ever before.
     
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    welcome here
     
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    Thanks. I forgot to mention that I’ve been self locking for relatively short periods (6-10 hours) with a cheap CB-6000 that I bought on amazon. I had to use some sand paper and heat to get everything smoothed out and I’m going to get used to sleeping in it before giving the keys to my wife.
     
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    Welcome to CM. I think you will find a stainless steel cage more comfortable in the long run. Plenty to choose from. Cheap ones on eBay and other sites or good quality custom made from a manufacturer. Some of the made in China eBay cages are actually very good.
     
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    Thank you. I’ve been trying unsuccessfully to get some good flaccid measurements to see what cage would work best on paper, but I get aroused very easily.
     
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    That will stop when you get a good fitting cage with no room to grow! It will probably be smaller than you think! There are some big boys in very small cages here I can tell you. Good luck!
     
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    welcome. I hope you find what you're looking for. There are plenty of people on here you can chat to and share ideas.
     
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    So I figure it’s time for a little update as I’ve reached 5 days without an orgasm. It’s only the second time in the past couple years I’ve gone this long. I’m well aware some here have much longer periods of denial, but I’m still a newbie.

    I haven’t been wearing the cage much as I’ve been commuting by bike during the week, but we’ll see how the next week goes.
     
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    Well done. For a newbie thats very good.
     
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