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    #1 Marissa Torres, Mar 12, 2018
    I am a married CD who has begun to explore my fetishes with my wife. I have been in and out of self-imposd chastity for about 2-1/2 years. Never longer than a week. I would love to learn more about chastity, so any tips or tricks are welcome. Happy chastity!
     
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    #2 jemmi, Mar 12, 2018
    just lock it on and throw away the key, giggling
    oh and have her tease, tease, tease.
    and welcome home
    giggling
     
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    #3 jemmi, Mar 12, 2018
    just lock the cage and throw away the keys, giggling
    and have her tease tease tease..
    welcome home, many conversations to learn from, and everybody is friendly
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    #4 maid_carrie, Mar 12, 2018
    Welcome to a huge source of information and advice @Marissa Torres . You'll find lots of friendly people happy to assist at the drop of a key :p

    There's also a very good search facility as well as chat of course.

    Sounds like it's your wife might need to join and learn the tips and tricks while you just stay locked?
     
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    #5 LesterBallard, Mar 12, 2018
    welcome
     
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    #6 Joan.t, Mar 12, 2018
    Glad to have joined us.
    Your new journey has begun.
    Happy long term chastity!
     
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    #7 DonnaSue, Mar 12, 2018
    Welcome! You didn't tell us about how interested and involved in your chastity is your wife? For most of us, chastity is a 2 person sport. The mind games and scarcity of sex is a big part of our submission. Please tell us more about your wife and how submissive you are at this point.
     
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    #8 Marissa Torres, Mar 13, 2018
    I consider myself very submissive. The challenge is that my wife is also. She has expressed that she has no desire to become dominant. We are currently working on letting her find a rhythym and seeing where it goes. I can see the domme side of her, but she doesn't. Perhaps that is because of the stereotype that is seen in memes and videos of the "mean bitch" that she has no desire to be. The biggest challenge is letting her slowly work past her own head. It is clear to me that she is into chastity and having the control, we just need to take it slow and find the right balance of Domme KH (what she perceives as "my expectations") vs. Loving Wife. In essence, we are working towards figuring out how far she is comfortable going to take the Domme KH and still see herself as Loving Wife. I am willing to take however long it takes to find that balance. We have been together for 24 years as a couple, so I have learned that new things take a bit to reach her comfort zone. The second biggest part is finding the right device fit. We have been through many inexpensive devices and also the HTv2, Bon4 silicone, and CB-6000s. The most comfortable so far has been the HTv2, however I have never been able to make it more than a few days due to slippage, shrinkage and a multitude of other nuisances.
     
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    #9 Marissa Torres, Mar 13, 2018

    Thank You! I look forward to it!
     
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    #10 LesterBallard, Mar 13, 2018
    yes, it's that porn image of the domme in black leathers and a whip that causes much confusion about what a Domme can be. There are as many types of Domme as there are women.

    Thankfully.
     
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    #11 Chaste J., Mar 13, 2018
    Well, being in control doesn't always mean tying, whipping, beating and humiliation does it? Even being her servant or slave isn't really necessary if it isn't " your/her thing". Just being locked and not allowed to cum is her being dominant! Sounds like you have a very good relationship that will evolve over time into something you are both comfortable with.
     
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    #12 Marissa Torres, Mar 14, 2018
    Thank you. Hopefully that is so.
     
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