Fake Female profiles - plague destroying our lifestyle!

Difficult one to stop I suppose. Must admit I don't like the deception. Its difficult to work out sometimes what makes people tick. Is it a secret desire to be female, or a joy of causing mischief? I don't know. I am interested in male chastity from both the female and male perspective. Its interesting to hear all the different ways people "do" chastity. I think most blokes really do find the workings of a woman's mind a mystery! That's what makes it so interesting! If men try to pretend to be female it just makes it all the more confusing! But real women generally understand their men all to well, probably better than we understand ourselves! I think I'm rambling here so I'll shut up now!!

 

That is so true and well put. I try to understand why people might post falsely, but in the end it doesn't matter why, its a lie and it is deceitful and it is wrong!

 

Of course there are fake females on here to and other sites like it. That's not a new phenomenon.

Many, many, posts on here are fantasy, regardless of the gender of the poster. Thankfully, given some of the content.

Expecting female posters to "prove" they are women because you're uncomfortable with that reality is frankly a stupid idea that would put people off joining this community.

 

An unexpected thread - but so timely for me.

I am not a woman - real or pretend.
I'm a male that has a very strong feminine side.
Sometimes I think I understand females better than I do males. Sometimes.

I have participated in a few threads that were seeking a woman's perspective - and what I had to say was received favorably. So, I tend to think its -often- more about what one says & how they say it as opposed to if they are actually male or female.

Of course, there may be times where one really only wants responses from a woman - and I totally understand and respect that.

I can speak only for myself, but if I saw a thread titled 'Women Only', I would refrain from looking at it let alone post something. But thats me.

I was reading the "Ladies, have you found..." thread (in FLR) and found some ideas that got me interested in participating - but there was some hot discussion in there so I refrained.

That got me thinking if there was a way to limit responses in a Women Only Forum. I bounced it by a few of the leading ladies here ... and found out exactly what you are talking about. It came as a huge surprise that guys signing up gals seems pretty rampant in this 'world'.

I can be naive [shakes head].

Sugar and spice and everything nice:
Respect. Honesty. Being true to ones self - and others.

Rats and snails and puppy dog tails:
Subterfuge. Deceit. Chicanery. Tomfoolery.

 

I used to get really annoyed with the fake mistresses but then the longer I'm here at the mansion the easier it is to see right through the fake posts. Anymore it's kind of entertaining especially when they get really animated about their treatment of their subs. Overall it's relatively harmless but annoying nonetheless.

 

We interact here in the virtual would through the written word and perhaps some unverified photos. We try to form a picture of our fellows from what are often empty, poorly constructed profiles that literally sometimes say nothing. Once that empty profile has been generated the new member has full access to all the information and secrets on the site.

I think that threshold for membership should be raised to include minimum requirements for profile content and proof of age and with a higher, optional level of membership where, let's say, sex had been confirmed.

There must be a place for pure fantasy; the issue is when fantasy maskerades as reality. In the real world we have option to identify fantasy from what we see and hear with our own eye.

I can only urge members to put effort into their profile and to judge the posts of others from what they have said about themselves.

 

If you are so bothered by the prospect that anyone you might strike up a friendship with may have a penis, then I feel rather sorry for you.

How sad to be constantly on your guard lest anyone you meet in real life not be who you think they are.
I have news for you. Nobody is who you think they are.
We all have hidden secret sides to us, every single person on this planet has some part of them you would not imagine from first or even second impressions - least of all what is between their legs.

Why let it bother you? Take people as you find them - everything else is just fantasy, your fantasy.

 

I think you'll find that most transgender people would find this statement quite offensive.

 

So I was just having a shave and came across this! Bang out of order pretending to be a bird. Whats the world coming to? The lads down the boozer would be well pi***d if they thought this was happening. Almost made my balls shrivel.

 

This isn't a similar situation at all. I'm not, nor will I ever be, in an intimate relationship with someone on this forum.

If Dave, the 45 year old neck beard that lives in his mom's basement, wants to pretend he's a 20 something dominatrix that has no negative impact on my life or my interaction on this forum.

 

Oh loosen up, life is too short to be all angry. Yes there are fake females and fake couples and fake cagees, where do you start with verifying everyone? Chill out, go with your instincts when chatting and have some fun.

 

That's the crux of it really. I say I'm a sporadically caged male with a Mrs as the key holder. I might be lying about that for.....reasons.

Best get me verified somehow so it doesn't ruin your lifestyle.

 

All us are here in a world of fantasy, SubVerity is right about that, the ideas, not the fantasies, can be the better way to judge a person, be male or female, why bother?

 

Well if it helps you to believe I'm a fake woman, then glad to be of service. Unlike you, I have no problem being verified.

 

It is harmful when people believe that what they are reading about is true. It turns off the newbies because they are scared that they can't do what is "normal" according to the forums.

 

A lot of truth in this. But when people join it's very hard to tell who is and isn't genuine (apart from the obvious spammers who are normally weeded out by the Mods pdq!). And some profiles are joint posts. But after a number of posts it becomes easy to take a view. This isn't confined to CM: it happens on other sites of this sort too, e.g. FL.

 

To my opinion the strength of a forum like this is just to be able to participate anonymously and share some real experience and some fantasy too once in while, why should that be wrong?
I'm not going to copy/paste ideas of any site to my real life without questioning.
Like in the early days of television people made sometimes the mistake believing what they saw: it is not because it has been on tele that it is true...
Instincts are indeed at place here before taking anything for truth but when you interact by participating in a thread or in a chat or in a PM, you get a rather good idea which category applies to the message the other is giving.
And then it is your own decision how to proceed with the interaction.
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Although not giving any guarantee at all, I can only second that profiles that are a bit more 'complete' is a way to start.

But the most important is the 'instinct' to decide how to interpret / appreciate the message that is given.

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If I'm engaged in a FLR conversation with a dominant woman, which I'm fond of doing both in real life and on-line, it does help to know that the 'dominant woman' is female. I don't want to shatter any spells, illusions or fantasies but it does kind of fall within the definition of FLR. Call me naive.

 

Most of it doesn’t bother me too much, you can usually figure it out by reading the content. The only issue I have is when someone is giving advice to another kh...fantastical, over the top advice, from someone that technically isn’t giving the gal to gal feedback that was asked for.

I could see this as not so great for the real females that join and have real questions. Other than that...it really doesn’t matter in the long run, it’s not like this is a sex site where someone is upset that the person they have been getting off with was really a man. So take the information like anything on the internet with a smidge of skepticism.

I have met some wonderful women here, and god forbid they are actually men, it would mean I have met friends that are in all reality...men. The horror. Sarcasm aside, if the worst case scenario is that I’ve met some new friends that aren’t being honest about their role in their relationship, then i think I’m doing ok.

I actually have more of an an issue with men posting as men that talk about how easy it is, how they throw themselves into every aspect of FLR, and have an instantaneous kh that is into every kink under the sun. They never have any doubts, fears, or second guesses. I’m not saying it isn’t possible, but real life usually has more grey in it.