Does chastity lead to ???

For both of your questions it is different for each couple, There should be good communication between the two of you as to what each of you want out of this. If you just let her run with it, then it will be what she wants or gets to like about it.

 

My wife and I live a cuckold lifestyle and play denial games. With that said it is all about the wife. If she wants your cock she takes it...she should own it. Although my wife and I like the thought of complete denial the reality of it is it is not so simple. Last night for example she let me penetrate her pussy twice in one evening on a weekend after her boyfriend walked out on her at a hotel. The first time I actually lasted maybe two minutes and the second maybe 15 seconds. You could tell my wee wee did nothing for her but it certainly was still exciting. This was the first time we have had sex twice in the same day in years.

 

I think it depends a lot on the dynamic of your realtionship and what you decided before you were first locked and what you have discussed since. Communication is everything and that goes throught the duration of your entire relationship and relates to everything including.. TTTWD.

 

It leads to wherever She want it to lead. And, I agree with Maid Julie that coomnications becomes even more important!.

 

The answer to both is no. If the two of you want either of those things, they can be had, but they are not necessarily part of chastity. Chastity can be whatever you and your wife want it to be. Apart from my wife loving me being chaste, wife have a profoundly vanilla life. And I don’t see that ever changing.

 

It can lead there but it needn't. Is it what she wants?

Her decision, I'd say, now she is in the box seat.

 

In my opinion, being chaste and in a FLR does not necessarily lead to cuckolding. In fact, I am sure there are men out there who are cucks yet they do not practice chastity or live in a FLR. As others have stated here time and again, open lines of communication are very important if you are going to live in a cuckold situation, and the two of you should know what the expectations and limitations for each are. There still has to be some mutual concern and respect or your marriage will be done. Perhaps you are the one who really wants to be living as a cuck. Or, is She the one who wants to move in the direction of cuckolding ? I am sure she will give you some insight on her feelings and the direction things may go in if you nicely discuss the topic with her.

 

My voice echoes others here. Enjoy riding whatever waves she gives you and keep talking... You might be surprised at how thrilling (and revealing) just the conversations themselves can be.

 

Chastity will lead to what you and your Spouse want it to lead to. @filltee and @JiL have explained it perfectly. Every relationship is different and unique so what happens depends a lot on how you develop it. That being said what @Joroincharge says needs to be taken into consideration she holds the key so what She wants takes on more importants than what you want. But than isn't that why your locked up I the first place. To give up control. Chastity is an Exciting Journey. Not knowing exactly were it will go adds to the excitement.

 

Your English is just fine. Thanks for sharing your adventure.

 

Its very much what ever is acceptable in each relationship. How far do you go with FLR. In our relationship Mrs Chaste is in charge of the sex side of our life. She has complete control of my orgasms and decides if and when I cum. When it comes to cuckolding it is not even on the agenda, we are married and our vows say "forsaking all others" we both take it very seriously. We belong to each other and no one else. Part of the chastity game for us is to keep me locked up to protect me from all those wicked women out there who might take advantage! Another point is that Mrs Chaste first husband was unfaithful and left her for another woman (did us both a favour as it turned out). She says it makes it difficult to fully trust a man again! As she says its her problem but it adds to the "game" being able to make sure I can't stray. If couples are happy with cuckolding and it works for both of them then fair enough. As long as everyone one is enjoying themselves then its fine. There aren't any rules when it comes to a chastity lifestyle other than those made by couples leading them! I'll get off the soap box now and shut up! Have fun all!

 

You comments are very good and truthful. If your on a soap box it's a very small one. Thanks for your comments.

 

My pleasure. Was a bit worried that I might sound a bit pompous! Don't want to annoy anyone!

 

It will lead to where you both want it to lead.

I certainly wouldn't be happy with things like cuckoldry, neither of us would be happy with never having penetrative sex.

 

For my wife and I it was cuckolding that led to chastity. When she cuckolded me the dynamics changed to a completely female led relationship. Cuckolding was my ultimate fantasy that she reluctantly fulfilled and I owed her the world for it. As a matter of fact I bought her a Louis Vuitton purse in appreciation.

Within a few months of being in control she liked to idea of me in chastity but because I wear diapers we hesitated at first. Eventually she decided she did not care, picked out my chastity device, and became a keyholder.

 

This is basically true for me also. We have stopped PIV by mutual agreement (but at her request). But, we still have great sex. And we have no intention of cuckolding. BION-we both still strongly respect our wedding vows, and will be faithful to each other for life. She has no interest in sex with anyone else, and is in fact absolutely repelled by the idea. But we both love having me locked up.