Why do locked boys look at porn?

I know im a bad influence. I've embraced why I am locked, that doesn't mean I can't tempt others into getting into trouble and then hearing all about the delicious details

 

I haven’t taken the time to read through all the comments, but I’ll throw in my two bits.

The brain is the most powerful sexual organ that a man or woman possesses. My wife and I have agreed that I will never use my penis again or have any kind of regular orgasm. And yet I get highly aroused by erotic thoughts or images. When the body is deprived of sexual stimulation and pleasure, the mind can do a pretty amazing job of compensating.

I think it’s why some women who struggle to orgasm by genital stimulation can orgasm easier through mere fantasy, being touched in non-genital erogenous zones, or a combination of both. My wife’s orgasms almost never come from genital stimulation. She has a particular fantasy that gets her hot and me touching her in the right places gets her to climax. Only occasionally does she have me stimulate her clitoris.

Men who are locked are no different. Denied the “normal” route of sexual pleasure (genital stimulation), we seek out and find other ways to achieve sexual stimulation that don’t involve our genitals. Simply fantasizing about what we are not allowed can be very stimulating.

 

Oh my - so many answers and even more opinions!
The obvious first: if it's forbidden, it's forbidden!

But as I tend to advocate the poor: maybe it's just like passing an accident, you don't want to look, but...

And of course (didn't try it out, but I'm sure): if you google "tits", you will definetely get more hits than you'll get googeling (does that word exist?) "brains"!

 

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If you don't mind me asking and just purely out of curiosity, why do you not want him to look at maledom porn? Is it more of a control thing versus being offended by it or does it really bother you? I remember reading some of yours and thatguys posts from a while back and I remember reading that your relationship used to be more that thatguy was sexually dominant. It just makes me wonder if you're against the male dom porn or against a male dom lifestyle now that you've lived both sides.

 

I'm not supposed to look at porn and Tumblr is only marginally okay with my mistress. She never looks at porn herself as far as I know it's just not her thing. She's pretty vanilla in most regards, I have to really get her excited to try some of the more kinky things.

I'll still look at my "old standby" porn from before chastity but only at a fraction of what I used to and it doesn't really do much for me anymore and also the fact that I can't touch myself. Now that I'm living more of a light femdom/ FLR lifestyle my desire to watch porn has decreased as my hopes to live out some of the scenarios has definitely increased.

The hardest punishment my mistress instills on me if I'm ever caught doing something I shouldn't be doing is her disappointment. I'd rather her take a crop or whip to me or make me wait even longer for an O. But when I know she's genuinely disappointed it puts a pit in my stomach and I really feel like crap.

 

I love looking at porn or reading erotic stories while self locked. My wife / key holder lost interest in chastity play. So watching porn or reading makes me Horney and frustrated. I love it especially when I just. Stop and stay locked as long as I can without any orgasm.

 

@Thatgirl You are such a lovely woman. He is so lucky to be owned by such a strong and amazing woman. My lovely wife has recently discovered how much she loves the power rush CBT. Her favorite is making e look in her r=eyes while she smashes my balls in her hand.

 

That completely makes sense and I understand where you are coming from. My wife doesn't like me looking at porn in general but femdom is kind of a loop hole for me. She knows I look at that because sometimes I'll send her pics from tumblr. It makes more sense to me now why she hasn't banned me from looking at femdom because the females are mostly clothed and I suppose the idea behind looking at femdom is the hope to create similar fantasies with my wife considering our lifestyle. Considering you have no plans in the near future to allow thatguy to dominate you I can see why maledom vid would have no place in the porn collection right now. Even though I don't consider myself a dominant male I can see where he's coming from when a little bit of the aggression comes out. I love being submissive to my wife and literally being her bitch. I do get to the point sometimes where I feel like I need to reclaim some of my "maleness" and I'll make an Alfa comment to her just to feel like I have some semblance of power. Naturally all I'll get from her is a funny look like "what the eff do you think your doing" which makes me feel stupid and am pretty much put in my place lol. The fact that he's trying to grasp at his dominance means you're doing a good job at being a domme. I don't think he'd feel like he needed to at maledom if you weren't stuffing out his Alfa side.

 

I will look at porn or post on a forum, blog etc as it’s a form of stimulation. When you’re locked and horny you crave some -any form of stimulation

 

Your suffering amuses me.

 

This is how I view it. I don't allow BF to look at pornography. If he does, I assume he's masturbated, which I don't permit, either. If he does, he gets spanked or chastity or both. It's funny, but he doesn't look at pornography when he's in chastity.

I've done some supervised pornography viewing with him for disciplinary purposes. Sometimes I'll put the Points of Intrigue in his CB-6000 and make him sit in front of his computer and watch pornography.

Sometimes, for supervised masturbation, I will put pornography on his computer he doesn't like, like gay pornography. I'll swat his bottom with something while he strokes himself until he gets hard. Of course, when he asks for permission to ejaculate, I make him say he's gay but deny him permission, anyhow. Of course, he ejaculates, so I ask him if he wants to eat his ejaculate. He says "no", but then I ask him if gay boys eat ejaculate. Of course he says "yes", so I remind him of how he just said he was gay and was masturbating to gay pornography, aand he's dressed in ladies' underwear, so he must want to eat his ejaculate. Swats to his bottom reinforce it, so I make him beg me to let him eat his ejaculate. Of course, he gets his tawsing for ejaculating without permission.

When I showed him Kali's Teeth, he said his "STOP EVERYTHING" safe word. He says it looks like it will break his skin, and blood is a hard limit. It's one reason I'm real careful with the cane.

Unfortunately for me, we're on Holiday Break from Chastity and Discipline. I can't use anything he does as a reason to spank him or put him in chastity while we're on break.

 

better for him to watch porn while lock than unlock right? unless thats against the rules you set out for him then its a punishable offence. Since hes unable to do the deed from watching them maybe he feels its ok to watch?

Its like a cycle ,chastity makes one horny ,watch porn,became hornier ,watches more porn ...

 

I look at porn because I can. I can't do anything except look, but that's enough.

 

My views on this remain extreme. Caged males viewing pornography featuring naked Females is tantamount to cheating on his Wife/GF etc. I'll permit supervised Femdom, but will ensure eyes are averted should Female nudity feature. jack will kneel facing me while I enjoy full access. He wouldn't expect anything less from me. His stimulus comes from my dominance, not tit shows off the internet.

 

Used to watch regular porn until I got into Femdom/FLR. Now the old stuff no longer interests me, so I guess I can't really answer your question. The energy is much stronger in Femdom - even without orgasm

 

I have issues when I ask, hey what are you looking at? And if he lies, I'm pissed.. why lie over something like that, we've been able to show and tell to each other, And I guess in my mind you wouldn't lie unless you thought it was not allowed/approved/liked .. but then I'll still be hurt cause I thought we were over the lies/half truths. And usually he gets mad when he's caught in a lie, mainly because he thinks it doesn't matter. But I do. That's where the communication is key. But not talking won't help it at all.

 

Well also Porn could provide insperation for some nice play hours

 

buggered the post again see below

 

The irony in this comment is your avatar is quite explicit and every time I see it I feel like I need to avert my eyes I do agree though, porn can def be a problem and my GF hates it so I really really try to avoid it.

 

I used to watch lots of porn, masturbation way too much. Hence the Chastity. I have a long distance Mistress who has forbid me watching porn, only half an hour of tumblr, Pinterest, Flickr...I have my account to maintain, I used to regularly cheat and watched porn....it was a habit. She has been instructing me for over 2 months....I have stopped looking at it. The main reason is out of respect for her, I really want to please her and I honestly believe, now, that it is disrespectful to her to look at porn. I don't know where all this will end but I can honestly say that I don't miss porn. I still get aroused but my thoughts and feelings are different....I have no desire to be free to grab my cock and Jack off to porn.

 

I don't like porn and even less knowing about boys looking at porn.
What for? Obviously is for masturbating, which is disrespectful for females and for males as well.
Why I think so? Because masturbation is a loss of energy, the body needs time and energy to build semen for procreation, but semen can have a more elevated way to be used. Semen is full of energy and is a shame to be disposed off by the drain. That's why, in my opinion that if the male is allowed to have a cumming he shall swallow back all of his cum, this is not only a punishment for having a not allowed cumming but, foremost, when he is allowed a cumming on swallowing it all he will have back all that energy of his own semen to the body, an energetic fluid that will, time after time, replenish his strength and bring his brain to a more elevated state of awareness.
Am I saying that males have something that can bring them to be better human beings? Yes I am, but for this to happen they need the guidance of a knowledge woman for they are too much weak in their minds to reach all alone this elevated state of mind.
Without the guidance of a knowledge Mistress, they are only poor little beings and cannot have a really meaningful life.

 

as I lock myself and wife does not as yet play I use it to tease and torment myself. I cum at least twice a day, but always ruined in chastity cage..... I think the short answer is brutal lack of self control !

 

Ay least you recognize you lack of control and self-esteem.

 

How would you feel if you lost your Alpha. I know some members seem to desire to change the person they love but will they still love them if they change?