How long have you been married or together?

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    I'm always curious about how long couples have been together and what brought about chastity for you? Please share :)
     
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    We dated for 5 years and married for 16 years. After having 3 kids our sex life was a disaster. Chastity was my idea. Its been a 2 year struggle(mostly my fault) but we are finally getting things on the right path.
     
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    Mistress and I have been together 10 and married almost 7
     
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    DarkKnight In service of the Dark_Queen

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    Dated for 5, married for 31 years. I have always had a kinkier side, looking for experiences outside of vanilla. She has always been game for a try but just never gets into it long term.
     
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    Maried for 20 years, playing with chastity for 3+ years now. It was my idea after lingering the net. I've been circumsized and pierced for that reason. My wife is vanilla, but I'm not. Talking helps a lot. It all comes down to understanding eachother and loving eachother ;-)
     
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    Together 15 and married 12.5

    Just started toying with chastity 4 years ago but hardly anything much before 2017
     
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    Happily married for 29 years!
    Chastity came into our lives about 5 years back
    It transformed me from a dominent to a totally submissive husband
     
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    18 years nowadays
     
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    Happily married for 30 years :)
     
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    Married 23 years. FLR, chastity for 6
     
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    SubHubbyInChastity submissive to @Mistress Good Wife

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    Dated for a year, married for almost 7. Chastity was my idea, about a year and a half ago. We started just playing around with it with a cheap device. It's now a serious part of our life. We have more sex now than we ever have. i just don't get to penetrate Her now.
     
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    Been happily married for almost 13 years now. I was into chastity looong before we knew each other.

    Funny story, about a year before we started dating (we had already known each other for about a year as friends) I had this strange urge to get a piercing ... like .... it was this loud voice to go get it done that would not stop. I figured it was just my head wanting to really get me into a Lori Tube. Anyways ... I got a Frennum and had not ordered a tube yet as it was still healing up. One night as we were sitting on the couch .. .as friends ... the piercing topic came up as she had like 13 of them .. most in her ears and a belly ring ... nothing down south .. she then asks me if I had one .. apparently the look on my face and the stall in answering ... caused her to keep prodding me to tell her the answer. I proceeded to tell her that yeah .. I did have one .. and then that led to the "Where?" question which I then told her .. and proceeded to explain why and my affinity for chastity and T and D and OD. I was super surprised and delighted as she actually had a shit eating grin on her face and just started nidding her head ... like ... "oh yea!!!" ... lol.

    Anyways, she later confided that she had previously had me pegged as a "goody two shoe" kinda guy, and got all gooshie when I told her about it .... and that it was one of the turning points in going from a friendship to perhaps something more feeling for her.

    Ultimately the Frennum and Lori Tubes did not work out for us ... as the frennum and placement of it just did not feel good to her during sex and it was not working with the chastity devices either. About 2 or 3 years into marriage we ended up going and getting a PA.

    We have gone through a bunch of different devices and are still trying to find the one that really works without hygiene issues and restriction of movement (my job requires some extreme flexibility and could be quite dangerous even lethal if a binding or pinching happened at the wrong time). Life has also thrown curve balls at us that have altered the intensity and desire for both of us to live out a full time chastity kind of life during several different seasons. Including currently where we have a 4 year old kiddo and most recently 6 months ago I had the snip snip done (which healed up great btw, and just starting to get back into the swing of wearing various devices to see how they feel post snip snip).

    Ultimitely .. saving up for a Lori Tube ... still on the fence about which model to go with.
     
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    14 years married and starting the 2 year of chastity.it was totaly my idea but she seems to like the perks of being able to be bitchy whenever she wants and shew me away like the cat lol :)
     
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    20 together, 9 married, this last year chastity, very new as a three

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    Met 6 years ago and for me it was love at first sight. We continued to be friends and I had to wait a year for her as she just started dating some guy and I was new to the country. I waited patiently and faithfully, having already committed to her in my mind. We dated 12 months before we married and now married for 4 years. Been playing with female domination and flr the whole time but only since we introduced chastity 6 months ago has the for actually been working well. Still new and experimenting with what how it all fits but I feel like it will stay for a long time (hopefully forever).
     
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    Besides the piercing it is almost same with us: dating since 13/5/1987 married since 4/5/1991, in chastity together (I mean with her consent) since 17/5/2015..and we feel like dating again ever since :):love::+1:
     
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    @lockit and I will have been together for 4 years in March. Just a blink of the eye in the grand scheme of things but what a fun blink it is.
     
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    Married for the last 15 years. Practicing FLR and chastity for the past 17 months. I brought the FLR and chastity pieces into our relationship and she willing has embraced and enjoyed the changes to date. We have 4 children between us and 3 of them are adults now. Youngest is 14. We both work full time, but Miss. wants me to retire and stay home to take better care of things sooner than later. We both seem happier together than we've ever been.
     
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    Married for 30 years. :) A gradual evolution to a FLR with me in a submissive role, and now in chastity.
     
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    i have live with Mistress for nearly 10 years now and done cleaning and cooking and other thingys.
     
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    Dated for six months. Married foe twenty-four years. Playing with chastity off and on for about Maybe fifteen years, full-time since this past October. Chastity was originally J’s idea, but this last time, I initiated and completed the plan to have J in his cage ASAP.
     
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    Been together for two years and just started chastity full time.
     
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    We were together for about 15 years before recently getting married.We've been doing chastity play for slightly more time than we've been wed.
     
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    Married 13 , locked for 5 years.... extremely happy with the way things have been.
     
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    Married for 33 years and together for almost 38. That is to the Same Lovely Women. It took almost 25 years for her to train me why in the world would we want to start over again LOL

    I've been locked since our 25th anniversary over 7.5 years the last three almost permanent. And 2018 is looking like even More permanent.
     
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