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    #1 Samantha in Syracuse, Dec 20, 2017
    Hi, my name is andrea. My Mistress is seeking advice on chastity devices for Her crossdressing servant girl.
     
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    #2 Kepoke, Dec 20, 2017
    Start early with the right device - don't waste money on cheap plastic models - get measured and get a custom fit open cage for long term wear! Depending on how serious you/she want to get I would consider the piercing conversation so you can't knock that out now while you are waiting for your device to be made. Mature Metal, Lori, Steelworxx are all the go to recommended companies from what it seems like.

    Have fun!
     
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    #3 Joroincharge, Dec 20, 2017
    Is she a Member here? If not she should be!
     
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    #4 Samantha in Syracuse, Dec 20, 2017
    At this time, She isn't. She has, as She told me, "this is your responsibility ". Samantha does have access to this account, chloe does not.
     
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    #5 Samantha in Syracuse, Dec 20, 2017
    Samantha is quite serious in everything She does. Chastity is now close to the top of Her list. W/we have heard of Mature Metals, and plastic devices are now not an option. chloe is not well endowed, though not as small as a few of the girls i saw here. Thank you !
     
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    #6 Joroincharge, Dec 20, 2017
    I think that if it's you taking the initiative there is a danger of you 'topping from the bottom'. Not a good basis as a rule.


    Who is chloe??
     
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    #7 Samantha in Syracuse, Dec 20, 2017
    i am a total submissive to Samantha, and i wouldn't think of trying that with Her, and risk losing Her. chloe was just a tenant Samantha rented a room to. Now chloe lives there and serves as a domestic servant. It is her Samantha wants in chastity ASAP, not me. Should i be addressing You in a formal manner? If so, i certainly apologize for not doing so.
     
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    #8 Joroincharge, Dec 20, 2017
    Ah thanks. Is chloe m or f? Assuming m then I'd go for a Mature Metal assuming Samantha's got the measurements.

    And you can call me Joro. No problem.
     
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    #9 Samantha in Syracuse, Dec 20, 2017
    To be a little more clearer, i am andrea, the one who has joined this site. i am a total girly girl. Samantha is my Mistress and my girlfriend. chloe is Samantha's servant girl, who is the one to be placed into chastity
     
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    #10 Joroincharge, Dec 20, 2017
    Yes I grasped that and thanks. Are you locked as well, or going to be?
     
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    #11 Samantha in Syracuse, Dec 20, 2017
    You are welcome, an
    chloe is a boy under her dresses and panties, nowhere else, Samantha does not permit that. Measuring will be my job. i know the "penis" has to be small, but what do i measure? i am so sorry for sounding so silly, but i need to do this right the first time.
     
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    #12 Samantha in Syracuse, Dec 20, 2017
    Not that i
     
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    #13 Joroincharge, Dec 20, 2017
    Ah. Measurements are on the MM site. I'd go for JB or QK. Length is on underside from base to tip. Cage is inside diameter just of shaft. Base ring needs balls too of course. Any doubts get the sizing rings to try. Is worth getting locking pin with two holes so can be two screw and padlock if required. Site is here, and owner is also CM member.
    https://www.maturemetal.com/guide-to-measuring-your-penis-for-a-chastity-device/

    BTW where will the keys be kept?
     
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    #14 Samantha in Syracuse, Dec 20, 2017
    Thank You. I will certainly do that. Honestly, i really dont want to even touch chloe there, but i always do what Samantha orders me to. i know She wants a totally secure device, so a locking device other than a simple lock will be required. Samantha will be holding all the keys.
     
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    #15 Joroincharge, Dec 20, 2017
    I see that. But if you get the sizing rings you can have chloe put them on to try out so you yourself won't need to touch, and you can also have chloe self-measure in your presence.
     
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    #16 Samantha in Syracuse, Dec 20, 2017
    That is a fantastic idea, thank you !!! i was dreading the thought of touching her member. i haven't touched one in over 10 yrs ! i know chloe isn't thrilled with Samantha's decision, but has accepted it. chloe knows her relationship with Samantha would be at risk if she doesn't cooperate.
     
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    #17 Samantha in Syracuse, Dec 20, 2017
    i need to check on chloe. Even though i am on vacation from work, my work at home is never done. i supervise all of chloe's chores, freeing Samantha of this duty.
     
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    #18 Joroincharge, Dec 20, 2017
    Any reason chloe can't do your chores as well?
     
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    #19 Samantha in Syracuse, Dec 20, 2017
    chloe does all the housework and domestic duties. i am sorry , i wasn't clear. my duties at home are ensuring chloe does all her chores. When i am home, i give her short breaks, including a cigarette. Samantha, myself, both smoke. chloe is allowed only 4 a day for now. Jan 1, it will be cut in half.
     
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    #20 Samantha in Syracuse, Dec 20, 2017
    An added note. The only time i do any housework is when i am being punished for any rule violation, and there are several rules !! It's better than losing my cigarettes or having to do yardwork !!!
     
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    #21 Samantha in Syracuse, Dec 20, 2017
    Hi Miss Joro. i did some reading and i thi k i am going to recommend the Jailbird to Samantha. i like the looks of this device. Hopefully Samantha will agree with me so i can order a measuring kit for her servant. After the chastity, i think Samantha is going to outfit chloe with an entire new wardrobe of uniforms !
     
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    #22 Samantha in Syracuse, Dec 20, 2017
    i just heard from my Mistress, and i am to apologize to you Miss Joro. Being You are a Dominant Woman, i am to address You in a formal manner. Mistress Samatha has read O/our conversation and She is very grateful for Your help. Miss Joro, how would You prefer to be addressed, Ma'am, Miss, or Mistress? Again, i apologize or my mistake.
     
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    #23 Joroincharge, Dec 20, 2017
    You honestly don't need to worry about this. I do not stand on ceremony, and Joro is quite OK whatever be your status: seems you are sub to her and Dom to chloe. No problem. And I think Samantha will probably be OK with MM for the time being.
     
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    #24 Samantha in Syracuse, Dec 20, 2017
    Thank You Joro. i am sure my Mistress will read your reply and i think She will be ok with it. Yes, i am submissive to Mistress Samantha, and chloe is submissive to the Mistress first, then me. W/we have an interesting relationship, certainly not vanilla, but W/we are all very happy with the roles each of U/us has
     
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    #25 Joroincharge, Dec 20, 2017
    Ace. Will take a few weeks for the MM to come so may want something plastic to tide you over. cb6000 fine for this (fits virtually all sizes and good too for checking measurements though not suitable really for 24/7 long term). When MM comes it can be worn 24/7/365 no problem and chloe need have no conventional PIV sex ever again if it's managed properly. She may later also like to upgrade to a Lori, though that takes an age to arrive, plus is expensive!
     
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