Are there actually any submissives here?

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    #51 Deleted member 53138, Nov 7, 2017
    No mistress, sorry....please forgive me I am just a silly sissy gurl that just craves attention. You are my superior and I worship you....
     
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    #52 Pietje12, Nov 7, 2017
    Thank you. Not being submissive but rather an alpha male in day to day life doesn't make me someone with a fetish for role play to get my sexual kicks.
     
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    #53 PrincessK, Nov 7, 2017
    Uhh, what part is this is "submissive" Rebecca? When a Lady says she's not interested, maybe back off instead of harassing her. Gross.
     
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    #54 L-u-c-y, Nov 7, 2017
    Quite!
     
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    #55 frankie teardrop, Nov 7, 2017
    I'm a lifestyle submissive in a very straight world. Life gets in the way sometimes. It's been a roller-coaster of a year.
     
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    #56 sillymaid, Nov 7, 2017
    Feels like a bit of a fight here....

    The willingness to relinquish control of one's sexual organs to another is an act of submission... ultimately one has lost a very basic animal instinct.

    But whether you are submissive in other ways in life depends upon so many third party issues, it becomes very difficult to define. It becomes what you and your partner or significant others want.

    Submission can take the form of a knight in shining armour, a grovelling slave, or a domestic Goddess.

    I don't think it is possible to apply a submissive label that fits all.

    Well that's my two pennies worth...thank you.
     
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    #57 ClubSub, Nov 7, 2017

    So then you would not consider me a submissive when Mistress uses a strapon because I also enjoy the experience and definitely submissive when she makes me suck her lovers or get fucked by them. How about when she fucks me with the strapon while I am forced to suck her lover? How would I be classified at that time?

    What about when she fucks me with a strapon in front of others? Does the fact I am embarrassed outweigh the pleasure of getting fucked to make me a submissive?

    As for hiding the sexual pleasure, is it not nice when a sub and a dom can both be happy? Mistress loves when I cum from a strapon fucking while caged. Then she doesnt need to milk me and adds punishment time for minimal reward.
     
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    #58 JiL, Nov 7, 2017
    I'd like to think I'm a good sub to my Bride.
     
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    #59 L-u-c-y, Nov 7, 2017
    I'd consider you both to be sexual fetishists.
     
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    #60 vengash, Nov 7, 2017
    Is love real?

    That's the phrase that popped into my head after reading through all this. I don't mean anything specific by it though - it was just what flashed into my mind.
     
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    #61 L-u-c-y, Nov 7, 2017
    True love has no expectations.
     
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    #62 vengash, Nov 7, 2017
    Why does it scare me? Love.
     
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    #63 L-u-c-y, Nov 7, 2017
    Strong women scare weak men.
     
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    #64 vengash, Nov 7, 2017
    A strong woman is an attractive character trait. But, can I can see how that might also be intimidating - to a fragile ego.
     
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    #65 L-u-c-y, Nov 7, 2017
    You don't look like you have a fragile ego.
     
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    #66 vengash, Nov 7, 2017
    That's because I'm afraid to give it away.
     
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    #67 Pietje12, Nov 7, 2017
    It is possible that I agree with you! To avoid generalization: weak women annoy me.
     
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    #68 Deleted member 53138, Nov 7, 2017
    didn't mean to offend anyone, please accept my unreserved apology.
     
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    #69 steviepie, Nov 7, 2017
    it's as meaningful as punishing a masochist.........
     
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    #70 steviepie, Nov 7, 2017
    appreciate your apology.......I like to see the women of CM treated with the respect they deserve (all women actually) - thank you
     
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    #71 subjames, Nov 7, 2017
    That may be true, Miss Lucy, although it depends on what kind of weakness You refer to - strong women make me weak, and fuel my desire to submit and serve, and given the right circumstance I can feel confident enough to submit, is she desires my submission, which of course is never a given
     
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    #72 Submissedtoher, Nov 11, 2017
    Yeah, no.

    After reading this thread the only thought that comes to mind is why must it be always so serious?

    You take life that serious and you'll never get out alive. No single way of sexual expression or lack thereof is "correct", that thought is absurd.

    My miss enjoys seeing my submissive enjoyment, be it sexual or not, so we stick to what keeps us happy.
     
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    #73 kickball, Nov 11, 2017
    Not just weak Men
     
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    #74 tiemeupalso, Nov 11, 2017
    I love strong women.nothing turns me on more than a woman that throws me on the bed and gets on top when she wants something
     
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    #75 femdomfan, Nov 12, 2017
    Fantasy yes, real world not really. I'm physically alpha, although women can't resist trying to top me. I'm one of the few males who can join the "me too" campaign against sexual harassment. A female coworker used to grab my ass on a weekly basis 20 years ago. Unlike those me too females, I enjoyed the groping.
     
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