Chastity without pegging, strapons or sissification

I'm looking forward to stockings and garter belts beneath a three-piece suit.

 

My wife and I have played orgasm tease and denial for about 9 months, and we have our kinks, just not those kinks. We love keeping me horny, on the edge, and totally submissive to her all the time.

 

We're into vanilla chastity
Tease n denial, orgasm control and that's about it. No milking, sissification, cuckolding. So far :b

 

hmmmm - yes, very interesting, indeed - and what did you actually have learned from them, dear Lucy???

 

It is amazing how peaceful life becomes when we finally give in to complete and permanent submission to female authority. Wish I had done it decades ago.

 

I am indeed. I love how assertive she has become and how naturally she exerts control over every aspect of my life. I am blessed indeed.

 

Hopefully that real couples indulge in wide range of different activities to that of a mistress who never even meets their slaves.

 

These fetishes are largely about satisfying males which I believe drops away after a long enough locking period when the focus comes back to where it belongs on the female. That said some women enjoy pegging for the control and others for the sensation of a well fitted device but I fear all too many are really just pandering to their subs. Alternately it offers a way to drain the male without removing the cage IF this is desired (but there are devices that do it with much less effort). Sissification seems to help with attitude. I'm not sure how healthy it is but many males definitely become more mellow and manageable when routinely dressed).

 

Just chastity as of now
Pretty open to trying new things although I think I would look horrible sissified

 

Just seen this thread.

Not interested in anything else.

 

I have done it with pegging, my then KH was able to orgasm quite easily through it and was into it to the exclusion of all else but oral.

Not now though...

If by some bizarre set of circumstances any of those were in some way compulsory I'd be unlocked permanently.
Sissification, CD, AB etc and cuckoldry etc are all some aspects of some relationship dynamics that have no interest to me, they turn me off rather than on and thankfully do not necessarily have to have anything to do with male chastity.

 

No strapon for us, yet. No sissification, but she was using toys on me long before chastity

 

Chastity only here. We enjoy using chastity alone. I have a steelworxx looker 03 so no getting out. lol. I wait till she "wants" me, that could be a week, or a few months. Neither of us have found any interest in moving to anything else. This has been progression thru chastity since 2012. Now I am in 24/7, 365 unless we have sex. Once done, I am put back in. That is enough for us. But we don't look down on anyone's interest. To each their own, and happiness is key.

 

For me, cock-locking goes way beyond the sexual element.

I'll make a bit of a confession here - I'm not a prolific masturbator and I haven't had physical sexual contact with anyone, male or female, for almost 10 years now.
I've been cock-locking for about the last 6 years or so, so clearly it's not stopping me from doing something I want to do or shouldn't do.

It's a peculiar state of affairs.
I'm of the opinion that if I keep my dick locked up for long enough, I'll finally figure out why I wanted to do it in the first place!

 

We are in a chastity only relationship. Works great for us.

 

Oh how things change. When this thread started, I didn’t reply, because I thought we were into those things. Turns out we weren’t.

She had pegged me a few times, but it’s been a very long time since, so I’m guessing it’s not something that’s high in her turn on list. She had bought me lingerie and sexual intimate wear for playing, but that stopped after a few attempts as well. She has admitted now that she thoroughly enjoys my weekly maid service, the running around pampering her, the clean house, and me being more toned down and subservient, but it has never been of the sexual nature, led to sex, or caused either of us to feel it was heading there.

The strapon isn’t a tool for pegging, it’s merely a replacement tool for our lovemaking, it’s not a fetish or meant for anything else, no different than a prosthetic leg for walking, or hearing aid for listening. Most of the time, her vibe does the heavy lifting, but when she wants to be intimate with me, to make love,and wants me to be the one to have that BIG O, it’s there to help me do that for her.

So at first I thought we were into that kind of stuff, but the more she has acclimated to doing exactly what she wants, the less we participate in it.

 

Just chastity for now. Possibly pegging and strapon play in the future. No sissificstion.

 

While I do enjoy wearing panties and butt plugs, I don't identify as a sissy nor do I desire being emasculated. I am quite masculine in/out of the bedroom. My main kink is orgasm control, tease and denial and chastity.

 

We're not into any of that. We've been into her peeing on me and me licking he asshole first a while, which is probably the most kinky things aside from chastity we do. I did take on her chores and she mows the lawn now. An odd unspoken arrangement, but that's about it.

 

We are in this category. Tease and denial is the main focus along with her being in control of my orgasms. Not interested in any other aspects. I don’t think this will change much over time but always open to experiment.

 

I used to think the kink was an important aspect of chastity but finally realized earlier this year that it's not (took me a long time to understand). Not that we're vanilla but it wasn't until I realized what chastity was about for my Miss and I that I realized how much more special chastity was than any kink that can be involved. Even though I/we still enjoy the kink that we do, it's really the chastity part that's most important to us both.

 

We don't do any of the other fetishes / kinks you specifically mention. For us we came to chastity via a Femdom / FLR relationship with domination, spanking etc.

 

She's not interested in panties or sissification. Occasional pegging, more frequent use of strap-on for her pleasure. She's only really Interested in the submissive alpha-softening effects the cage engenders and in assuring erections are for her use only.

 

No cuckold, pegging, strapon or sissi stuff for me.
I like the feeling of being under tension. My wife enjoys that she can arouse me very quickly and she also enjoys to decide when PIV occours.