30 days on, 3 days off

I like the idea of suspense in not knowing. It keeps the focus where it should be.

 

If m'y libido fade, I will not care about being caged or not.
I will loose interest about my kinks maybe I will grow vegies in m'y garden. For sure Î will have lost the salt of my life !

 

The best thing is those 602 days are history and now your slave enjoys 3 days every 30, in other words,he is now in heaven!

 

It seems fair to me. my Mistress / Wife has now decided that it would be best if i am allowed to bring myself to orgasm once during Her period. The rest of the time, i am to be denied. Should happen in a few days time. Will keep you posted.

 

As a self caged man, I agree with you Mistress Lucy . I have the keys, but don't use them even if there is nobody to stop me.
24th day today (before I never went over 20 days).... and I can stop whenever I want.
I could easily live uncaged.. But the cage keps me horny all day (and night) long and I like that feeling even if sometimes I lige to give me an orgasm!

 

Congrats on exceeding your 20days. I have read that the cage can be very stimulating. Thank you for sharing.

 

I like this system! I try to stick to this sort of sissy "period". To make it even more like a period maybe force him to have a certain number of orgasms or other stuff which makes him want to look forward to the "quiet" time locked up?

 

I like this system.

3 days is a fair amount of time. It allows him to take a breather from chastity.
Only if he had been on excellent behaviour though!

 

I think it very generous (3 minutes would be lovely)

 

I think it has been made clearly obvious to anyone that if you were thinking of asking Joro to be your KH you had better be damn sure you like being denied.... and yo have at least considered the possibility that she might choose to deny you indefinitely if not actually permanently.

 

Do what works for you or you both if that suits you as well.

It is definitely a relationship dynamic thing.

You might prefer he does not get out at all but he might be more like the sub you want him to be with those times out.

I do know of one couple where he is denied completely all year but when they go on their annual two weeks holiday they leave the cage at home, and another couple where she allowed him to choose the tme and type of orgasms he has with a catch.. 12 in the first year and one less every year. I guess they must be pretty close to none by now.

 

I've only been with my KH for a few days, but she says her schedule is 3 month lockups with a max of 20 seconds in between for wanking, subject to her mood and the slave's behaviour. She does seem serious. 1 month / 30 days really is generous.

 

[QUOTE = "Lucy, post: 215002, tag: 40235"] Tehát mi van, ha a libidója leesik? [/ QUOTE]
Nem hiszem, hogy ez a probléma, ha leesik a libidó.

De valójában ez növeli a szexuális feszültséget és a libidót a tisztaság ketrecében.
Ezt az erekció és a felszabadulás hiánya teszi állandóvá.

 

I think 3 days is way more than he needs. Personally, I enjoy wearing my cage as much as possible, and I would prefer to never remove it. During my initial long lock up, I was directed to try and masturbate with a 5 minute limit. It turned out that it wasn't even enough time to get erect, so I gave up at 3 1/2 minutes and immediately put my cage back on. I didn't attempt to jerk off again until I had to remove my cage at 145 days because of sore spots.

 

I take a different tack on this one Lucy. I say you are being particularly CRUEL to him. Here is why:

Once a man has reach a month of no orgasms, he body is rather well adjusted to that fact. By giving him three days of FULL freedom, he will inevitably masturbate and orgasm as much as he can. This completely sets him back so square one and his misery of the initial locking has to start all over again.

Now that I am on my 52nd day and facing an evaluation for release on Saturday.....I am actually hoping my wife sees a need to keep me from cumming. I don't want to go through weeks #1, #2, #3 again.

In other words, to me the most difficult "orgasm schedule" would be having 1 orgasm every two weeks. THAT would be the worst.

 

Indeed. As you plainly see, "days off" are not necessarily an act of benevolence.

 

I admire your new strategy!
You don't need to spend time physically teasing,by letting him free for three days he automatically resets his desire as explained by jasonpatalonis,avoiding the negative effect of loosing sex drive as mentined by Chastylady.
So clever!
Definitely a great motivation to behave and service you impecably during the lock up time!
Congratulations!