This sums up a lot of females experiences in the fetish scene

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    @Mistress Lucy , thank you for validating my concerns on instagram ;)
     
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    it sucks when it seems the only people that notice the damage social media can and does do is a bunch of kinksters.
    this needs to get around to the general public and especially the parents.
     
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    I have found in my experience most parents are either oblivious or don't care. It does sometimes feel like a losing battle but thankfully technology is keeping up. We have a DNS blocker on the router which is password protected. We also have a device that connects to all of the wifi devices, its a go through hub, which can also filter unwanted sites. This device also allows the parents to set time limits, bed time(which stops wifi from working), and I can pause the internet at anytime for any reason with a push of the button. That one always gets their at attention :D. We also have a strict policy of no devices or computers in their rooms at night. The real problem I have found is being able to block them but also myself being able to view my interests such as this site :eek:
     
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    david- 2017 Me July 2017 with Mr-S chastity tube

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    Wow! Is it really that bad? I will take your word for it. As an educated man, hard to figure.
     
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    Bicycling over people?? Is that a fetish?

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    @Mistress Lucy , come on! That has to at least make you giggle when you read stuff like that? lol
     
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    Mistress Lucy do try and keep up!
     
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    Maybe the first 1000 times.
     
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    i wudnt like to be runned over by a bike. eeeek
     
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    I have gone to pro dom's. and stated, I'm very open, what would you like to do to me! Only limit nothing permanent.
    Left before with my eyebrows shaved off.... She had a blast, I regrettted for the next 5 mts, not communicating.
     
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    A pleasant start to my Monday morning...

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    Mistress Lucy not sure why my gender is so crude... especially in trying to communicate. I love being pushed, and my thrill is not knowing where we are headed. Yes, I do have to ask for a physical scene ever so often! I absolutely follow her lead. I am a sub... never want to be degrading to there authority.
     
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    Yeah, I'd say I have to agree with a post I read earlier on this sort of stuff. A lot of submissive men are really repressed, and that manifests itself in some pretty strange ways.
     
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    They just don't care.

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    Where exactly are these guys getting your info to send this crap
     
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    It's funny how they always want to do their favourite thing "for me"...

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    First of all, what happens if the chef decides to dress like a race car driver........or an astronaut. Secondly, I would be interested if you would switch the blanket to a pillow case. Easier to carry around when wet....not so heavy
     
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    @L-u-c-y (Partner)

    1st - Hilarious video.
    2nd - I never would have imagined all the nonsense you have to put up with.
     
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    That's the tip of the iceberg.
     
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    Poor Goddess :(
    I can only image.
     
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    Desperation can do that for you. I really laughed at this one, but oddly felt a little sad too. :confused:
     
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    That's what I feel when I receive or see such odd messages, sadness and disgust.
     
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    After ready this thread I can't help but think if these things bother you @L-u-c-y (Partner) than why do you continue to subject yourself to them. These people can't send you their rude and inappropriate comments if you didn't have the door open to them. Or is their more to it and you Like the thousands of rude comments you get.
     
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    A lot of men when they first started into chastity may have been very similiar to the guy in the video but over time many of us can and will change. Their are also a lot of people that will never understand the pleasure of serving someone. The world is made up a lot of very very different people. That's just the way it is.
     
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    What?? To be clear, it's not just @L-u-c-y that gets messages like this. This is an incredibly common thing on every single website that has messaging -- I'm a writer and I've had rude comments sent to me from my business profile on Facebook. I've had friends tell me they want to stop using LinkedIn (which is supposed to be for professional networking and finding jobs) because they constantly get guys sending them sexy messages and trying to chat them up.

    Women on the Internet get harassed, messaged, and propositioned pretty much anywhere they go. And if we get on a dating site or a kink site, boy howdy, that shit gets dialed to 11. Friends of mine who are female submissives have had to delete their FetLife accounts after a few days because they are bombarded with crude messages.

    So, your solution is that women should avoid sites where men can send rude messages? We would have to avoid the entire Internet.

    Your message sounds like every person who's ever looked at a woman who was harassed or attacked and said, "She was asking for it."
     
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