This sums up a lot of females experiences in the fetish scene

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    I found this video online and edited it into a shorter version, it's uncannily true ...





    This is the original version...


     
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    This is amazing
     
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    I saw this first on here posted way back in 2013 by @sissy_maid_melody and as was said then, I wonder how many guys on the scene would recognise themselves, or more worrying, wouldn't recognise themselves.
     
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    I laughed so hard I can't stop smirking...especially love his little moves when he's talking
     
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    damn LOL I have seen this "guy" in the clubs. I have heard almost the same words and want to tie them up and beat their asses so they can see what a TRUE sub is. I have yet to meet a DOM (Male or Female) that wants to associate with a "sub" like this. It's just like the married guy that goes to the swing club and just wants to screw somebody else's wife or girlfriends. And their spouse or girlfriend has no idea of what they are doing.
     
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    Oh come on. Cant really be that bad can it? LOL
     
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    I get 100's of men like this messaging me every week, probably every woman does. I ask what them what they can do that is useful to me, Their reply is always their favourite fetishes - FOR ME.
     
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    I knew a buddy that was like that with gifts...only bought people things he liked.
     
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    Well I think you can chalk a lot of that up to just bad manners. You can probably blame some of it on porn. Porn has ruined the lives of many young men and I don't see it stopping anytime soon. Porn gives men the quick fix they need to get off, so why would this be any different to them? They see porn as degrading to women and something to be used to get off. So it probably doesn't even cross their mind to get to know someone and find out how it could be a mutualy rewarding relationship.
     
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    It's actually worse. They are so fixated on their own fetish that they can't imagine anyone not being into it.
     
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    I found this nice message waiting for me this morning when I got up...

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    Lucy my wife sees the same thing in the clubs both swing and BDSM. Do this to me or do that to ME and if she does answer it's usually I only want to do this to you and if their answer is I'm not into that she ends the conversation PERIOD. She has taken on a few subs for the evening but that is way outside the norm. As far as having sex with them that's even more rare.
     
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    This is why I have blocked at least 5000 on various sites in the last 4 years.
     
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    I don't now what happened to selflessness, it used to be integral to the submissive code.
     
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    Another pleasant message from a stranger....

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    When did respect for all women cease to be a concept the average male understood? I never even thought it was something a male needed to learn, I thought it was something we just instinctively knew, like it was a natural part of being a male of the species. There's obviously a growing amount of evidence that I've been naive all these years.

    I don't understand why anyone - a male - would say that, especially to a woman he doesn't even know, regardless of whether she is Dominant or not.

    I wouldn't mind rubbing his nose in some of his own.
     
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    This type of thing to me shows the sender to not only be disrespectful but also very lacking in intellect , morals and integrity and in reality instead of spending their time sending such messages would be far better served finding some very much needed therapy of some nature to correct their all to clear mental problems
     
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    It hits the mark. I get amused by guys on the internet address women as Mistress and thinking what woman would not want a submissive man to dominate. Although our girlfriend sexually dominated me when we were in the mood which became most times in our later years, I rarely called her Mistress even though that is how I describe here here. She liked to be called Mistress, but it just seemed weird to me. In my time a mistress was a married man's lover. Had nothing to do with BDSM. In my case she was my lover when I was married and then technically my mistress in the way I was used to using that word. Calling her a Mistress during sex did not feel right since in my mind she was my mistress in the girlfriend sense, not domme sense.
     
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    This is stranger than "dress me up like a chef and cornhole me with a rolling pin!"

    He seems to think I am a request show for some reason.

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    Those are hilarious. @Thatgirl gets her fair share of rediculous messages here at CM. Sometimes we have fun messing with the most egregious ones.

    I think a thread should be started entitled "The Wall of Shame" and the ladies of this sight should post screenshots of the inappropriate messages that they receive. A little public shaming might be a bit of a deterrent, and if nothing else it should be great fun to read the stupid sh!t that these dudes send.
     
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    welcome to the new world where children are taught nothing except how to use puters and phones.
    70% of communication is non verbal and with texting being the main source of communication in young people it is just going to get worse.
    people say things on the web they would never contemplate saying in a face to face talk.
    there is just no civility,respect,curtisey,etc any more.
    social media has made people ignorant of what is real and what if fake.
    i have seen many "quotes" from famous people that were never said by them .just made up stuff.
     
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    That is all true. However, some of the rudest, crudest and childish approaches I have had are from men in their 50, 60's and 70's.
     
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    Please say yes to this one. For the benefit of all mankind.
     
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    i can understand,it has effected all of society,not just the young
    what i meant by that was in 20 years everybody will think rudeness,disrespect,etc is just normal.
     
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