Any denied an orgasm for 6 months?

Five months.

 

@Vinny ... I'm almost to four months, my longest yet. The intensity is growing along with my Wife's/KH dominance. We purchased the smallest cage we could find last night and I told her that it may cause me not be able to have full erections any more. She said "What does it matter? You don't get to fuck anymore or cum so what's the difference?" She just told me moments ago that she's getting excited to see me in a super small cage. So I guess that my most recent intercourse with her back in the first week in March may be my last. I'm a little scared, excited, anxious and sub-spaced at the moment. I'll let you know how it goes. I wish her and I would have done this sooner in our relationship.

 

I've never understood the thing with getting smaller and smaller cages. Personally I couldn't do it. I can't handle/understand that kind of pain. To me, the point of chastity is just to not get to cum, and nothing else. The pain from too small a cage would detract from that. It's no surprise you say you should have done this sooner. I am still surprised by those double tickers reading: "I've been locked for XX months" and "Last ruined orgasm was 3 days ago." That's not chastity! Forget about "locking period", if you get to cum, ruined or otherwise, that's not chastity. Chastity should be understood as not getting to cum, period. Cheaters don't know what they're depriving themselves from. Personally, it took me 2 months to let go and fully experience what you're talking about.

 

Locked and no orgasm since November 2015

 

i was hoping to be on my way to 6 months or something close to that, but day before yesterday, i had an accidental ejaculation. Really not happy with myself, not was my Wife, to say the least. So, i wish i could comment on 6 months...maybe (hopefully) i can in 6 months time!

 

My longest was almost 200 days, but I'm not locked and normally, I'm allowed to edge regularly. My Owner uses hypnosis to condition and control me and She can get me close to cumming by only Her words. With a bit more training, I think, I will be able to cum hands-free on command...
She doesn't deny me so long normally, but I often offer to stay chaste when I have a chance to cum. I know how much it pleases Her and I also feel that depression after cumming. That's why I offered to have some ruined orgasms before I can have a full one again and She decided on 10. Way more than I had in mind, but I asked for it... my fault... that was in February and I'm only at 3 now. With that speed, it might take a year to get to 10...

 

In the few months we have played with T&D, 11 days is the max, and then I go over the edge. I'm working on it.

 

@Ormaz, yes I agree with you chastity is about not getting to cum or even have physical contact with your penis. However, we have progressed from just chastity into full FLR and a femdom type of marriage. I do all of the household cleaning and being slowly feminized by her. She loves how it changed my behavior over the last couple of years from a self-centered egotistical male to a docile bitch that serves and worships her.
Last night we were on our way out for a date night when my behavior wasn't fully what she wanted from me. As she was putting on her makeup in the car, she decided to put lipstick on me as I was driving. It instantly changed my mindset and became instantly refocused on her. She enjoys her power over me and uses it to her advantage.

 

Hello Sunny I was only thinking a few days ago what ever happened to you, for you have been very quiet of late. But November 2015 That is a marathon.

 

I was unaware of this aspect of chastity. I would have had an accident!

 

My last one was 15 months ago and I will never have another.

 

Why not?

 

Five months is my longest. Two months is average for me now. I never know how long it is going to be until my next orgasm. I'm well on towards a three month period of denial at the moment which will be my second longest so far.

 

I'm allowed one a year if I am lucky lol other than that locked 24/7 with one very quick supervised wash very Friday

 

Because she has no use for it

 

From May 8th 2016 till May 10th I was locked pretty much 24/7. I was allowed out only to clean/clear pubic hair and change devices, always to smaller cages except for one two day period for Jury duty which amounted to maybe 10 hours total. Not one erection allowed, not one orgasm. It wasn't easy but, both Ms. K/H and I wanted to see if I could actually do a full year after a 43 day lockup. As a C/D friend with far more experience at, in her case, self-enforced chastity until she asked me to be her key-holder. After seeing her go two to three months without requesting the key, I felt determined that I could do it. Fortunately, the smaller the devices got, the more comfortable the experience became. I simply took G's advice and went day by day.

 

I went over 6 months from November 2015 - June 2016.

 

A smaller cage is more comfortable to wear. It is also easier to stuff inside your pants. Sometimes it takes several iterations to get the right size. Also, sometimes a smaller cage is indicated in time as the body adjusts to the confinement.

It is not supposed to be painful, only uncomfortable when you get aroused. It is a reminder of your chaste state, and to submit to the restraint.

 

Hi @Vinny I have gotten nowhere near 6 months. My longest to date was 46 days, but I had several ruined orgasms during that time. During a recent family vacation and work trip I had to be unlocked for a little over two weeks. I was free to cum when I wanted, but each orgasm equaled one month with no orgasm. I had planned to stop at 2, maybe 3 at the most, but I did 6. So I might be in the same boat as you. Not sure if she'll see this through. I can't imagine waiting until Christmas to cum again. I guess it brings new meaning to a white Christmas though

 

Agreed and to add on I believe most guys didnt get their correct flaccid lenght or over estimated their size so the first few cages are always a litte too big.

 

Obviously the body's desire for an orgasm intensifies at first. If you do what ever steps you and yours usually take to prevent that starting to feel like your body really needs to ejaculate by any means possible then you reduce the chance of an 'accident' occuring. Then it becomes desire, lust, horniness. Your body still wants you orgasm and you start to feel that an orgasm might be an anti-climax.. Eventually you come to the realisation you have entered a really enjoyable enhanced state, as will no doubt your partner. If you are lucky enough to still have PiV sex during this time you get much better at not cumming, you'll leak pre-cum like a tap but it really helps. We could have sex all weekend and having not not come at all I'd still feel drained as though I'd been comming like a mad, and yet I'd still feel as horny as though nothing had happened.

Six months twelve months feel very similar you get used to it. Its been said already just do a day at a time and not every day is a challenge it does become easier. I know when I first started being denied I soon felt a little disappointment if each denial period were not a little longer than the last.

I'm not sure If I got used to it enough to consider permanent denial yet but even getting to the point where you can consider that from a slightly informed perspective it is pehaps some indication of how the longer periods of denial get you thinking.

In brief though six months is not as hard looking back as you will be thinking now looking at it.

Good luck with it I'm sure it will work out for you both especially as it is your lady's idea.

 

I have not had an orgasm sinse April 2016