Question about new device from Amazon

I can't help but noticing it looked like you were in the process of excitement. Put another way, your pictures looked like you were in mid erection only stopped by the cage.

This is not a pleasant activity. I have found erections bearable during teasing from my partner, but after I get the consequences for my large brain ignoring the pain and listening to the little one. On my own, they hurt, my brain says that sucks, and erection goes away.

You are a big fella, if the diameter and is right and your only short by half an inch in length, I can't see why it would cause that much to push out.

 

That is the most open designed tip I know of. You just need to be careful each time. Sorry but this is as easy as it gets. I suppose you could sit but then you have to wipe up pee dribble.

My device has a prong through my piercing, sitting is a must, or at least standing backwards and pointing it back. Just the cost of confinement.

 

well you just has to get use to doing a bit more when you pees. its not like being a man and just peeing now and you has to do it proper. Ladies has to sit and make sure they am nice and clean and now that what you has to do as well. i'm fed up of cleaning up after a mans gone to the loo.

 

There is no perfect device. Any pain that you are feeling is due to your extra sensitive penis skin rubbing against stuff (like the cloth of your underwear). It usually moves with your clothing, but now it's fixed in place and your clothing moves around it. It's something you are going to have to get used to. Also the urethra alignment issue is just part of wearing a device. There are only two ways around this. the first is an urethral insertion device (a different chastity device), which has it's own set of issues like urine flutter, or PA piercing, which again has it's own set of issues such as piercing size and healing time...

If you were to go to jail, your experience would not be similar to staying at the Hilton, getting your pillows fluffed every morning. Your penis is in jail.

 

There must be something lost in communication. Ball hook or no ball hook, you should not be able to remove the device. Being able to pull out the back is normal, almost every device has that flaw due to the penis because by so squishy. Or do you mean your penis can fit through the bottom gap where your balls sit. If you can take the device off...the ring and gap between are too big. At the very least it should be locked ON you, even if you can pull your penis out the back.

 

Joshers firstly let me say that I have bean wearing chastity devices for the best part of 15 years and some of the problems you are having are typical to a new wearer , I totally agree with Nicoftime on the ring size and gap , he is also right about the hook , this should not stop the device from being wearable, looking at the last set of pictures you posted I would say the ring is too big , what size is it ? Nicoftime did also point out that all of these type of devices can allow you to pull out of the back of them , and he is right , getting a good fit on these things can sometimes involve trial and error , rather than trashing the whole thing I first would try a smaller ring they can be got on there own , Macmagna also gave you good advice with reference to comfort , these things take time to adjust to and even with a perfect fit time will still be needed for your body to adjust , all these things are part and parcel to being locked , welcome to the world of chastity! , I can remember a time when I thought I would never get used to wearing a device full time but I did , so in my opinion your first step is to change the ring size , you could spend 10 times what you have done and still not end up with what you want , correct sizing must come first

 

It looks like a decent enough fit, and your issue is being able to pull out the back. Besides getting pierced to prevent that, no ball trap device can keep a penis or someone with the will, from pulling out the back. A penis is too much like a tentacle...it can back out, squeeze into, or out of anything. Think orgasm resistant not orgasm proof.

I believe your expectations for a device that prevents you yourself from cheating it, are bit too high. They are not perfectly comfortable, they will pinch and burn occasionally, morning erections will wake you up, and you can pull out the back if you choose to do so.

If you leave it alone, it will prevent erections, and keep you or other stimuli from touching it whenever you want...that's it. If you want more security you will have to be pierced...and I got news for you, even then most can still orgasm in them if they try hard enough or it's been long enough. Even mine that I've held a wand type vibe to, I could tell that if I invested enough time it would probably end in an orgasm. Then again, I would have to invest an hour or so trying to cheat a device I spent a lot of time and money on. What's the point.

Good luck in your quest, I think you've found what you were looking for, it's just not what you thought it would be.

 

Wow... It sounds like you are going to end up with quite the collection of chastity devices.... I have a similar, ahem, nice sized penis, and therefore finding a device that fits comfortably is an issue. Here is information that I have discovered that I hope you find useful... The first thing you need to do is get used to measurements in millimeters. The rest of the world uses this system, and these devices are not made in America, so learn how to use Google to convert. Second I purchased a device with an urethral tube which I do not use. Other people use them with no issues. I don't want to stick something in my penis and welcome a yeast infection.... Your choice... So here goes the advice... Disclaimer... Don't read beyond this point and don't do anything I tell you to do...

1. Get a smaller device. Like you, I'm 3+ inches flaccid but if you buy a device that is super comfortable when you are semi erect, then it will fall off when you are soft...
I got the A275-1 and don't use the urethral insert.

It reduces the profile while wearing clothes
Makes physical activities such as yard work and bicycle riding completely bearable
Weighs less, In fact because of it's tighter fit and body forming base ring, it simply becomes one with your body
Is a constant reminder (by feel of compression) that it is in place without causing arrousal (over time of course)
is an erection deterrent (I don't get them as often when wearing)
I only wear this during the day

2. Shave your pubes, or if you want to avoid ingrown hairs and bumps cut them much shorter with an electric razor with the shortest guard... Otherwise you are asking for pulled hairs, sweat and bacteria build up and probably 100 other reasons to cut the forest... Just do it.

3. In post 39, the first pic which shows you fully flaccid and installed you have a ton of room in the tube. Look I know that you want to make sure that you have room to grow, but that's not going to help you in the weight of device department which is causing your device to migrate South, exposing shaft, or with your pull out issue. You obviously have a base ring that is too large also, and because it's metal it weighs more too. You got good advice from @sissybitch about finding the correct sized device... Pay attention... The default size base ring (if multiple sizes are available) on ebay is 45mm... That's the size you get... Because most people are that size... This 45mm ring and 65mm length device is you r daytime device. It's meant to stay in place and keep you from making bad choices.... During the day. Just buy a new ring. They are like $9 on ebay...

4. Ok so you are a grower... Congrats. Don't go throwing away your device or chopping off the ends anymore... and then complaining about having to buy more devices. Keep your longer bigger device and put it on at night before bed. This way you your nocturnal erections don't cause as much of a burning sensation when your skin is folded and compressed by your giant manhood. If the rings expose too much skin, get a closed shaft device... They are out there too.

5. Yes you can pull out from behind. This device is a deterrent, not a Neosteel Chastity belt! Look, if you want to simulate the feeling of something more permanent buy some paracord and learn how to tie two knots.

A bowline
A taught line hitch

Tie the bowline to one side of the base ring, wrap it up and around your hip above your waist and tie the taught line hitch to the other side and sinch it up until it feels nice and tight but not too tight. Just enough to feel the weight removed is good. The device won't slouch and you won't be falling out of the back of your "too big for you" device.

6. Pee spray... Get used to it. That's part of the deal you signed up for. There is lots of room to wiggle your fingers in there and move your glans around to minimize the affect of the spray. Just plan on sitting to pee and wiping like a girl... And be sure to wash up at home every night because you don't want your pee smell to be another reason you don't have a girlfriend or wife.... Just saying...

7. I've read this thread from the beginning, and agree with you... You definitely weren't flaccid when installing the device originally. If you were, it wouldn't be falling off.

9. There is no perfect device. Just learn how to relax yourself and get down to a manageable flaccid state, stuff yourself into a 45mm base ring and 65mm+ long device and learn how to stop yourself from getting erections... By shutting down the porn. Use this smaller device for daytime.