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Take your time, its not a race. If you have a well fitted cage, it will become less uncomfortable with time. Your body will get used to it.

 

It took me 7 different cages before I found one that I was comfortable to wear long term. Have patients and keep tryin. It will be worth it in the end

 

You are doing well. It took me weeks before I could wear my device more than a few days in a row and months before I slept with it on. The morning erections should disappear as your body gets used to being locked up. Sometimes they are piss hard ons so you may want to limit your fluids for a few hours before you go to bed.

I used to use a pillow to put between my legs so I could sleep on my side. If you sleep on your side, try it. Now I am so used to my device that I can do just about anything with it on. I just passed for years of lockup so it can be done and you are way ahead of where I was at your stage so good effort.

 

Yes as others have said just take it slowly, when i had a balltrap type device i found it easier to tie a boot lace around the device and my waist to hold it closer it does help

 

I think a smaller cage would be more practical. Too much extra room in your pics.

 

Mistress B is right, there is no race. It is hard to not want to jump all the way in and feel the rush of being completely immersed in chastity.. Your body will tell you what is right and sometimes you need to fight through and tell your body whats right. I have had the same battle at night. Some nights its a breeze and I wake up smiling because I didn't wake up at 3am with the great balls of fire blaring in my groin! Sometimes I push through it but lately I have found that if I use a desensitizing spray Like JO for men that contains benzocaine as the active ingredient it helps with the flaming sack syndrome that plagues us.

Also as Lady B said a well fitting cage might be much more comfortable to sleep in. But don't rush and if it needs to come off it does. If you have a mistress administering punishment for such insurrections all the better!!

 

Im hoping when the new Queens Keep gets here from Mature Metal those problems will go away. It has a much smaller cage than the CB6000 I use now. I was going to get the Short cage from them but figured why burn another $70 on that if I know the natural progression is taking me into longer term lock ups? Might as well get the custom fit bad boy and slap that shit on the dick and balls and call it a day!

 

I ended up getting the shorter cage before getting a custom one. I wanted to see how the shorter one felt and if I needed to go shorter. to me it was worth paying $70 before I spend 300+

 

I can't understand that. I've had the cb6000 for almost 2 years and used it intermittently. It never felt right. My wife has recently really embraced this lifestyle so I figured what the hell lets do this. I'm all in at this point. At the end of the day I didn't like how wide and sharp the angles were on the CB on the ring and on the bend of the tube. I hope it's a good play!