Uploaded photos is to be approved from now on...

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  1. lock667
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    Never mind I found it.

    For others...

    Click the album title
    Scroll down
    "Delete this album"
    Choose on the dialog and click OK.
     
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    I LOVE the bee costume...

    A real female in a provocative frock. Is that so terrible?

    Leave it ALONE!
     
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    Too late, it's gone :)
     
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    That is the trouble once you start deleting stuff . So now hundreds want to see what was so offensive about this frock and thus you end up with havoc. Because history has been rewritten !

    Xx Wendy
     
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    Oh well, the world will keep turning :) This is not some government run archive, get a grip!
     
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    That , is in , part where you are soooo wrong.
    This is a legacy site where we work to keep as much material just as it was posted.
    When you start editing and deleting stuff threads become vertualy meaningless .

    Once you start rewriting posts and the like you loose the reason why people who after all are what any thing like this is want to participate.

    Xx Wendy
     
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    What? English, please. It's not difficult.

    I think what you're trying to say is that members shouldn't have the right to delete their own gallery images? Seriously? And what's this "we" stuff? I assume you're referring to the actual moderators. I'm sure "they" will allow members to edit their own pictures.
     
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    My Dear boy
    Wrong on all accounts I am afraid.

    I was talking about the situation that prevailed some while back when threads were reduced to scrap with mods deleting and rewriting them.
    In this context some body took exception to a photo that by all accounts was nothing outrageous at all . The owner did delete it because they possibly felt pressured in to doing so.

    That is very wrong in the first place.
    Secondly as it is now the subject of posts in a thread , naturally people would like to form their own opinions on the image.
    The unwarranted deletion makes that impossible.

    Xx Wendy
     
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    Whatever you say, old chap. :rolleyes:
     
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    I deleted the photo because it had nothing to do with chastity, I've deleted all my photos that are not relevant to the site. I think it's a good idea.
     
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    I enjoy reading on this site on a regular basis, but I am not overly active. From my experience however I would say that it's quite natural that once you get really involved in a community pictures tend to become more personal - beeing less on topic (of the site), but showing more about the person and their life.

    So if your goal is just a place for information about chastity your currend agenda is great, but if your main goal is a growing and thriving community you might want to rethink your strict agenda for offtopic pictures.

    LG Astarte
     
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    Very succinct and apposite,

    Or as some may say who have been involved here for many years - Spot on :)
     
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    You seem to assume that these are opposite goals, which is unwarrented. A growing and thriving community can be a place for information about chastity as well. You can always start a blog if you want to show off your life to people.
     
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    Surely this site is mainly about text and discussions, not showing off other fetishes.
     
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    I have a lot of foot fetish photos but I don't post them here as they are not relevant and it would be an abuse of the gallery. It's part of my "journey" and I have got into it through my involvement with chastity.
     
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    Are You picking my brain Billus? :) Only comment would be that moderation of photos has to be given a second thought, I agree...... But as I said at the beginning of all this. We are testing this for a week, and then we will evaluate and discuss...:)
     
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    For one part I woud find it interesting how anyone would want to differ chastity from FLR or BDSM amd therefor decide what kid of BDSM pictures are ok which are not.

    But I wasn't speaking about BDSM-, fetish- or any other kind of explicit pictures in the first place, but rather about more personal pictures that are not allowed anymore, too.
    A picture of your baby you got some months ago or a picture of the custume you made for carnival you want to share with some of your friends here...

    Nothing to do to wih chastity, but in its way it strengthens the community and binds (ties ?) people.

    @Billus: If only pictures with chastity or certain fetish context are allowed at least in the picture section limits the options of evolving the community.
     
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    Stop for a second. As far as I can recall I have made no rules that keeps you from posting photos like that. Don't jump into assumptions. We are currently testing a moderation of photos, to ensure copyright, to avoid wank fodder, and female degrading photos, and to avoid too many photos of th same motive is being uploaded. We use a lot a diskspace and processing power on image handling. Hold your horses.
    But it should come as no surprise to anyone that this is a forum revolving around male chastity. And Male chastity comes in many forms....
     
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    Sanity is required in this thread. The Mansion is a chastity site and almost 99.9% of chastity is male chastity. Obviously the chastised male will post a picture of his cage. What we do not want is hundreds of pictures from the internet that male members have seen and have copied in order to arouse other males. Not only are these pictures taking up space they are breaking copyright laws.
     
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    I have to agree with @Mistress B - nobody is talking about 'abolishing' non-chastity photos. But as I suggested in my post on the previous page, overindulgence is the problem. Let's try not to jump to conclusions.
     
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    @Administrator

    I think the answer to your question is becoming apperant .
    As you said 27,000 members however only about 3 or 4 are in favour of all this censorship and curtailment of what type of pictures you can upload.
    This is about the 4 incarnation of this topic I can remember and the results are the same . 3 or 4 want rest think it's a bad idea .

    I wonder how many more will do what I did was to hard delete our photos because trying to work out if they were acceptable at all or what section they might fit into , rather than get abuse .

    To my mind the answer was simple just limit the number .

    However we seem to be past that point with all that this and that section stuff.
    Moreover I think for new folk CM is becoming rather hostile in omg so many rules and pages of stuff to read about do's and dot's.

    Sadly I think it's a done deal . Yes there might be more people stopping by but I wonder how many will get past 5 or 10 post ?

    We shall see.
    Xx Wendy
     
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    My take on this is . . . Is it really that big of a deal? Get over it and move on. Adapt and overcome. Were getting wrapped around the axle of something that should be a non issue.
     
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    I just went the easy route, I deleted my pictures, I won't upload any more. No muss, no fuss. I think I have a tumblr somewhere, maybe I'll post there instead.
     
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    Can't we all stop over reacting to this and get back to the thing that makes the mansion so great? This is the sharing of experiences, ideas and supporting each other through the myriad of different ways that make chastity a paradoxically brilliant way to live. If you get to the core of what is being said all you get are simple and obvious rules. Don't have a dick pic as an avatar. Don't have images degrading to women. (Duh!) Don't upload a wank bank. Don't upload loads of captioned images collected on the Internet that could be hosted elsewhere, like Tumblr.

    The pictures are a minuscule part of the mansion and nobody can argue that most aren't very imaginative. They can however paint a brilliant picture of who you are. In amongst those images you can have pictures of you wearing a bee outfit, a meal you have cooked your Wife, the feet of your Mistress, whatever. They just have to be posted with sensitivity and following simple guidelines.

    I'm getting fed up with the arguments. Just recently this place has become a bit less friendly and that makes me sad.
     
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