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    Hello all.
    I've ordered my first chastity device and am picking it up later today.

    I tried to engage my wife in the subject about 3 months ago. She is very 'vanilla' and pretty much said don't be stupid when I said about getting a cage. We have an awesome life and little boy but my sissy tendencies are coming out so much lately. I get that I can't be a full time sissy to a vanilla lady , she'll be in so much shock but I've ordered a cage anyway. I get away with minder around the house and she is always on at me to do more household chores, if only she knew I would if she ordered me too. Anyway Point of post is ...
    Is it still the same even though I have the key ? I know it can't be but can it still be fun ? I plan to wear at work all day , then take it off for family life at home. Hopefully it'll put me in a 'submissive' state and I'll go home and help out more.
     
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    Hi Paul, Welcome to the site and good luck on your journey. Will you be in a position to wear the device for long periods with or without your wife knowing? I found this quite difficult when I started before a had the courage to ask my wife to be my keyholder. Holding the key yourself is not quite the same. I found I had no self control! Let me know if I can help. I have 'held' the key before for a couple of people by the wearing sending a photo of the device locked with a plastic number lock. Each day they send me a photo proving the same lock is still secured until I said it was ok to release..... There is no need to disclose an address or email as the photos can be attached to a private message. Wearing it during the day can be fun but there is nothing like not being able to touch yourself for days (and even weeks and months!) at a time.
     
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    Hey thanks for your reply .
    Nice one,
    I really applaud your efforts in asking your wife to be key holder. How did u bring it up ? How did she react ? Is it 24 hour lifestyle now or do u both just play ?

    I'm so intrigued . Wish I had the courage to ask her to be my KH. I just tried on my s57 metal cage . It's decent but I managed to slip myself out of it . So bit disappointed . I know most can be 'cheated'. Not sure how to get around that. It sort of defeats the object I know , if I had a KH I 100% wouldn't try and get out . Don't think it's gonna be much fun on my own . May just throw it away.
     
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    Thank u X
     
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    xcitedsisssy cd/sissy michelle

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    Hello @SisssyPaul and Welcome to the Mansion
     
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    Welcome SissyPaul. Hope you will like it here.
     
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    Cheers
     
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    Ta X X
     
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    HI there @SissyPaul - wishing you the best on your journey!!!
     
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    AlanThom Hi, I'm Alan.....

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    Hello @SisssyPaul, and welcome to the Mansion. Hope you enjoy it!!
     
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