Usually I'm not uptight about my device being discovered, but right now my wife is sleeping after a pretty extensive inebriation celebration last night as we are celebrating our Anniversary at a super elegant and amazing resort, so the concierge has my keys to my car and so I don't have the emergency key at hand and I have a massage booked that I'm going to in less than an hour, so I'm not sure what I should do. Usually I get a massage naked, but I might wear underwear this time. I don't want to inadvertently involve someone in my kink that doesn't want to be. On the other hand I don't really care all that much and I wonder how upsetting it would be if someone saw my cage on the massage table. What would you think? What should I do?
Worst case scenario imo, they will laugh internally. How upset can someone get over a chastity device? It's not their business anyway. Go for it.
If you had personal tattoos, what would you do? So don't think, just go for it. Naked What others think is their business, not ours And who cares what they discuss behind our back? Of course this is my personal opinion!
My Darling struggles with the same issue. I have teased him and told him he would not get released, but later released him for the appointment. It really shouldn't be a problem since the masseuse probably has seen worse or had worse propositions. If you have to wear it, leave your underwear on and I bet if they notice, they don't say a thing.
i tend to agree with the whole not involving others in our kinks. Maybe I'm prude but it's not something I think that should be pushed on people not in our lifestyle, in my humble opinion
I would think that if you are thinking about your cage you cannot relax and that is what massage is about. Also, in the face down position there would be some discomfort. One more thing is that in a professional massage the client should not refer to sexuality. A CB does refer to sexuality. It might make your therapist uncomfortable and you could lose your therapist. Maybe on the other hand it doesn't matter....but don't women take their ear rings off for massage? Ss
Update: I eventually woke my wife up and asked for the keys, which probably wasn't necessary as the masseuse was German and my feeling is that Germans tend to be a lot more fetish tolerant than most nationalities. She demanded that I get totally naked though and holy crap her fingers got with in millimeters of my cock and I'm pretty sure she saw all the equipment. Upshot, I took it off, nobody is the wiser, I got a really nice massage(was no more relaxing than a good session of yoga though.) If it was the same lady I am pretty sure it would be no big deal to have my cage on, but I doubt I'll be there any time real soon as it was a bit pricey to go there.
I know I am dusting off an old thread, but I am not allowed to remove device when seeing a massage therapist. And, this being southern California, my wife and I get massages a lot. So far I'd guess maybe 6 different therapists have seen it. All women. With ZERO exception, each one was delighted at the discovery. Puzzled at first, delighted when I told them the purpose. One of them even invited in ALL of the other therapists to see it. Embarrassing, but my brain made it erotic after some time went by.
I’m still struggling with this idea. I’m sorta at the point where I don’t care that much. It’s sorta up to the person doing the massage really. If it’s going to upset you that much then you shouldn’t be looking. The more discreet HTv3 will be less of an issue as well. IMHO
Let me tell you how I deal with those situations (massage, airports, hair removal, etc.). There will be an initial embarrassment but that will take only a few seconds, then (in my mind) he/she will become the hero of the day as he/she will have an interesting day and some great stories to tell his/her friends. So anytime it is one on one I kind of feel that I'm doing him/her a favor.
I guess I can only address everyone's questions to my experience as, " you simply must experience the Thai massage places in Lomita, CA to know what I am talking about." The questions of ethics, etc......just don't really apply in these places. They run on their own value system. And this is NOT to imply that the women are prostitutes or in any way "lesser". They just have a different view of nudity and the handling of the male.
Queen and I have a spa getaway in January. This has me excited to find out if I'll be locked or not during! We also talked about an extended lockup leading up to our getaway...thinking about how crazy a 2 hour massage will make me before a long anticipated release!?