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    #1 MDsh, Jul 13, 2015
    A few weeks ago I told hubby that from now on he was required to wear a bra full time. Whether at work, home or out in public, he was required to wear a bra along with the panties he was having to wear. I felt it was important that he always recognize his place and role and by wearing a bra it would assist in that. I have seen a noticeable improvement in his submissiveness over the last three week. Has anyone else tried this with their hubbies? What was their reaction?
     
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    #2 karent_50, Jul 13, 2015
    Hello MD

    Fulltime bra wearing is also part of my submissive sissy's dress code. Has been for a while now. It was introduced gradually over time. This gave her time to adjust to it, and to find ways in which it could be done discretely. First at home, then when out in public situations where it posed less risk, and then eventually fulltime, even for work and such. I also did it to reinforce and provide a constant reminder of her status and role, even when I wasn't there.

    You are absolutely correct in that it has a very strong impact on her attitude and behavior. Even after all this time it still makes her nervous and keeps her on edge, worrying someone will notice. The tightness of the band, feeling of the straps, and the ever present self conciousness provide the constant reminder she is my feminized sissy slave. You can also vary the impact by the bra you select for her each day.

    There is also a website which explores this in great detail.
    http://brassiered.com/brassiered/imagine.html

    PM Me if you wish to discuss this, or any other similar topic regarding our sub husbands.

    Karen
     
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    #3 Joroincharge, Jul 14, 2015
    Have you thought of making it lockable at the back?
     
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    #4 MDsh, Jul 14, 2015
    Thanks for the response. So far I have allowed him to choose which bra he wears. He has a traditional lacy bra and three sports bras I have bought him. I love that he has to choose what works best with his outfit for the day. At work he wears a suit every day with a white t-shirt. What I have found interesting is that he will sometimes wear his bra to bed even though I don't require that. It is cute to see him come to bed in a pink nightie and a bra.
    I actually have! LOL
     
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    #5 DonnaSue, Jul 14, 2015
    I actually tried on my Mom's bra when I was 12 or 13 and have been fascinated with them since. So, when Mistress first talked about me wearing a bra, I heartily was on board with that in a second. I just love the hug of the band and the tug of the straps all day long. Mistress thought she was humiliating me by making me go for a bra fitting, but i actually loved it! Recently she ordered me some silicone breastforms so that I can have as much projection as Her (see my avatar), but that's not for underdressing my male clothes. I love underwired bras and love how feminine they make me feel! I think that a bra should be part of every sissie's daily wardrobe!
     
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    #6 lock667, Jul 15, 2015
    I like wearing a bra, but I'm concerned the straps will show in the back under my shirt. I'm wondering if a sports bra might be a better way to go as I'm going to be in an office environment soon. So far the absolute lowest profile I've found are bralettes, but there's still that gap over my spine, plus the findings on the shoulder straps.
     
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    #7 MDsh, Jul 15, 2015
    Hubby has to wear a suit everyday in the office. Between wearing a t-shirt and a suit, the bra lines don't show. Now when just running around town in a just a golf shirt, that is a different story. But I just made him put a cuckold sticker on his car, so a little humiliation is good.
     
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    #8 im283, Jul 15, 2015
    My wife loves it when I wear a bra, she especially loves it when I wear it to bed for sex. She says it makes he feel like she is with a woman when she feels the band and straps. Sometimes I wear it under my clothes, so far only in cold weather where it can be hidden.

    I have two. One is strapless, she bought it for me a few years ago, and the other is padded and extra sexy. We bought that when she took me on a lingerie shopping trip. That was one of the hottest times ever. Me wearing my cage and my dicklet straining against the steel the entire time. Good times!
     
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    #9 SirenSong, Jul 15, 2015
    Intriguing. What's a cuckold sticker look like?
     
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    #10 MDsh, Jul 15, 2015
    Here is a link to the cuckold sticker. It is not overly obvious but if you know the lifestyle you would know what it means. Hubby told me he is now looks when people pass him to see if they are going to be looking at or laughing at him.

    I also ordered a Hot Wife sticker for my car he had to put on my car this past weekend. I already had two people drive by and honk and wave at me. I will need to get the link to post that sticker.

    http://www.cafepress.com/mf/99853651/the-happy-cuckold_sticker?productId=1609215907
     
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    #11 Joroincharge, Jul 15, 2015
    Or one of these by the rear window
    http://www.zazzle.co.uk/cuckold_t_shirt-235318245106669027
     
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    #12 MDsh, Jul 23, 2015
    Hubby was wearing his bra and was going through security at the airport to head home yesterday. He told me he had to go through the body image scanner at the airport and they pulled him aside to pat him down. I guess they saw the bra on him through the scanner and had to check it out. I loved it.
     
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    #13 Joroincharge, Jul 23, 2015
    Did the scanner also pick up the lock at the back I wonder.....................:)
     
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    #14 MDsh, Jul 23, 2015
    No, I haven't locked it yet and since he was traveling by himself he had to be able to get one off and back on.
     
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    #15 DonnaSue, Jul 23, 2015
    Those TSA people don't know what to do with a guy wearing a bra. Once, when I was pulled aside to a private room for a "personal scan" they didn't know whether to send a female or male TSA agent to do the scanning. I just told him outright that I was wearing bra and the agent ran the scanner over me and politely said, "Your'e clear to go!". Since then I have not worn an underwire bra through the airports and have had no problems!
     
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    #16 DonnaSue, Jul 23, 2015
    For undressing my male clothes in the office environment, I use a front hook bra with strap adjusters in the front or a sports bra. That way, there's no unsightly bumps that show through on the back from the hooks or adjusters. A sissy must do what she has to do!
     
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    #17 Kepoke, Aug 30, 2015
    I had a girlfriend at one point that would always make me wear her bra's when we would have sex. It was such an amazing turn on. I loved the feeling of her sissifying me! Wish my current wife was on board with this! :D
     
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    #18 Dana Fleming, Aug 30, 2015
    My Mistress got me into a bra many years ago. In fact I feel naked without one on.
     
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    #19 MDsh, Aug 30, 2015
    Thank you for the feedback. It has been a little over two months with him wearing his bras. He now has a nice little collection, he even bought a new one last week out of his allowance. So far no major issues, and he has worn them every day except when family is around and twice at work for various reasons. The only time he has been "caught" was he went to pick up dinner and forgot that he still had his silicone falsies in and he said that the lady working the cash register looked at him quizzically. I love knowing that when we are at the house, he is the one generally wearing a bra and not me.
     
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    #20 Joroincharge, Aug 30, 2015
    Have you now made it lockable (you hadn't yet a month back)? BTW even while this site's been down I've occasionally been going into your blog -- is great!!
     
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    #21 MDsh, Aug 30, 2015
    No, most of the time he wears a sports bra, so not very easy to lock him in, plus the lock would show under his suit. I can tell if he is wearing it day when he takes it off at the end of the day. Good to hear from you.
     
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    #22 Joroincharge, Aug 30, 2015
    LOL! BTW am longing to see his contract. Got to be an ace blueprint for others....especially combined with a POA.
     
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    #23 MDsh, Aug 30, 2015
    Sounds good. PM me your email address and I will send you a redacted copy. Would love your thoughts about it. Every year I plan on redoing it, and this year I will be eliminating his right to have sex with me once a year.
     
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    #24 Joroincharge, Aug 31, 2015
    Sending you a PM. Will gladly give you my thoughts. Won't be able to comment objectively on enforceability though as law in Texas mayn't be same as England!
     
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    #25 Joroincharge, Aug 31, 2015
    And BTW, the subject of contracts has been one in my mind for years.. As I see it, it can't be enforceable in England (don't know about Texas) so I tried to think laterally. Thee is, somewhere on CM, a long thread on the subject, with examples, and I put one suggestion up several years ago. Should still be on the site.
     
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