I sort of feel off about writing in this forum. Now because I am embarassed or anything but just because I hae no idea what to say. When Mark first came to me about chastity I was angry. The way he presented it to me was all wrong. I felt like I had somehow failed to make our sex life enjoyable so he had come to this. After talking more once I calmed I thought it could be a fun thing to do. So as we became more interested in it I looked online at it more and got even more into it. Then he decided to buy me books on the subject-again I though wow I'm doing it all wrong now on that front to and this is what he's done. Men-when you bring this subject up to your wives please think it through so that you do it in an unhurtful way. I was not against chastity at all just the way it was presented to me made me feel like a failure. Now we are past all that and will soon be receiving our chastity device. I find myself excited but also nervous. I wonder what if this really isn't for me? What if I do it wrong? What if...? So I guess I will wait and see what happens next.