New to Such Sexual Satisfaction

I am relatively new to the tease and denial/chastity lifestyle. My past relationships were vanilla, to say the least. I never felt comfortable asking for anything sexually and repressed any notions of anything outside the sexual norms.

My boyfriend, Nicoftime, revealed his submissive wishes early on in our relationship; however, because of my lack of knowledge, I didn't really understand what he was telling me. Then in May, he brought up the subject again,telling me that tease and denial was one of his kinks. He also revealed at that time that he had purchased a cage and wanted me to be the keyholder. At the time, I was honestly intimidated, but at the same time, I loved him so much that I would try anything if I knew it was something he wanted.

Since that introduction, I have read lots of blogs and even some erotic fiction. I would say I have fully embraced my role as keyholder. The tease and denial and chastity lifestyle (at least in private) has created a solid foundation for our relationship and has opened our communication to a level I have never experienced. I have learned about and acted upon repressed sexual desires I have and have gone outside my comfort zone to experiment. I have never been so sexually satisfied. I cannot imagine abandoning this journey we are on together; yet, I still have a lot to learn. I am looking forward to sharing (some of) our experiences and learning more through this site.