Uncaged...How do i keep him submissive.

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    As the title states, my Locked Boy is now unlocked from 4-6 weeks so his shiny new 8g PA heals. Problem is that he is an alpha male who is really only kept submissive by his cage....so my job is now made harder. And I am worried about when the time comes to put him back, he will not want to go back in. Any ideas from other KH or guys who have been thru the same thing? Much appreciated!
     
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    Or.......4 weeks of freedom v lifetime of chastity....

    So cruel......
     
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    Ask him if he was unhappy with the cage on. State that you are unhappy with it being off. If he was unhappy, with the cage on and is now unwilling to wear a cage to make you happy, a serious discussion needs to be had. You state what is necessary for the relationship to work for you and give him a choice. If he values you and relationship, there shouldn't be much of an issue.

    From what I've read in other posts, you've got a form of domestic discipline relationship. If he has an otherwise alpha personality and allows you to discipline him, he must value the relationship. Lower the tolerance for him stepping out of line.
     
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    I suggest getting some kind of ball weights that bolt on, like the split collars. Have him wear one of more of those while healing. They will help him stay in the right mood.
     
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    No reason why he can't wear a locking cock ring or Kali's teeth while healing :)
     
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    Something which can be remote controlled shockable and locked on his balls. A bit like what's in my avatar. You can adapt a remote controlled dog collar.
     
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    Thank you, actually he liked being in the cage, but of course after being out for a few days, his mind begins to reset.
     
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    Well
    Well, I'd get him that but we actually got him pierced due to the varicocele that he has being aggravated by the cage since it was a ball-trap style. HIs balls already hang low and are susceptible to swelling from the varicocele, so i wouldn't want to make it any worse...we may want kids in the next few years:)
     
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    Thats right! Good idea! I will look into that today!!!!
     
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    I've thought a lot about this, was one of my main concerns with getting a piercing. Since I am so different without the cage, I didn't want to fall out of my fuzzy feeling for that long. And on a selfish note, I didn't want my KH to decide that this wasn't for her anymore. Kind of a heavy dose of reality might make her just not like the effort that she puts in to teasing and denying. My only sollution that I could come up with, is to chat with her, tell her I will need daily texts, chats, and some submissive things to do to keep me all fuzzy and owned. She said she would. I think, and I might be wrong, but by the time it's ok to masturbate, he could put on a steel cage that wasn't a piercing cage(his old one).
     
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    Well, we tested it out this morning, and suffice it to say...he has no problem orgasming while his piercing is fresh. The bleeding stopped the day before yesterday, so we decided to test it out this morning. Of course no touching of the piercings to any of my naughty parts, so only hands were used. Now that we know he has no problem, i think a Kali's Teeth Bracelet is in order while we wait for it to finish healing. Going to be looking at them today while he is at work.
     
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    I like that one the most!!!!
     
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    Me too! Just gotta keep it off his piercing and we are all good!
     
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    He could wear panties to remind him who has control and he is not to stray. Yes a remote dog trainer locked on as a cock ring works wonders. Even made a piece so that it could be used in the end of the penis. It does get our attention.
     
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    I'm like your guy, I resist chastity even though I know it's for my own good. I have to literally be forced back in sometimes. Don't worry, when the time comes, just be super adamant and seriously persistent, don't take no for an answer and you will eventually have him locked back up, only this time, there will be no escape possible.
     
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    Make sure the one you chose is as light as possible. Typically the metal ones are far to heavy for wearing more than a few hours. That is why the one I designed (and is sold through Princess Circe) is made of plastic nylon.
     
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    Can you send me a link please?
     
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    Hello that girl I have a few questions if you don't mind if you don't want to answer any of them that is fine. First is you sub uncut and second if uncut will there be any issue with getting a device that will suite a person with a piercing and who is uncut.
    The reason I am asking is that I would like to go down that road myself so like most people here I am following your progress very closely.
    thanks in advance. Spider203
     
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    Hi there Spider, My boy is cut, so we don't have that particular issue, but if you search Evotions Wearables, they have cages that suit men with Prince Albert piercings that are uncircumcised. Hope it helps and let me know what you think. We are getting ready to order from him once we take measurements for a few days.
     
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    thanks for the info, I did not know that ☺
     
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    You are very welcome, good luck!
     
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    The KTB looks like it would work OK (not risk slipping down to the piercing) on a "shower" penis, but if your boy is more of a "grower", he may turtle in some circumstances (e.g. plain cold, or even mental state that causes a sort of negative arousal effect) and thus retract within the KTB...
     
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    Sigh...he is a grower. That sucks that would happen:( I found a customizable KT-like device earlier on today that I think may work. We shall see.
    http://www.clubfem.com/mcd1.htm
     
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