how to tell if he is slipping off his cage?

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    smile he has been disciplined already before i caged him did not help
     
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    he was caught meeting someone idk how far it went as i cant trust him to tell me the whole truth. i was going to end the relationship but we came to an agreement. he is young and he is learning the diffrence between reality and the fantasy. him fantasizing about me have complete control and experiencing it in real life are two diffrent things. this us my last an final effort to save our relationship. he is not forced. he can end the relationship
     
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    Quite difficult to be sure with a cb3k. Have you considered upgrading to steel, e.g. Mature Metal?
     
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    his job has a medal detector medal is not an option
     
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    Well, he is forced in that it's that or lose you. What I mean is he's not choosing chastity because he originally wanted it. But from what you said he is submissive and wants you to have control, so it works as part of that.

    From everything I've read though, no 'behind the balls' device can be truly secure. Maybe if he's very well endowed there are options, but most guys can soap up and slip out unless they are pierced. Lots of discussions of the anti-pullout devices all over this forum though. Not an issue for us so I never read them but I'm sure there's lots of advice on making it harder, but it'll never be impossible IMO.
     
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    Ah.
    Pity. There are some anti-pullout extras may fit the cb3k - I will see what I can find. Also, though I've no experience of it, maybe Holy Trainer's better. Otherwise: is piercing an option for you?
     
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    Ah.
    Pity. There are some anti-pullout extras may fit the cb3k - I will see what I can find. Also, though I've no experience of it, maybe Holy Trainer's better. Otherwise: is piercing an option for you?
     
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    smile im looking at my options anything is possible
     
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    Superglue ;)
     
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    lol ouch
     
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    I agree, get a steel device with a urethral insert or just get him pierced. I think you're right to correct the matter.
     
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    I have a KSD G 3 for BF's CB-6000. He can't get out of it. They these thingys called 'points of intrigue'. You might try them for security. They come in 3 different sizes. BF looked at the biggest 2 and let out his safe word. I put the smallest set on him. It was real hard for him to get out and he couldn't get back in.

    I use chastity something like you do I didn't catch BF cheating or trying to, but I started it to get some peace of mind when he gets a few drinks in him. Since then, I've used it for discipline and to control him masturbating, which I don't like and I don't like him looking at pornography, either.

    Like yours, my BF is not a willing subject, but he does let me put him in chastity to please me. I don't keep him locked up all the time. Unlike yours, he will be honest with me if I ask him something, even if he knows it will get him a spanking or chastity time. I've found combining chastity and spanking to be effective. A little while ago, I got a wood paddle that's proven real persuasive at controlling him looking at pornography and masturbating. (If I see pornography on his computer, I presume he's been masturbating).

    Like yours, mine can't wear his on the job. although I see yours can wear one that's not metal. Mine can't wear any kind on his job. If his job allows it, you might have him wear a bra and panties under his work clothes. If he wears a shirt and tie, tell him to keep his coat on. I use crossdressing to help me control BF, since he's more submissive when he's dressed in women's underwear or clothes. Mine can't underdress on the job, but he'll do it when he gets home to please me. Also, when I first started dressing him, I had intercourse or did oral on him, so he associates putting on women's underwear with ejaculating. It's not hard to get him into lingerie or a dress.

    I'd try these things.

    1. Make him wear bra and panties under his clothes he wears to work.
    2. Get the security devices from Kept for Her.
    3. When you do let him release, if the volume isn't what you think it should be, give him a sound spanking. I'd get a good wood paddle or a tawse thingy for it. I used to use mostly an old big wood hairbrush and a tawse on BF. They were effective, but once I got this one wood paddle, it has been more effective than anything else. He's even begged for extra chastity time rather than get the wood paddle. He hates chastity and used to choose spanking over it, even if it meant getting spanked in front of my friends.
     
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    smile thanks for the feedback i will look into it.
     
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    A couple of things that may help if he is backing out (not just vibrating an orgasm right in the cage)
    http://www.lockeduplove.net/product/CB-insert

    I also remember (but can't find at the moment) an adaptation of the "ribbon" method that had a bar (metal though) that went down the tube and lassoed the head of the penis so if you actually do pull out, there is really no way to get the head of the penis back in the lasso even if you slide back in ... I would imagine that a plastic version could be made ... zorglub (look in his photo area) has made something similar to hold the Tether spout.
     
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    I use the KSD-G3 as well and can't get out, very secure.
     
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    well thanks for all of the advice and help and I'm happy to say we are doing very well. he wearing my panties to work now and comes home dripping from the g-string that he feels all day. i don't know how to thank everyone for the enormous support i received here this is such a great community
     
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    install a camera............
     
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    Dont they do POI for that cage still? Points of Interest. That would make it harder.
    They make it harder to escape and get it back in.
     
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    Just as a side note, my titanium device has not set off any metal detectors. I have gone through them at courthouses, airports and several other venues.
     
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    I would say, if a man wants to extract his penis to masturbate, he will almost always find a way. My lady and I tried several devices before we came to buying a Mature Metals Jail Bird. Even though I wasn't trying to escape, prior devices simply allowed my creative balls to find their way out by themselves. We both agree a piercing isn't in my future, so a better device had to be found.

    I can see with the Jail Bird that it would be difficult and painful to attempt to free my penis from under the base ring, and just as difficult to reinsert it afterwards. Because it's custom fitted, there is no room for doubt that my formerly slippery testicles will not fit through the gap between the base ring and the cage ring. The cage curves down and pushes so firmly against my scrotum even cleaning that space is difficult. The MM product can also be fitted with nubs and features that make escapes painful and even dangerous to attempt.

    All that said, I'd have to agree that a determined man with an unstoppable desire to free his penis would be difficult to impossible to stop. A better device will make the process more difficult and painful to attempt. Best of luck, I hope to hear what your final solution will be.
     
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    A piercing would help. As keephimcaged mentioned, a vibe would still work to make him cum, although the orgasm wouldnt be as satisfying and would make him even more desperate to touch the forbidden fruit!! Good Luck achieving your goal.
     
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    I'm going to have to disagree with you on this. I'm required to use the KSD-G3 anti-pullout piece with the CB-6000 and I have genuinely attempted to pull out and failed every single time, regardless of size or lubrication at the time. I swear on my life I can't pull out of the device no matter how hard I try and I've tried everything short of cutting the plastic off.
     
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    I also have a reverse price Albert since recently. What device are you planning for it?
    I still can't find a good one.
     
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    Hypnosis is an option for chastity security. It seems hard to believe, but it can work. I have posted in some other threads on the site about it.

    Here is a free file for insuring that subs stay in their non-piercing chastity belt.
    https://www.warpmymind.com/index.php?gadget=HFiles&action=GetFile&file_id=7771
    Note, you will need to register with the site (free!) to get access to the download link,

    You will need to sandwich that between an induction file (generic get you down in trance audio) and and awakener (generic time to wake up now command). Here is a link to a free file that includes both: http://esuccubus.com/content/sound-sleep-induction-and-awakener.

    Esuccubus (i.e. Mistress Elena) created all the files, so the voice stays the same. She has generously made them free!

    So, set up a playlist:
    1) Induction
    2) Keyholder's Binding
    3) Awakener

    Have your sub lay down, get him all relaxed, put in the headphones, and press play. That's it! If it works, you will now be able to trigger the chastity belt security on and off with a word, and potentially gain access to a couple of other handy commands (some are more difficult to implement than others - but security is easy to get running).

    Hypnosis is a skill - some people are naturals at going into trance, others need a bit of practice to get the hang of it - especially when you are not working live with a hypnotist. Esuccubus.com has lots of free files of various content for newbies, and there are a ton on youtube as well. You might want to have your sub practice a bit before doing it for real.

    It also may not work the first time. Give it multiple chances before giving it up. The results can definitely be worth it!
     
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    Wish you guys the best!
     
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    We found that with this type of device, a wide-ish snug fitting metal band/collar can be slid over and up the penis towards the root before witting the device together. If he does manage to pull his bit out then it's not possible to return it intact along with the ring.
     
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