So, in our evolving sex life, my wife has become very comfortable with constant denial, which is just awesome. We're in between devices at the moment, as none are as 24/7-able as advertised. Our biggest hang up now is my constant denial has me highly aroused, and she can only use me for 5-10 minutes at a time before I can't stand any more and I have to stop, or risk an orgasm. Is anyone aware of some penis sleeve/sheath toys I could use to dull my sensation? I've suggested the use of a condom and oragel/lidocaine style numbing solution, but to use her words, "condoms are icky", so we need a different solution. It is a bit tricky, as my penis is basically exactly as large as she can comfortably stand - in particularly deep positions, i've hit her cervix before, and ended the evening festivities prematurely. So, what we're looking for is essentially a very thick, silicon-or-similar "not condom" penis sleeve. Any suggestions?
Emla cream is what you need. Mistress has me take viagra first then has me apply the cream using a cotton bud through the bars of the cage ranging from 15-30 minutes before removing the cage. Then she watches me amusingly has I struggle to make the now numbed cock get hard. Thats the reason for the viagra, it will get there in the end...then once its hard we put a normal condom on. 15 minutes it has not quite numbed it, 30 minutes and it is very hard to get hard...depending on how evil Mistress is feeling. I cant even tell I am in there its a very strange feeling to take your cock out and see thats its still hard, when you cant feel it. Of course thats also Mistress favorite time to give me 30 seconds to cum....either by penetration or by my hand I still cant do it, I over did it once and caused myself a minor injury which i could not feel until the cream wore off, and I still could not get there. While mistress likes it to be completely numb (including balls and all), you use a bit less if you want to maintain some feeling.
Again, condoms are out, as per the lady's decree. No desire to intentionally inflict nerve damage on myself. If i determine some methods to do this without condoms which are also SSC, i will post them.
Try using a penis extension no thicker than your girth. Used properly she'll receive the pleasure and you won't feel much of anything other than the psychological please of seeing your extra large porn star cock
You can still use emla cream with no condom....after 25 minutes take a shower and wash the cream off, you should be nice and clean for your lady anyway....or if you dont want to take a shower use a wet towel to wipe it all off, its not like its poisoness and after 25 minutes its all but been absorbed into your skin anyway so even that is probably unnecessary, its worth a try....It will stay numb for at least another 30 - 1 hour after its all wiped off. I suggest leaving your base ring on if possible. I rotate mine so the lock part is underneath. We do this for two reasons, one is that it doubles as a cock ring, and its possible to get hard even when numb especially with viagra....and two as soon as she is finished with it you can put the cage back on more quickly.
You could buy her a Hitachi magic Wand. There's no need really for anything else. Penetrative sex isn't really necessary unless you want to become pregnant.
Hitachi finally made a cordless version that is just as good as the corded one and gets used quite often ... http://www.discrete-sensations.com/...gged-Rechargeable-Massager/sku-CNVELD-VHIT270
Mistress does not really like her Hitachi much, she prefers the wee vibe. I guess everyone is different. She gets me to kneel between her legs keeping myself hard while she uses it and brings her self to just over the edge then will decide if I am to give her oral or enter her. Whether I cum or not is discretionary, Emla cream of course making cumming impossible. Mistress has never allowed me to bring her to orgasm, by hand, cock, tongue or otherwise....I am allowed to arouse her this way but not bring her to orgasm, but participation is pretty fun and leaves me feeling high either way.
@Mascara^Snake i totally disagree! Surely someone as "worldly wise" as you should know better! There is no truer and more intense way of connecting with someone than making love... Penetration , holding, kissing, touching, caressing, as the words imply, making love to that special person. Just because your man is in chastity does not mean this cannot take place. As explained above, emla cream is amazing and means you can both make love without the worry of him cumming. It's a no brainier really, I love the stuff and it means we both get what we want
@Gwyidion We have a blue penis extender @Mistress Deborah bought this while on a shopping trip with @Wendygirl its called a gym boy - made by oxballs i believe http://www.uberkinky.co.uk/oxballs-gym-boy-cock-sheath-91828.html?___store=defaultuberkinky&acc=41 Mistress absolutely loves it and it frustrates me soo much - there is a good 2-4 inches between you and the rest of the extender so no stimulation to me - just to Mistress good luck Lucy x
I know Mistress Deborah but I just can't help teasing the male submissive contingent here. just a bit. Sometimes xx
I am made to wear a strap on with the large "ripplerer" in place. My strap on harness is made for men, so she feels my weighted junk tapping her as I'm thrusting... She loooooves it!
@Mascara^Snake well that is a very poor answer... We are talking real life here, real people, real relationships not a bit of teasing. This guy wants real advice not a load of cheesey bollocks! You do talk crap sometimes