Over the Thanksgiving holiday, i was allowed out of my cage and i've been out since. Life is not good in my house right now, Ms. T wants the chastity relationship back, i'm very hesitant. I just can't seem to get back into it. We've talked about it a lot, she doesn't like me this way, wants her attentive guy back. Has anyone else stopped for a while and had trouble getting back into it? What's the best way? Thanks
Are you truly a slave to MsT? If so then you should be abiding her request. If you are just playing, and aren't really submissive to her at all then you will just have to tell her you are no longer interested. I'm sure youre hesitant however by your own admittance life is not good in your house now and she dosent like you this way. You will be fine after a day or so when you get back into your chastity.
If neither of you've made a commitment to the lifestyle then I don't see why it would be a problem. Alternately if one of you has, or has made an assumption on the other's behalf about their commitment then there may be a problem (I can talk to this from experience).
What was it like when you were locked? Did Ms T keep you aroused or teased in any way either psychically or verbally? I find that being ignored takes all the joy out of chastity. A strict slave/domme relationship where the husband is in a device simply because he is ordered to may not be everyone's cup of tea. At the risk of pissing off some of the more strict dommes here, might I suggest a conversation with Ms. T about your need for her recognition to make chastity work and get back the husband she wants. It's worth a try if you think teasing might get you back where she wants you to be.
We did the same thing recently. Its cold weather right now and Im escaping my device so quickly,My testicles shrink rapidly in the cold so i wore two sets of Underwear to keep em warm but as soon as i went to the toilet and exposed the Boys to cold air WHIPPPP they recoil and i escape. So i asked for a short break until the weather changes and my Wife agreed. It lasted 7 days and a few hours before She said "Put it back on NOW !!!!, When i asked what's wrong She said she didn't enjoy her oral sex when i was free she needs my frustration to enjoy it nor did she enjoy her dildo while i was free. I noticed a sudden drop in my permission to give her Oral so i knew something was up before she spoke. So im back in my device. I don't think she will ever want to go back to the way it was.
She didn't tease me as much as i would have liked, but we're both very busy, so i get it. We talked about it and i think we're good now. Been locked for over a week and things are going well. i had some corner time the other night, it really helped me find my subspace.
next time there is a problem just read all the posts about the people that would trade spots with you in a heartbeat. having someone in your life that cares enough to lock you up is a blessing. i know i would trade a lot to have someone like that in my life.