What do you feel like when she comes and you don't?

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  1. lockedUp24byKH
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    lockedUp24byKH Yes Dear...Right away.

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    Other than really horny to the point of Hulking out in my cage im quite fine with giving her pleasure and receiving no physical pleasure.
    Giving her all the pleasure sustains me quite happily.

    We have a monthly intimacy schedule (long story) where she receives pleasure on her selected nights but if things get in the way of this (young Kids) (Sickness) etc. then its the next night or its simply a make out session and off to sleep.
     
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    This is my favorite reward. I feel aroused, and content seeing feeling so much pleasure.
     
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    I do feel the same as do after I have an orgasm. I am calm and no longer horny for a few days. I like to stare into her face and hold her tightly so that I can feel her orgasm. I like it best when she has an orgasm without teasing me first as I find the teasing to be very pleasurable and without that, it is more just about only her.
     
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    So,well,said
     
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    MrB8tr This makes Mistress very happy !

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    It took Mistress awhile to fully embrace her FemDom role but now she enjoys it immensly. I have been locked and denied now for 156 days, previous long was 234 days and Mistress says she sees no reason to change that. Mistress says that me unloading her balls does nothing for her and just makes a mess.

    Mistresses daily routine is to have slave clean her upon waking ... she will facesit me and since she is a squirter she loves to give me my "breakfast drink" before getting ready for the day. If we are around the house she usually makes slave clean her around noon then again before dinner and always before bed for the evening.

    Mistress will sometimes tease slave through his cage and try to get slave hard. Then it's always required that she is satisfied and thouroughly cleaned before bed.
     
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    Usul fear is the mind killer

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    For the past two years it is most often the case that she cums and I don't. Anymore that is just the way I like it. It almost cheapens the experience to cum myself. I honestly prefer my release to be separated from hers. Like a reward she felt I deserved for one reason or another. But when she needs to be worshipped I am much more intent on keeping my focus on her needs, and giving her as much pleasure as I can. I feel an emotional connection to making her happy, and that is the only thing I like connected to the experience. It feels more genuine that way.
     
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    That's exactly the experience I hope my wife and I to have some day.
     
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    I feel ambivalent. On the one hand I feel proud that I am allowed to do that and that I am worthy of pleasing her.
    On the other hand I am ashamed and humiliated because she shows (and says) me in round terms what a worthless wimp I am
     
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    Slave to Wife Nobody Important

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    I feel happy in seeing my wife dominate and control me. It is like the more dominant she is the more I respect her for embracing her ability to control me using sexuality.
     
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    I must admit i almost forgot how great it is to please my dear Lady by licking Her most ladylike parts. But since my little one has to stay in its cage i desire to enjoy Her with my services. Feeling Her orgasm is gives me pleasure as if i came by myself but without the bitter taste of losing sexual interest. Instead i wish to kiss her, touch her and, if She likes, do whatever She needs to come once again.
     
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    oakbisubmwm RobynRed

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    Satisfied...happy...proud...and a little bit sticky.
     
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    I have a mental orgasm along with her and find it very satisfying
     
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    I have a mental orgasm along with her and find it very satisfying
     
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    jemima maid for my Mistress

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    yes and me as well.
     
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    I prefer giving her oral to intercourse... I have busted knees and it hurts. I feel do empowered when i make her cum thru my efforts. I find expecting or wanting an orgasm detract from my efforts.
     
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    BlueEyes The lifestyle pumps in my veins...
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    I smile when I realize that I breathe heavier and tremble more than she does - when she climax .-)
     
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    So did I...
     
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    What a fun thread! I LOVE nothing more than giving my Queen climaxes while being denied pleasure myself. Sexual pleasure that is because I receive the greatest pleasure serving my Queen! Doing so.. giving her pleasure … climaxes while I receive none makes me feel valuable like a tool in her toy chest of items she chooses to use for her pleasure. Last night after I received my wine enema and laser treatment I had the honor of giving my Queen two oral climaxes… I was really trying extra hard to please her as I have three wonderful new corsets I am dieing to try on!! BUT Miss says I have not earned it yet!!! My climaxes, even when I have earned them, belong to my Queen… The only happen when and how she decides… we have long since found that is the only way it works!

    PET
     
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    I really enjoyed reading this. It has been months since it was replied to so hopefully some other people will see it now.

    I experienced something wonderful and extraordinary a few weeks ago, and have done a few times since. I had brought my Wife to an orgasm with my tongue, my hands holding her breasts while her muscles rippled under my arms. After she had cum I lay next to her, my mind in a state of pure bliss. My body was twitching, especially my legs, and my skin, head to foot, was super sensitive.

    This was way beyond anything I had ever experienced with my own orgasms. It was biggest click moment yet, all of a sudden I understood more about why chastity was so powerful. Last Saturday I used this experience to finally explain to my Wife why I did not want to cum, because doing so let this feeling of euphoria fade. I would still enjoy pleasuring her, I always have preferred cunnilingus to PIV sex anyway, but I would not feel like this after an grams for several weeks. My Wife has used that description to decide I no longer need to cum. Whether She means that in a permanent sense I do not know. When I asked her if she had thought about how long I was going to be denied this time she simply said I don't need an orgasm any more.
     
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    jemima maid for my Mistress

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    dear @Jasmic68 yes its ever so nice and it one thing that i'm still allowed to do and i love it on a Sunday morning when i'm allowed in my Mistress bed. i have had my tonge stretch as well.
     
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    Arghhhh I hate typing on this sodding iPad! Auto correct fail! Obviously I meant 'an orgasm' not 'an grams' for crying out loud.
     
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    Wolfeeh Chaste for a year

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    Well, the two aspects for me; physical and mental; Physically I am usually very worked up and If I am in chastity (usual) then I have a protracted period of intense pain from my tumescence that doesn't dissipate until at least 10-15 minutes have passed - I usually go smoke a cigarette to take my mind off it. If this occurs during one of my quitting smoking period that 10-15 minutes has often surpassed 20-30 minutes.

    If I am unlocked at the time I usually sneak off the bathroom and chuck one out quickly (very very quickly) and problem is solved.

    Mentally though - if locked I feel satisfied and happy that she has cum... If unlocked I usually feel annoyed that she has neglected my orgasm!
     
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    Just 2 nights ago, she let me in her for the first time in a few weeks. She had one small orgasm compared to her moaning and screaming when I use the big black dildo on her. Now I'm sitting here locked up, wishing I could beer licking her clit and fucking her with the huge toy.

    Hurry up and get off work...
     
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    Wolfeeh Chaste for a year

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    I know what you mean. Penetrative sex (with me) is invariably unsatisfying for my wife and it's getting rarer and rarer now... I think the last time we had any was our anniversary last year (9 months ago), though she will fully admit that that particular occasion was VERY satisfying (we were both drunk as hell and had been partying in the city and were staying in a very luxurious hotel suite).
     
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    Lockedwithlove I am my Queen's toy

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    Ironically I almost always get to cum when mistress does. There are only a few occasions that I have been kept locked while I pleasure her. I loved making her moan and eventually brought orgasm while my penis couldn't get any bigger than my device. It's funny that I wish she wouldn't let me cum as much as I get to but I love the anticipation.
     
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