Just something I saw in the paper recently. A sex survey revealed that 82% of men, fantasise about watching two women make love. Curious, isn't it, that they hanker after a sexual activity that effectively renders them obsolete.
dont speek for all males.i am looking for long term gratifaction. i will take short term if it comes along.
Hi Mistress B - do you have a link to either the article or the study, I'd be interested in taking a look. I'm especially interested in seeing what question was asked and how it was worded, that led to this conclusion.
Hello. Perhaps the male fascination with female to female sexual pleasure is rooted in the general mystery of the female anatomy? Sure, we can read, we can be taught and we can look at pictures but for most men it still remains a challenge to find just what pleases a woman. Most of the anatomy is tucked away neatly with all of the "hot spots" hidden away. A naked woman could be standing in front of a man and most men could not identify if she was aroused...of course, the same cannot be said about a male--our "dumb stick" (as I have heard it affectionately referred to by some women) is a tell-tale marker. It really does not take genius to physically please a man--everything is out there. We also generally ejaculate and we are done for a while. It is fascinating to see females drift off into an erotic fog and just keep going and going to exhaustion---it is slow, sensuous and passionate with crashing wave after crashing wave of climax. It is a beautiful thing. Chastity and "lovemaking" like I do with my "Wife/Mistress/Keyholder gives me a tiny taste of this (I think) and it is mind-bending even though my orgasm is not permitted. I just love it when she keeps coming back for more. Yes, I guess female to female lovemaking does render males obsolete (as does male to male lovemaking render females obsolete), but thankfully forces beyond our control do drive us to go beyond pure sexual pleasure to propagate. allaboutHer
While it is an interesting theory i doubt that it applies to most men. I'd rather guess they imagine jumping into the situation and playing with both women at the same time. I think men, with all their psychic complexity, are rather simple when it goes to satisfying the own desire.
Although the porn I watch the most is BDSM. I tend to gravitate to women on women. I'm not completely sure why but I'm guessing aside from BDSM it doesn't take specifics for me to get off. Lol.
Two women one man is close to the ultimate male power play fantasy I'd say!!!! There are those on here who have done it.... kudos to them! But to have the "balls" to satisfy two women at once..... well.... can't get much more male than that in the stereotypical, strong-male normed society!!! With the absolute kindest regards. J.
My theory on this is that most men get cut off from thier feminine side at a very young age- we don't get to be sensual and soft; we don't get to creams and lotions and bubble baths and so all of that gets put on women they become our surrogate sensual self and so when we watch two women together, on some level, of them is us
I think it's possible that men tend to be self serving when left to their own devices sexually. In my opinion two guys seems more abrupt and selfish in nature. I guess I'm trying to say that to me women are interested in sharing pleasure and are concerned with mutual enjoyment. Two guys seem to want personal release and thanks. THIS IS HOW I interpret the situation. I believe men find woman on woman appealing because it allows them to vicariously experience feelings they otherwise would not allow to surface. The Aussie lady should have a field day with this
In my view it's really not that complicated. Most men do find women attractive. For them sexual interaction, sexual acts and women are synonymous with pleasure. In general the average heterosexual man is not interested in watching men having sex. The rest you can figure out yourself.
Aha, I think I found it: http://www.independent.co.uk/life-s...ow-common-is-your-sexual-fantasy-9835480.html
Very interesting indeed - even more "interesting" is that having his package locked away doesn't figure at all Maybe the researchers in Quebec have not come across the concept - yet
I think part of it is just that voyeurism is great, but for a straight male it's more fun to watch a woman do something sexy than a man.
That's the Female rate - Male 53.3% And there are a wide range of flavours in "Being dominated sexually" And it goes on to list a whole range of activities some like "Being spanked or whipped to obtain sexual pleasure" would drop into that. So a bit of an assumption there I would say.
another interesting point, which i realised at the latest LFF is that all of the caberet acts are women, therefore based on lesbians or straight men. I have seen nothing with men, either topless or nude
It's the same at Burlesque shows - there are men but they tend to do comedy routines while the ladies, who invariably run the shows, are changing their costumes. And the guys certainly don't get too undressed. The ladies on stage also often aim their words at the ladies in the audience, while putting men down to some extent. I suppose that to both sexes the female form is generally far more attractive than the male one - particularly with no clothes on at all.
there is no doube that the female form is more attractive to most people. i know i love it even though i am curious about what it would be like to have sex with a male.