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    Hi E/everybody,

    My very hot wife and i are a professional couple in our 40's. We have a son in college and a son in high school. We've been married for 25 years! Our sex life was always missing something. We would go many weeks without intimacy. Of course i was taking care of my needs on a frequent basis.

    Recently, I decided to tell her about FLRs. She knows i have a very kinky side, but she never guessed i would be interested in chastity. I told her about it and she was really open to the idea. I told her how it makes men more attentive and obedient, facts that she had trouble understanding at first. I went ahead and ordered a BON4 and locked myself up. I gave her the key and we were off! Within 2 days she was noticing the change in me.

    I've always been submissive, but nothing like this. I was doing dishes, laundry, mopping, cleaning her car, painting (which i hate) and drilling down on the honey-do list! She was loving it! We bought a couple books on chastity and she began to understand it more. Now she's out of control! We now have a wooden paddle, which has been used on me many times. The damn thing hurts! She also shaved my back, ass, and private area while I knelt in the doggy position, we watched gay male porn together (she wants me to service a Master while she watches! OMG!). She made me admit that i wanted to be a bottom for the hot guys in the movies!

    i've been ordered to wear her lipstick red panties to work, but i refused. I'll pay dearly for that one when she feels better. I have also had to write out a full list of fantasies and review them with her. I have many, but she didn't balk at any of them, which really surprised me - even the one about heel training.

    I have provided many oral orgasms over the past couple weeks, without reciprocation. This kills me! I'm in a CB6000 now and there's no room when things get stiff. Now day 13 and i don't know how i will make it thru the night. But at the same time i don't want to cum. This is the strangest feeling; some kind of mind fuck!

    I hope to be released this Friday night, if i can make it that long. i know where the key is and i could probably get away with it if i tried, but i would feel so guilty that it wouldn't be worth it.

    Enjoying our new journey!

    MsT's Slave
     
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    Congrats!
    If it continues as it seems it will..;-)
    I highly recommend you moving up to a custom device..
    Perhaps a mature metal..
    Best of luck in your journey and again congrats to both you and your wife!
     
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    I have heard of changes taking place with chastity in many FLR relationships but being pimped out within 2 days seems a little rapid. Heaven knows what will be taking place in year or two.
     
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    Wow, that is some change after only two days. You two are lucky. At my age, it does not stop being normal and becoming chastity, until two weeks have passed. My wife rather follow than lead and that is the way she wants it. We switch roles for sex play but it is just that, roles and play. My wife says that I am a great husband with or without chastity and who am I to argue with her. :) Last week she had me wearing panties and this week she could care less. We are who we are and we will never undergo such personality changes as you two have in such a short time. Heck, not even after a long time. :)
     
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    O no! i'm sorry if i wasn't clear, we were just exploring the fantasy, not actually pimped out in 2 days! That would be pretty scary. She has my best interests at heart and i'm sure would never do anything that drastic so quickly.
     
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    Hey there locked,
    metal won't work for me, i travel a lot, so i have to stay with plastic. 120 days is amazing! Just a couple weeks for me and i'm already looking to break out.
     
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    [QUOthat's exactly what were looking into, and yes this will certainly be a new path forward for userwill, post: 116299, member: 37111"]cked120, post: 116250, member: 33182"]Congrats!
    If it continues as it seems it will..;-)
    I highly recommend you moving up to a custom device..
    Perhaps a mature metal..
    Best of luck in your journey and again congrats to both you and your wife![/QUOTE]
    Yes, thats[/QUOTE]
    Yes thats
     
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    @Herwill would you mind explaining what the above comment is all about.
     
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    Hello Mistress B,

    i was responding to your message: I have heard of changes taking place with chastity in many FLR relationships but being pimped out within 2 days seems a little rapid. Heaven knows what will be taking place in year or two. i just wanted to be clear that she was not pimping me out.

    Ms T's Slave
     
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    It's good to resist the temptation of an accessible key.
    Personally I prefer the head-fuck of not even knowing where it is. Which is just one reason why self-locking is a poor substitute.
    The emergency one yes but that would inaccessable without it being obvious it had been used
    If you are past the initial ....can I wear this all day stage, I'd ask, in whatever way would best appeal to your lady, if she would mind not leave the key where you can get to it easily. as you feel it is distracting your attention away from her.
    I see nothing wrong in appealing to your partners vanity a little if you honestly believe it will enhance an experience for either her or you both.

    Then again maybe she wants you use or try to use it as some kind of test or maybe a prelude or justification for something else.

    Maybe she is already fucking with your head, maybe not... damn now you are fucking with your own head and she may not even know..or does she...damn it..

    Some ladies have been known to be very devious in that regard, but delightfully so.. and it shows you that she is enjoying herself too and even if fa less than you'd hope or imagine that she may have or or is thinking about TTTWD when you were not with her..
     
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    I know exactly where the key is.
    :rolleyes:
    It is the only key to the lock on our device and it is at the bottom of the junk drawer in her dinning room cabinet..during week days i am
    200 km away from that key. ;)
     
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    @MsT'sSlave That's fine, it just appeared from your thread that things were progressing rather quickly.
     
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    Hey everybody,

    Just a quick update. Today is day 16 for me and things are going well. Amazingly, the extreme hornyness has subsided, thank God. I'm not even noticing the device now. My Mistress says i need to learn how a submissive acts, i don't seem submissive enough for Her. We have a teenager home and my mother-in-law staying with us, so it's hard to do anything outside the bedroom. And we both have our own things to do around the house. I've been trying to take on more chores. Today i cleaned her closet and arranged all her shoes, did laundry, made the bed, cleaned the toilets, as well as my usual things like skimming the pool and fixing some things around the house. I also cut some flowers from the yard for her.

    What does it mean to be more submissive? What should i be doing that i'm not doing? She doesn't always want to be bothered with our new arrangement either, so it's a delicate balance.

    Any advice is welcome!

    Thanks,
    Ms T's Slave
     
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    Great job passing 16 days.

    Ask the Mistress what you can do! Communicate with her.
     
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    Yep, we had a long talk today. Good advice. Why is your mood set to depressed?
     
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    Just one of those tuff chastity days. But almost through it.
     
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    Restarted the clock on Sunday night. We had fantastic sex, Ms. T was super dominant and i loved it! So my current record is 16 days, aiming for 3 weeks this time. We'll have the house to ourselves for at least a night then and she's promising to be EVIL :).

    I've really gotten used to the device, hardly notice it and i've stopped complaining and whining, which she appreciates. She wants me to buy an artificial pussy so she can watch me fuck it and stop on command. There's a great video of this on the net, which involves numbing cream. Ms. T promises no numbing cream, she wants me to feel every thrust, which will make stopping so frustrating!

    Ms. T's slave
     
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    We wrote up and signed a contract last night. I was able to pull different stipulations from various contracts here and around the net, then we made our own edits. It's a very strict document, i hope i can meet the requirements. Ms. T is very serious about this arrangement and I love that! We're doing great in our relationship now, this may be what the doctor ordered. She's more beautiful than ever and i'm way more attentive than i've ever been.
     
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    I licked my Mistress to an intense orgasm last night. She was watching gay male porn (this is new since our chastity arrangement) on her Kindle and she needed a release. After she was done, I was practically begging to cum, her response was to kiss my forehead and tell me how well i'm doing with this and that i may get to cum someday soon. OMG! My balls were aching. Mistress was kind enough to paddle my ass to get my mind off of things - that paddle hurts like hell!

    Today i feel fine, no orgasm and i lived - as Mistress said i would ;-)
     
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    Love that vid!!!!
     
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    Just a quick update, since it's been a while. I am shocked at how seriously Ms. T is taking our new relationship; this is no longer a game! I've had my ups and downs the past few weeks, I find myself struggling with not being able to take care of my urges like I used to. I find I'm talking back a lot and not being as attentive to her as I was when we started. I find I'm feeling sorry for myself more often too. I've been given a few ice cold showers and several paddlings lately - neither are much fun, btw. I also failed to wear panties to work last friday, which was a direct order. I LOVE panties, I just can't seem to make myself wear them to work! How do I get over this? They make me feel so submissive and they are a constant reminder of my status, I wish I could just leave the house with them on, instead I chicken out, then get in trouble with my Mistress.

    Ms. T had a nice orgasm while I was out today, which made me jealous. Of course I've had a lot of them myself over the years, so she has some catching up to do. Still, I want one myself!

    Would love input from he forum, anybody else going thru these things?

    Thanks!
     
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    nice post . love how your wife makes you watch porn to keep you hot .. but question : why gay porn ? going for 15days for me too ..my wife unlocked me whenever she wants sex ..( she 's doesn't like dildo , she said she needs the real thing ) ... and licking her just make her more horny and wanting sex ... so the teasing side of chastity get limited for me ..
     
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    Hiya
    I guess you are still not over that period when you are still horny but not yet trained enough not to want to cum.

    The only thing I can say say it will happen and you will zone in .

    Which is worse the paddle or how are you doing these cold showers old skool but no fun.

    Just try and keep busy ,not sure why it is so difficult to wear knickers to work , bad boy .Especially as there are so many guys the world over would love to have to !!

    Xx Wendy
     
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    She seems to like gay porn! I suspect she's building up to something for me though.
     
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    I'd always fantasized about wearing panties, so I don't understand why I'm resisting either. I suppose it's because I'm the boss at work and it's tough to reconcile that with cute undies.

    The shower is worse than the paddle, but neither one is pleasant. I was given corner time for pinching her ass the other day, that was humiliating, but much easier than the other punishments.
     
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