What to you is the worst thing about chastity?

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    Quite rightly we all sing the praises of our favourite aspects of this lifestyle, but what are the worse things? What are the little things that annoy you about it?

    I'm going to nominate that awful feeling when the urine backs up the tube and cascades over your balls and there's nothing you can do about it :-/
     
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    Hmmm, since we both really enjoy our life, this isn't really a worst. How about the hardest part? We took up quiet, nonsexual, permanent chastity 4 months ago tomorrow. There is no T&D, no playing and no mention of it. The hardest part for me is totally keeping it out of our daily lives. I've always been very sexual and very vocally playful throughout our lives. Remembering this is for her peace of mind and enjoyment makes it easier, but I do find myself biting my tongue quite a bit and consciously keeping my caresses in a loving manner only. I'm hoping it will simply become a way of life for me, but even if I always have to be aware of my actions, her change of outlook on life since we took this up is so worth it.
     
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    Using public toilets...
     
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    the pain on my scotum skin after a night of relentless nightime erections :confused:
     
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    The hardest part is being horny and wanting to fuck my wife's lovable warm pussy but being unable. The chastity itself is the hardest part. Everything else that comes along with chastity pales in comparison to missing a good, ball-draining, cum-shooting volcanic orgasm. Grrr.
     
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    The thing I hate the most by being locked up is going to the bathroom at work.
     
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    Having to try and shave around the device every couple of days
     
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    Worrying that I am doing damage to my junk down there. Things don't look the same as they did two years ago - my balls have become much larger and different shaped, and I worry that I may have a slight touch or hydrocele from sleeping in the cage.
     
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    Being ignored by my keyholder
     
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    Yes, definitely being ignored by my keyholder wife.
     
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    I'm a tinkerer, so stopping myself buying new devices so I can experiment with them!!!

    J.
     
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    Perhaps you ought to move up to a stainless steel device, like a Queen's Keep. It will be the best choice you ever made when it comes to your life in chastity. I don't work for the company Mature Metal. I just recall the total difference it made for me.
     
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    Wanting the lifestyle to progress faster. There is a lot of day to day living that can be monotonous. While W/we are starting to expand O/our roles it does seem to move at a snails pace.
     
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    Not being able to change clothing, shower, or use the jacuzzi at the fitness club is the worst aspect of being in 24/7 chastity for me .... I especially don't care for driving home after an intense, sweaty workout without having changed clothes and showered, particularly during the winter.
     
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    I do have a Queen's Keep, as well as a Jailbird. I also have 5 different size base rings and numerous gap options. The problem is not the device per se, it's the design of all ball-trap devices. I am not ready to pierce anything down there, so that route is a no-go for me.
     
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    Yeah, I agree. My mistress wife doesn't want to pierce my penis either. And I am glad about that, but she might change her mind down the road. I sometimes fantasize about one and at other times shudder at the thought.
     
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    The hair trigger orgasm is my only bugbear. Just sometimes it would be nice if it wasn't an issue. There are ways around it I know but none of them really appeal to me.
     
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    Forgetting to wear my key and being pulled up on it!
    Concentrating on ruining his orgasm can be a party pooper for me.
     
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    Having a PA myself, it is a wonderful addition to chastity. The only regret i have is not doing it earlier. In full disclosure Mistress was unsure of having it done at first, but after having it done, She totally changed Her position and loves it.
     
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    Having to remove it for cleaning!
    A new device is not an option for now!
     
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    The complete obsession that it has become....
     
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    The times when I'm really not in the mood, stressed out over work or something like that and the cage shifts around pinching my skin all the time. It's like a pebble in my shoe I can't remove.
     
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    Those times when I'm sensation hungry. Normally I'd do something depraved to myself likely to involve light short term damage to myself. Now I'm deprived even of that!
     
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    That sounds great. So why did you pick PA and not Frenum?
     
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    W/we liked the look of the PA, the PA has minimal migration and the PA would work best with a cage as you can see from the pics.
     
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