Speaking from experience, this is how it goes: She used to look at the cage with disdain Now she puts her hand over it and falls asleep She used to suggest you remove it for various activities Now she doesn't mention it She used to laugh at you sitting down to piss Now she treats it as normal She used to deliberately tease you too far Now she is careful not to She used to think of oral worship as a treat Now she thinks of it as the minimum required She used to think of your orgasms too Now she doesn't give them a second thought I think she likes male chastity