Butt Plugs

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    I was wondering if anyone had a recommendation for butt plugs. I have not purchased many, but the problem I have is the base working it's way partly into my anus. I would like to wear one for an extended period of time while out in public shopping or at a restaurant which obviously is not possible with this problem.
     
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    Really? It seems like that would have an even bigger problem.
     
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    Lol no greedy bottom is the problem I think it's saying I want bigger !!

    Especially if you are wearing it for long times your bottom will get used to the size surprisingly quickly . So back to the shop .
    I the UK love honey is fantast just bit short on bigger toys .

    Xx Wendy
     
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    @Wendygirl - hmm love honey make some huge ones. I am yet to find one that stays put, they all tend to just plop out at the wrong times!

    Lucy x
     
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    Lucy you know what that means ! Lol

    More shopping more fun !

    Tighter knickers !

    Xx Wendy:)
     
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    I personally like the feel of metal ... the weight always reminding you it is there! For extended wear or discreet public wear I prefer the njoy line ... the rose buds are great to look at when the wearer is bent over and you have a nice view of the jeweled ass, however the edges of the jewel area rub on your ass checks and it can get uncomfortable after an hour.

    http://www.discrete-sensations.com/njoy/
     
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    I am a big fan of the WMCBPs from Mr S Leather. I have several sized. The medium can easily be worn from 16+ hours, and if I enema first, I can wear the larger sizes all day as well. http://www.mr-s-leather.com/D259/world-s-most-comfortable-butt-plug.html#video
    The nJoy 2.0 is nice too. http://www.njoytoys.com/products/pureplug20.php

    IMHO, the key to long term wear is a longish, narrow neck to the plug. The generic conical ones with the short necks always push out for me after an hour or so.
     
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    @Nostromo - you must be a bit crazy! I bought one of these from meo in Germany - there estim version. And 1) It was huge but the worse problem was the end snapped off and it was practically stuck inside me - real panic! I would not recommend one of these to anyone - and don't pull to get it out - it will break!

    Good luck
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    The Mr S Leather versions come in quite a few sizes, so you can get one that fits. And they do warn you to push it out rather than pulling it. Some people probably also assume it is OK to use silicone lube because the plug part is steel, but i think that would degrade the rubber stem. I own four different sizes of these and have never had an issue. If you want something solid steel and foolproof, try the nJoy 2.0.
     
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    Do please bear in mind that a tight plug this week is at best in a few weeks your warm up toy .

    The big metal ones with the thin flop necks have broken ask @philfred or even better read the thread !!

    Xx Wendy
     
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    I bought this years ago http://www.meo.de/catalog/product_info.php?cPath=189&products_id=8436 and will stay in if you turn the knob far enough. The problem I had was that the bottom portion sticks down far from the base making it uncomfortable for sitting down in but if you are going out just walking should be fine but the car ride might be difficult. Also its very expensive. I found one that looked identical http://www.alibaba.com/product-detail/Lockable-Butt-Plug_143096663.html for way cheaper but I don't know how the quality is there.
     
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    Mistress has me use a medium-sized silicone butt plug for extended wear. I find that silicone plugs are great since they are flexible and smooth which allows for maximal comfort over long periods of time. Be sure to find a butt plug with a sturdy base at the end. I've had cheaper plugs with flimsy bases almost slip too far inside me (no thanks! lol).
    My all-time favorites are the Tantus Ryder and "The Big End" by Doc Johnson. The Ryder is great when worn by itself and the base is designed quite well. The Big End is my usual go-to plug, however, since the larger base allows it to be secured by the adapter on my butt plug harness.

    Either way, if one plans to spend a fair amount of time with a plug up their butt, it definitely helps to invest in good quality plugs.
     
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    Hello All.

    Let me first say that I love the few plugs I have...all are reasonably sized standard design...just thinking about plugging makes me leak...I would plug as often as possible but I fear that I am setting myself up to become an incontinent old man! I KNOW I am not as tight as I was the very first time I tried a plug 15+ years ago and I dont play anally all of the time. Seriously, are we setting ourselves up for problems with our lust for plugs?

    Any thoughts please!

    allaboutHer
     
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    You could possibly be setting yourself up for an incontinence issue - perhaps you should take a look at www.coloplast.co.uk as they have special tampon like plugs to stop bowel leakage ........
     
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    Hello Miss Lesley.

    Allow me to clarify...the leakage I experience is from my locked up genitalia; precum.

    allaboutHer
     
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    I wear a small Meo 24/7 anal stretching ring and closing plug I also have the med but I still cannot get it in
     
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    Having the same problem with pre-cum leakage when plugged. I think it is a result of the plug bringing pressure on my prostate and thereby milking me a bit. Mistress now requires me to wear a pantiliner over my cage in my panties whenever I have a plug inserted. Mess eliminated!
     
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    Well I have been wearing my small meo 24/7 plug 18+ hours a day for the last few weeks and still cannot get the med one in
     
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    Because the neck of most meo plugs are very narrow so not much dilation is taken place . To get the effects I think you are after you need a toy that tapers from top to wider bottom . Thus you will get a very tough muscle to relax a bit.

    Xx Wendy
     
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    So they are designed for stretching
     
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    In my book bit of a misnomer. They are really shaped to stay in hence the reduced neck. It's because of the shape of the head that is not tapered enough you can't go bigger.

    You need toys that are much more tapered more willy or cone shape . So small head and then flair out gradually . Use lots of lube I prefer j lube. The new materials are fantastic and so slippery when lubed with just enough give and warm up quickly.
    You need to let your bum warm up with smaller toys and to get well lubed inside . Also remember you have two ring muscles to relax the out side one and the one a little further in . Relax is the watch word .

    Xx Wendy
     
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