Has your key holder ever forgotten you were locked? My wife and I have played with chastity for number of years, my longest lock up being 40 days! The only time my jailbird is removed, is if we go cycling, but on two occasions now, despite my key holder knowing that cycling whilst wearing is extremly uncomfortable, last time as we prepared to go for a cycle ride, I had to ask for the key and my wife thought I meant the car or the door key! I am right to be upset or should I just get a life and get on with it?
I think you should be guided by her and if she hasn't given you the key, you shouldn't ask! Why is it you blokes always moan about sports and chastity? If you want to do the sports ,wear the kit! You can't have it all ways - On yer bike lol!!
My wife used to forget a lot and did not want to wear it. She said it was beginning to feel like work. She just ended up giving me the keys with the instructions to lock up except when we agreed that I would not be. We do not have a D/s relationship so the key has no special significant meaning to us. I can end chastity any time I want anyway, so having the key is not going to change anything for me.
Unfortunately @Mistress Deborah there are some sports where it is absolutely essential for the cage to be removed. For instance I would never go on the judo mat wearing mine; far too dangerous for myself and anyone I practiced with considering you are required to remove even the smallest of metal piercings for safety reasons. And I have tried coxing in mine but I literally can not fit in the boat as the cage's base ring gets in the way. Simply put it is sometimes not practical or worse completely unsafe to be wearing a cage.
I think we have all gathered by now that you are in charge of your keys. you are beginning to sound like someone else that was on this site, constantly repeating your circumstances.
I am replying to different posters, not repeating myself to the same person each time. You have one sissy male who could be yourself for all I know, and all of a sudden you are a Mistress in training. Lady, I have been with real Mistresses and not girlfriends and wives who like to pretend they are. I do not know what your problem is but it appears that you are a self appointed Queen Bee around her. I am not replying to your post and as your profile says, I am not into ruining other people's posts as you seem to be. Be gone and the ignore button is pressed.
Now that wasn't very polite. Lets keep things civil shall we ! Mistress B is a known and respected member, your derogatory comments are uncalled for. Congratulations on having some experience or so you say. You may find that numerous will press the ignore button on you !
@billie1 Do forgive me for interrupting your thread. It's just something that needed saying and I do hope you understand.
I do not think that was called for @Vinny- please be polite . Life can be so testing- don't bring that bad feeling onto here. To say what you have said only makes me think you are a rude and arrogant man who disregards other's points of view- NOT GOOD!
Back to the original question...my wife has forgotten, but she is also still new. I have dabble for so long that she is used to the start and stop stuff. About a month or so ago, when I really started getting back into things, I left the key in the bathroom after locking up. She found it and kept it. I think I posted about this already. Anyway, she kept it for several days and even forgot that she had it and that I was locked up until she wanted sex and didn't know why I didn't just unlock. I have thought about this and I realize that, right now, this is more my kink and interest than her's. While I am constantly reminded that I am wearing the device, not so for my wife and I am sure she has better things to think about. Just like how my wife feels the need to share with me when she starts her period, but I don't spend the rest of my day thinking about it, even though I am sure it isn't far from her mind. Congrats on a 40 day record! Not as much as some, but compared to mine, that is very long. I hope to someday be able to say I have gone past 30! Good Luck!
I think you'll find that I t's not that she doesn't care about your condition. I've forgotten before. I think it's probably easier to remember if you're the one wearing it. Of course if she's forgotten because she's purely indulging you in your fantasy without any real interest herself then you should forgive her for being such a good sport. The best policy in your case would be to take a more active interest in things that please her.
@Mistress Deborah and @Mascara^Snake I think both @Vinny and @billie1 have left the Mansion but I am sure both your respected contributions were well received by those remaining here
I do forget that my sub is wearing his sometimes, but not because I don't care. I have told him that if he wants it off for any reason, he shouldn't ask, he should show me he wants it off by doing extra chores or kissing my feet or giving me a massage. In answer to you question, Billie, I don't think you should 'get a life' but try what I suggested. Good luck. xx
My Wife forgot when we went swimming with her whole family. I purposely didn't remind her before hand to see what would happen. In the family changing booth i asked her for the key and she said she hadn't even thought about bringing it. But that was it, no sympathy and i ended up having to go swimming wearing it. I really enjoyed that and i think (hope) she might have done it on purpose. She has forgotten where she hid it previously too
be thankful every day you have such a loving wife.i would give everything to find soeone that would endulge me with my kinks.
I've pretended to forget a few times to fuck with people... but the idea of ACTUALLY forgetting??? Unthinkable! I care about the people that I lock up.