Ever get bored with sex?

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Will you get bored with sex

Poll closed Jun 19, 2014.
  1. Yes ( big kiss)

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    53.3%
  2. No ( the puppy gets it)

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    46.7%
  1. Wendygirl
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    Wendygirl To offer advice and keep CM safe and welcoming

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    From a post on @MistressBitch 's thread "Bucket list"

    I have done everything on my list !

    Personaly I think my imagination will probably stop when I die.

    Every day I read 1 or maybe 10 or maybe more things that people do in the pursuit of the perfect orgasam or on CM the not of having one!

    Do you think that you can get board or is that just being lazy.
    Vote yes if you are not going to let your sex life get boring


    Xx Wendy
     
  2. jemima
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    jemima maid for my Mistress

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    @Wendygirl i didn't really knows what button to press but i press the yes one to gives you a big kiss.
     
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    tomf_22033 Long term member

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    Yes I find vanilla sex very boring. But I love it when it's kinky. Even something slightly different will make it fun and exciting.
     
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    Pillowbiter Adore All Females, They so deserve it.

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    When I became the girl in our relationship, Dressing and being Dominated, Our sex life for both of us was never boring again. When she enters me, She totally controls me. And I become her sissy girl. I need her SOOOOOOOOOOO Bad! All the time.
     
  5. SubVerity
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    SubVerity Still the mansion's fairy godmother. ;)

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    Yes, at times in the past, but not since chastity. That has changed so many things.

    Is boredom down to laziness? I'd say it's down to a lack of honesty in communication - and that is generally born out of fear. Chastity presents some fairly obvious parameters, and a physical reminder of them. It's up to us to work out what they are, but the device is a constant reminder to both of the need for reasonably constant attention.

    Which is what any close and important relationship needs anyway right? It seems to me that some people go along with failing situations for far too long. It's bizarre and slightly sad to me that it took the introduction of a simple device (and all that goes with it) to start an improvement in our relationship, sexual and otherwise.
     
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    I have been lucky to fill prittty much all of my perverted fantasies and when things become some what borring i always let my mind run wild with ideas and then im off on a new adventure lol.
     
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    MistressBitch Long term member

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    incidentally, I never have bad sex, its only bad if you let it. Me and my sub are incredibly sexy, and this is at the 10-11 year mark, so dont tell me its cos we are young and new at it, we arent. We have better sex, average sex, and the worst kind, no sex. but never bad sex. We learn lessons from it all, oh and he is the best lover I have ever had
     
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    BlueEyes The lifestyle pumps in my veins...
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    Chastity changed the picture completely:) No bad - routine sex anymore.
     
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    I've always been the adventurer and risk taker .. and subsequently always looked at pushing the envelope when it came to a new edge to sex! My mind is always active and thinking sex and even in those lull periods of a long marriage I have kept myself amused and occupied lol! Chastity has had an amazing boost to our sex life in a paradoxical way. She now gets virtually daily orgasms ....and I don't! ...but psychologically I'm on the biggest high and desperate to please, and of course keen to dress!...and more!
    We are not bored that's for sure!...and nothing is likely to change for the foreseeable future to change that i hope. (Other than an better acceptance of my femme side ,,,says he with fingers crossed!)
    The tank is still 3/4 full for a further full speed romp into the wild and beautiful world of sexual adventure! My imagination and inventiveness will be here for some time to dream up another mind blowing exploit! Hehe. "One life.....live it folks!"
    cj :)
     
  10. Lenny
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    Lenny Your pleasure is my #1 priority

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    I often get bored with sex for the same reason as you. Did it and done that. That happens when you have a lot of years and a willing partner. It gets harder and harder to find something new the older you get.
     
  11. dsinbraces
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    dsinbraces Dominant wife/KH of dickie

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    dickie and I were in the same rut as many of the others. But my discovery of his infidelity brought us to a crossroads in our lives. I was really, really hurt by this, but with the help of a vry good friend who had been through the same thing, I took charge and starting a new FLR, which dickie agreed to rather than divorce, and it's been a wonderful journey for the past 9 years. I'm enjoying life as never before and while dickie may have gotten more than he originally was hoping for as a submissive, he has learned, over time, to make the adjustments that I wanted in our new relationship. Things will never be as vanilla, or boring, as they once were.
    Mistress Suzan
     
  12. iluvteasers
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    ive yet to have sex so no lol!
     
  13. lockedUp24byKH
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    lockedUp24byKH Yes Dear...Right away.

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    1 month 7 days 1 hour 45min since ive had sex with my KH and do i miss it

    Hell yes i do.

    Do i last long enough for her to enjoy it any more.

    Hell no i don't.


    My KH has been training me in Premature ejaculation the past 3 months,Her goal is to beat 30 Seconds (Current best or worst time depending on how you see it)
    She loves the power it gives her.
     
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    dsinbraces Dominant wife/KH of dickie

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    lockedUp24byKH...
    My little subbie is in the same boat as you. When he gets his release, never inside me, he's done in less than a minute. I think chastity has played a big part it shortening him..both his length, and his ability to last long enough to satisfy anyone with penetration. I am very pleased with the result, as it serves as a reminder to him of why I have two FWB for sexual reasons.
    Mistress Suzan
     
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    Sunny Long term member

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    Ever since being locked up, having sex (whenever my KH wife demands) has been far more exciting!
     
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