It's the journey, not the destination

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    #26 guest 2942, Apr 19, 2014
    @timeofmylife , good to hear. Sounds like you are on your way!!!
     
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    #27 timeofmylife, Apr 20, 2014
    4:07 PM 2014-03-21 - DAY 11 (2)

    My wife just let me out! She wants to play with me for a while, and make love later.

    3:13 PM 2014-04-02

    After my release she left me uncaged for a few days. Last night she decided it would be "wicked" (her word) to have me fuck her on condition that I was forbidden to come, and then she would put the cage back on me after my erection went down. That would be my punishment for the time my balls escaped. So we had a long slow fuck and I managed to hold back my orgasm, and it was a lovely and delicious experience for both of us. My cock wouldn't get small, though, so the cage didn't get put back on until this afternoon. So I'm back in the cage again, after being wickedly teased without the relief of an orgasm.

    The idea of having me fuck her without coming was her idea, not mine, but it is perfectly in line with my own cravings. So is putting me back in the cage without giving me relief. I'm loving how she seems to anticipate what I like.
     
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    #28 timeofmylife, Apr 25, 2014
    7:23 PM 2014-04-20

    Locked up again, as of about 5:30 pm.

    4:06 PM 2014-04-21

    Last night in bed, after giving me some of her very skillful cock teasing: "I'm not going to let you out. You'll just have to suffer!"

    We then lay for a long time with my cock in its cage pressed against her butt, drifting in and out of sleep for about 2 1/2 hours before we disengaged.

    I would have liked it even more if she had added the words "for a month" after "out".
     
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    #29 BlueEyes, Apr 25, 2014
    With the speed she went for "Penalty", I would be a little careful in getting what You wish for... Lol...
    Have fun - You both seems to enjoy it, - so dive all in:)
    But never forget that horny fantasies and everyday life resides in two different worlds. I have had that reality check now and then, - and we have managed to adjust just fine. Just don't ignore reality in pursuit of a turbo charged embrace of a chastity lifestyle, then you will do just great! You have all the time in the world:)
     
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    #30 timeofmylife, Apr 30, 2014
    1:15 PM 2014-04-28

    This morning: "As long as you make me come occasionally, I can leave you in there forever." Mmm. I'm pretty sure she was joking.
     
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    #31 BlueEyes, Apr 30, 2014
    And I'm pretty sure she said that because she now knows that this is exactly what You fantasize about that she would say......
    She seems to pick up all the craved for one-liners at impressive speed;-)
     
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    #32 Barney, Apr 30, 2014
    Enjoy the journey.....because its never the destination, its more about the road less travelled.
     
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    #33 BlueEyes, May 1, 2014
    In my humble opinion:)
    :If it is not - also - about destination it only becomes constant restless pursuit. Have a break now and then and rejoice and evaluate. Maybe - just maybe - you have reached a plateau - too good to fuck up!
     
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    #34 timeofmylife, May 2, 2014
    She does, doesn't she! She keeps surprising me, and I love her for it.
     
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    #35 timeofmylife, May 2, 2014
    Thanks for those comments. Yes, it's truly too good to fuck up. We do have breaks. I hope not to be obsessive about this, but to take it slowly and gently, and enjoy it mutually all the way.
     
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    #36 timeofmylife, May 11, 2014
    Taking a break now, following a 17-day lockup, my longest to date. Maybe sometime she'll leave me in for a month, I'd like that.
     
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    #37 timeofmylife, Jun 20, 2014
    Although I haven't posted for a while, I'm still in the game. I was unlocked for a few weeks. Currently I'm in the third day of being locked up again, and my wife says I'll be locked up for a few more days at least. She says, "I knew when I met you that you'd be fun." She continues to indulge my little perviness, though she doesn't really understand it. I would like her to take more control; I feel I'm too much in the lead. I'm hoping that in days and weeks to come the two of us will explore ways of making this game deliver new delights for both of us, and I'm looking forward to that.
     
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    #38 OwnedByAmy, Jun 21, 2014
    That's awesome! Happy for you! :) Try 3 months, hehehe. I was allowed out of my cage for a few weeks as well, but no orgasm. I was on the honor system, and I passed. :)
     
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    #39 timeofmylife, Jun 21, 2014
    Oh, I'd like to go for longer lockups, but she insists on letting me out prematurely. ;) We're still new at this - we'll get better with time. Just have to find the right balance for both of us.
     
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    #40 OwnedByAmy, Jun 21, 2014
    Try making a game out of it. Tell her the longer she keeps you locked up, the more she wins, and give her prizes, like every day she keeps you locked up you give her a 15-30 minute foot massage, or whatever works for you. For every week she keeps you locked up, she gets an hour or however long full body rubdown with coconut oil or whatever she likes. Be creative, figure out what she likes, what pleases her the most, and make that a prize for winning "the game." ;-)
     
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    #41 timeofmylife, Jun 21, 2014
    Mmmm, great ideas! I can hardly wait to give those a try. And invent our own.
     
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    #42 PauloChaste, Jun 21, 2014
    My wife gives me a list of chores and a time for them to be completed. If I fail she keeps me locked and the part I enjoy is she never gives a date or time when I will be unlocked!!
     
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    #43 timeofmylife, Jun 23, 2014
    Somehow my balls kept slipping out of my apparatus, so I switched it for the A081 from DHGate, which seems to have a little less gap between the ring and the cage than the A080 (pictured in my avatar image). It's different in other ways too. I don't think either of these units will be my final device, but for now we'll see how this one works out.
     
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    #44 timeofmylife, Jun 23, 2014
    The other night she allowed her breasts to be stimulated until she had an orgasm, which she thoroughly enjoyed, and with no relief for me of course. Maybe now she will allow herself more penetration-free orgasms. I don't know how much longer she will want me to stay locked up, but tonight when she changed my cage was a good opportunity for her to get a proper fuck from me, and instead she just locked me up again.
     
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    #45 Wendygirl, Jun 23, 2014
    Oh how course !
    But that is possibly why you are locked up young man.

    If you made LOVE to your wife she may be more amenable to your advances.

    However as she feels she is being treated as a handy recipient for your lust well I can see her point of view and thus the key may end up set inside a block of concrete.

    Xx Wendy
     
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    #46 timeofmylife, Jun 23, 2014
    Oh, we make *love* all the time, it's constant. She's an active if slightly puzzled participant. Penetrative sex is an occasional treat for both of us. If she gets tired of this game she'll just unlock me for good.
     
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    #47 timeofmylife, Jun 23, 2014
    My wife's latest one-liner -- "It always feels like an erection when I rub against you. I kind of like that." (Actually if she's rubbing against me, it probably really is an erection.)
     
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    #48 Mistress B, Jun 23, 2014
    A contained one. lol
     
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