Chastity Contracts

Here is the one my wife/kh drew up for me

Once your signature has been placed on this paper, you will adhere to all of the rules, and be in agreement to, all of the punishments for breaking those rules.
Understand that there may come a time these rules and punishments have to be revisited and revised.
No amount of pouting or tantrums will be tolerated. Because I love you so deeply, I feel a real need to guide you in the best ways possible. Your tendency to be guided by your libido has not served you well in this marriage. My first objective is to reign you in so that I have no need of worry when you are not in my presence. You will lovingly wear your chastity cage as a constant reminder of your shame for infidelity and renewed devotion to your family.
No time limits will be set for each infraction, as I will determine the severity of the infraction on a case by case basis and decide the amount of time encased.
1. I will decide how often you wear this. No matter how much you may not want to wear it, you will agree without argument. I will take health issues into accountbut not a little discomfort. Sores or infections are health issues. When I say it is time to put it back on, whether you or I do it, it will be done. NO ARGUMENT!
2. You will begin reading The Love Dare and The Five Love Languages with not only me, but your entire family in mind. When you express attitudes and actions that I feel are destructive, I will give you a warning cough. That will be your signal to stop whatever that is without making you feel belittled in front of our children. (We can discuss, in a calm, loving manner, what I didnt agree with and come to an agreeable solution later on, but not in front of our children.)
3. You will not spend your weekends home lying on the couch and sleeping all day unless I agree because I see that you truly need the rest. Im tired, too. We will work together to clean house and do yard work. You must do a job to my standards.
4. Lying is an infraction. If the lie is in anyway tied to thoughts or actions of infidelity, punishment will be doubly severe.
5. If you belittle, call names, or insult anyone in our family you will gain time for each offense. I am the deciding factor on what is offensive, whether you agree or not. With each day, you will no longer have to guess at what bad behavior is.
6. Openly flirting with or leering at ANY female in my presence (to include my friends) is unacceptable. This behavior when you are away from me is also unacceptable.
7. Clearing your internet or phone history without my permission is unacceptable.
8. Whatever request I make of you, you will humbly agree and put your ego or dislike aside. Any arguing or belligerence will add more time to your confinement.
9. No matter how unsatisfied or neglected you may feel, you will work hard to please me in any way I deem necessary for my own emotional or physical health and wellbeing. You will do what I request with love and humility. (This may include, but is not limited to: massages, baths, foot rubs and pedicures, satisfying me sexually, playing games, taking care of our children, running errands, etc.)
10. I can and probably will add to this as time goes along.
KH____________________________________________ Date______________________________
Chaste__________________________________________ Date______________________________

 

Wow, some of these are so long and detailed. I mean, I think I'd probably end up poring over one, looking for loopholes.

 

Great Thread!

This thread serves as a great guidline to my future contract. Thank Y/you all for making this thread possible!!

 

University Student Chastity Contact

This is my contract that I one day (before September) hope to god to present a Keyholder and sign it with her, and begin the ultimate desire for me at this time in my life....

its just a starting point for a contract... not the final one

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University Chastity
Chastity Agreement between a Keyholder/Mistress and a slave

Introduction​

This chastity contract is designed to be used for a male slave who will be going to a University or higher education facility for three years. It is designed to create extreme distress and discomfort during a time of sexual exploration, a party atmosphere and a period of self-discovery. The slave understands that to have a Keyholder during this tempting time is an honour and a privilege.
Ideally, the slave would have had experience with chastity and the cleaning routines that come with it, as this contract will plunge the slave into the deep end of chastity.

Period of Chastity​

The length of the contract, which date it comes into effect and which date the contract is no longer valid.

Start Date​

1st September 2010 = The slave visits the Keyholder. The CB6000s device is cleaned, fitted, made sure that it isnt pinching or hurting anywhere, and then locked. The lock can be whatever the Keyholder sees fit. The lock can be modified in anyway to make it harder to tamper with. But, the modification mustnt make the unlocking of the device impossible. The front of the device mustnt be obstructed to allow urination and cleaning. The Keyholder may or may not let the slave orgasm before the device is locked.

End Date ​

30th June 2013 = This will be the end of the slaves last university term and therefore the official end of university so the slave is to be unlocked. The lock will come off and the device will be given back to the student. The Keyholder may or may not want the slave to orgasm in her presence. She can dismiss him as soon as he is unlocked or talk about the experience with him.

Keyholder Intiated Extension​

1st July 2013 = The Keyholder has the option on the 30th June to extend the chastity period from the end of the university year to the end of a full three years. This would mean that the chastity will be in place till the 31st August 2013. The Keyholder can engage this extension only at the end of the definitive end date of the 30th of June. The slave has no say over the extension.

Agreed Extension​

1st September 2013 = The Keyholder and slave may both agree together that they wish to continue their chastity lifestyle with each other. This period can be from as small as a 1month chastity period, to a permanent chastity period with no release. This can only be enforced if both the Keyholder and the slave agree to this. If not, then chastity must not ensue.

Sexual Releases​

This can involve orgasms, ruined orgasms, anal stimulation, anal or oral sex or use of sex toys on the slave by either the Keyholder of the slave itself.

Orgasms​

The Keyholder is allowed to give the slave 9 orgasms throughout the three years of chastity in university. These dont need to be
spread out evenly through the years. The Keyholder doesnt have to administer the 9 orgasms as this is the maximum number the slave must receive. The slave many not receive any orgasms.

Ruined Orgasms​

Orgasm where the sensation is ruined through techniques that are of the Keyholders choosing may be used. They are allowed in an unlimited amount, it is up to the Keyholder to decide.

Anal Stimulation​

The slave is allow to use buttplugs, dildos and other anal objects to stimulate his anus. This may be for pleasure or for prostate milking. The Keyholder can set guidelines but the slave doesnt need to
adhere to them. The Keyholder may punish the slave for not following her guide lines.

Anal or Oral Sex​

This is entirely prohibited for the slave, unless the Keyholder is present and is administering it or she has given her expressed wish that you may partake in these activities.

Sex Toys​

Sex toys can be used, but only with permission obtained before hand by the Keyholder. She may choose to confiscate all sex toys from the slave before or during the chastity period. She must give them back after the chastity period is over.

Porn​

Permission from the Keyholder is needed to view pornography of any kind. The Keyholder may restrict certain genres of porn and may force the to watch porn as a way of undermining the slave and torturing him.

Punishments​

These fall into three catagories of seriousness from no offence, to mild offences to extreme offences.

No Offence​

This is where the slave has done nothing wrong but the Keyholder fills like she wants to punish the slave for her own amusement. If there is a request for this, the slave must be given 24 hours notice so he can make travel arrangements, etc. The slave cannot stay long term at the Keyholders premises (max of three days). Punishment can range from verbal abuse, up to and including medium corporal punishment.

Mild Offences​

This is where the slave has done something slightly wrong. This could be looking at porn without permission, using sex toys without permission or other slight offences. 24 hours notice has to be given by the Keyholder so the slave can make travel arrangements. The slave maximum stay at the Keyholders premises would increase to 7 days maximum. Punishment can range from bondage and medium corporal punishment and up to but not including body modification.

Extreme Offences​

The second most extreme offence is talking to other Keyholders or Mistresses. This is a sign of disrespect at the ability of the Keyholder and the Keyholder can punish the slave with no notice, so he must immediately go to the Keyholder. The punishment that can be given is anything between verbal up to body modification. The slave must accept any punishment given or face an additional year on his chastity period.

Orgasm without permission is the most serious offence that a slave can commit. Whether or not they own up to it, the Keyholder can impose permanent chastity on the slave. The slave has no say other this and must accept the punishment. If not, the Keyholder may result to using other punishment methods until he accepts. Long term bondage can be used as a punishment also, with no limit on the amount of time that can be spent in it (but need consideration for the slaves university studies). The Keyholder may also dismiss the slave, and can keep the chastity device if she wishes.

Check Ups​

This is to ensure that the slaves cock is in good condition and there are no serious health problems

Webcam Checking​

This has to be done a minimum of twice a month. This Keyholder can ask for more random checks but she must do at least two a month. If not, the contract is void and the slave may leave chastity. The checks can be done at anytime and the slave must show evidence within the hour of being asked.

Real Time Check​

Real time checks should be done at least once every two months, but ideally more. It allows the Keyholder to not only get a detailed look of the condition of the cock but also to tease the slave. These real time checks should be used for cleaning, but the Keyholder doesnt need to clean the cage out if she doesnt want to. The slave should need to touch his cock throughout this period of release for cleaning.

Misc.

Get Out Clause​

The slave can get out of his university chastity at anytime throughout the three years. He will need to tell the Keyholder of his intentions. He will then need to wait 4 days to make sure that he really does want out. If after the 4 day period of comtemplation he still wants out, he is released. But only if he agrees to pay compensation to the Keyholder. He has to give the Keyholder 4% of his earning after tax for 6 years when his is earning more then 26,000 per year. Here, the Keyholder may result to collecting information to use as leverage when trying to get a payment out of him. If the slave wants out of chastity because he has found another Keyholder and a girlfriend, then he will be required to give 12% of his earnings for 6 years when he is earning more then 26,000 per year. This is to compensate for the humiliation of being rejected for another Keyholder. There is no get out clause for permenant chastity.

Finance​

No finance should be involved when the slave is in the contract under his own means and hasnt done anything wrong. Money should be exchanged when he intiates his Get Out Clause

Cooling Off​

He has two months from the 1st September to the 1st of November in which the slave can pull out of the contract with no reprucussions. This cooling off period is designed to make sure the slave is going to gain from the experience and the Keyholder can get pleasure from the experience also. The same cooling off period applies when the slave and Keyholder have agreed to permenant chastity.

Work​

University work comes before chastity and the Keyholders desires. This means that she must realise his work and study is extremely important and needs to be done to the best his ability. This doesnt mean he can neglect the needs of the Keyholder.

Signatures​

I, the Keyholder (_____________________) agree to these terms and conditions within this contract and agree to be the Keyholder for the slave for this agreed period of time.

I, the slave (__________________________) agree to these terms and conditions and agree that i want to be placed into chastity for the duration of my further education.

Sign: Keyholder_____________________________

Sign: slave_______________________________

Date:______/_________/_________

 

wow!! what a great idea.. now I must find someone.. hihi

 

Kelkel's and mine

Contract


1. Definitions:


Throughout this contract, these terms are used with following definitions.



Chastity: Prevention of all kinds of sexual behavior, including sexual intercourse and masturbation.


Chastity Device: Any lockable, wearable device designed to keep user's chastity and to prevent touching user's genitals by wearing and locking-up.


User: The individual who will wear the device according to this contract, and who is to keep ones own chastity. By definition the user has granted control of his sexual organs and services to the keyholder.


Key-holder: The individual who will lock the device up and will hold the key according to this contract. By definition the keyholder has absolute say in the use of the users sexual organs.


Name of the Keyholder: Kelly


Name of the User: Tom


2. User's obligation:


By signing this contract User indemnifies Keyholder from any damage occurring based on any actions meeting the terms of this contract.


User is under the following obligations:



a. User wears the device at all times except when granted release by Keyholder

b. User is prohibited to engage in any sexual activity without the Keyholder's permission.

c. User is prohibited to masturbate or ejaculate without the Keyholder's permission. User shall immediately report to Keyholder any instances of unauthorized ejaculation, be they intentional or unintentional

d. Making efforts to remove the device by User is forbidden.

e. It is the responsibility of User to maintain the device cleanliness.

f. User is prohibited seeking permission in removing the device to Keyholder for the sake of User's sexual satisfaction.

g. User shall provide chastity device, lock, and plastic serialized tags to Keyholder.

h. User shall notify Keyholder at least 1 week in advance of any medical appointments requiring removal of chastity device.

i. User shall notify Keyholder as far as reasonably possible of any need to pass through metal detectors requiring replacement of padlock with serialized plastic tag.


3. Keyholder's obligation:


Keyholder is under following obligation:



a. The main key will always be under the supervision of Keyholder.

b. Keyholder will make one emergency key available to User for use in medical emergency, doctor appointments, and any other situation in which necessitates the devices removal.

c. Keyholder has the obligation to pay attention to User's health condition and arrange necessary suitable treatment, when any disorders are identified on the user's body.

d. Keyholder will permit at least one removal of device in a seven-day period for cleaning and shaving.

e. Keyholder shall be discreet, never disclosing the fact that she controls User's sex in any manner that would affect family or work obligations.

f. Keyholder shall remove chastity device for medical appointments, supervising if desired.

g. Keyholder shall provide for periodic seminal release for User at the frequency and method of her choosing.


4. Maintenance:



User will receive monthly maintenance sessions, during which time, he shall wear the Pico device instead of the daily device. The Pico device will be put on immediately before the first maintenance session and will be removed after the final maintenance session that day, unless Keyholder elects to have User remove it at her discretion.



5. Pico Device:



Keyholder has the right to require User to wear the Pico device at any time in lieu of the daily device, at her discretion. The maximum amount of time the Pico device will be left on is 48 hours.



6. Duration of the contract:


There is no determination on the duration of this contract. It means that this contract is valid for an indefinite period.


7. Cancellation of the contract:


User never requests the cancellation of the contract except the following cases.



a. The relationship between User and Keyholder ends.

b. Either User or Keyholder is unable to execute ones obligation due to long-term illness or some other reasons.

c. It becomes obvious that wearing the chastity device results in serious health problems for User.




Both User and Keyholder agreed on all the above with free will.



Keyholder Signature:



User Signature:

 

117 agreement

Chastity belt agreement
this is what i have signed CHASTITY BELT - RELATIONSHIP AGREEMENT






To insure a successful marriage, the cuckold husband will agree to the following regarding the penis which will now be called the marital penis:








The Wife will have complete ownership and control of the marital penis.

The husband has no right of privacy during the periods of time set forth in the husband's dress code below. Therefore, bathroom doors must remain open when the marital penis is urinating so that the Wife may inspect the marital penis at any time.

The Wife will decide if and when the marital penis will be allowed to ejaculate.

The Wife will decide the method used to cause the marital penis to ejaculate. She may, for example, have the cuckold husband masturbate or She may choose Her preferred method applied by Her or Her designee.


The husband is not permitted to ask for any sexual favors, such as rubbing of the marital penis, insertion into any animate or inanimate objects (except as described below), licking or sucking unless directed or initiated by the Wife.

The husband is not permitted to touch the marital penis without permission.

The cuckold husband will wear a chastity belt whenever required by his Wife. Wearing the chastity belt symbolizes the Wife's absolute domination and control of the marital penis.



To insure a successful chastity marriage, the Wife has the following rights:





The Wife has complete ownership and control of the marital penis and She and only She will decide when it will touched, rubbed, sucked or placed into or on any object whether animate or inanimate and when or if it may ejaculate.

The Wife may require the husband to wear a chastity device on the marital penis that may eliminate engorgement of the marital penis, touching of the marital penis or scrotum, hiding the marital penis from the husbands view and/or controls ejaculation.

When the marital penis is allowed to ejaculate, the Wife has the rights to the ejaculate.

The Wife has the right to demand sexual pleasure from the cuckold husband at any time without any reciprocal duties, which may include but not be limited to cunnilingus, fornication and body worship.





To insure a successful chastity marriage, the husband's dress code is as follows:






The Wife sets the rules that dictate what her husband shall wear. For example:

The husband may be required to remove all clothes after a set time of day or after a particular trigger time, such as after dinner.

The husband may be required to wear clothes that allow him to be exposed after a set time of day or after a particular trigger time, such as after dinner.

Sexual devices such as butt plugs, chastity devices, rope binding, handcuffs, etc. are considered clothing.

To insure a successful marriage, the Wife may punish the husband for the following infractions as follows. This is a guide only and does not limit the Wife to decide to punish for other infractions:

Not following instructions


Not satisfying his Wife when directed to do so

Not following the dress code.

Touching his penis.

Ejaculating without permission.

To insure a successful chastity marriage, the Wife may punish the cuckold husband as follows. This is a guide only and does not limit the Wife's choice of punishment which is only limited by the Wife's imagination:

Spanking.

Whipping.

Binding him to the bed or other object for extended periods of time. During this time #1 & #2 may be applied to the husband's body. The penis or balls may be bound and/or stretched with any device the Wife chooses. This will possibly increase the size of the substandard puny marital penis.

Restraining him with ropes, belts, chains or handcuffs.

Prolonging the husband's chastity period.

Applying pressure to the husband's balls to create discomfort. Since the husband does not own the marital penis and balls, the level of pressure exerted on the balls is entirely up to the Wife's discretion.

Instructing the husband to wear clothes only suitable for women or sissified men. This may include under clothes such as panties or bra or over clothes such as a dress or skirt.






To insure a successful chastity marriage, the cuckold husband acknowledges that the following are privileges, not punishments:


Satisfying his Wife whenever She demands.

Dress code including chastity devices.






To insure a successful chastity marriage:


The husband does not have the right to change any conditions under this contract without the prior written permission of the Wife.

The husband must be completely naked when signing this binding document and the Wife must be fully clothed so that the new power relationship is clear and established.









Husband's signature Wife's signature

 

Quid pro Quo otherwise known as Consideration

A couple of the contracts posted here came close to what is missing in all of them. An EXCHANGE between the parties of something of value. In contract law we call it "consideration."

This means that you'll have to show (if these types of contracts were to ever be enforceable, which i doubt) that BOTH parties are getting something of value and giving up something of value. Without that...fuggetaboudit - no contract.

So, i think you should include some language at the beginning such as:

Whereas Mistress desires to have and control (whatever) sissy Husband (hereinafter referred to as " ")(define that in definition section) and is prepared to dedicate sufficient amounts of her time and energy of time to keep, train and use said sissy, and

Whereas Sissy desires to be completely controlled, kept and used by Mistress and is prepared to totally submit himself to the domination of Mistress

Wherefore the parties do hereby agree....etc...

something like that...it's really rough and, hey, i ain't getting paid for this, so....

Note: One-way consideration from Sissy to Mistress does not a contract make.

Note: Promises to do what is already the legal responsibility of the parties (like promise of husband/wife to sexually satisfy the other) are not the proper subject of consideration...consideration must be something that is not already legally required of the parties to the contract.

but fun...

 

Here's the Agreement I made with my wife with very specific objectives in mind as described in clause 1. This is our first experiment with chastity and we'll see how it goes. We can adjust the frequency of my orgasms if that seems like a good idea when we come to renew the Agreement. We are not using a chastity device, which I guess makes it harder for me but simpler for her (she hates any restriction on spontaneity). I could also add that she was initially reluctant to consider such an agreement (a draft which did use a device was rejected) so we are taking it one step at a time.

ORGASM RESTRICTION AGREEMENT​

This Agreement is voluntarily entered into by …………………………. born on XX August 1947 and ……………………………. (his wife) born on YY September 1947 on the date shown below.



WHEREAS



A ……………………………………… is a Randy Old Degenerate (hereinafter “ROD”) whose libido is ridiculously high for his age, and

B ……………………………………… is the Party Of Lesser Libidinous Yearnings (hereinafter “POLLY”), and

C ROD currently pesters POLLY nightly for sex, and

D ROD often encounters difficulty in reaching orgasm on nights when he has sex, and

E ROD is keen to experiment with orgasm restriction for the purposes set out in this Agreement, and

F POLLY wishes to be relieved of any feelings of guilt on nights when she does not want sex.



The parties therefore enter into this Agreement upon the terms and conditions set out.



CLAUSES



1 Purpose

The purpose of this Agreement is to

i) - relieve POLLY of any feelings of guilt on occasions when she refuses sex, since sex will no longer usually result in an orgasm for ROD, and

ii) - enhance the power and eroticism of those orgasms that ROD is granted, thereby making him more devoted and loving to POLLY, and

iii) - make it easier for ROD to achieve those orgasms he is granted.

This Agreement shall in no way restrict POLLY’s sexual pleasure. Through this Agreement POLLY shall be enabled to have as much sexual activity as she desires, and not be pressured into having more.



It is not intended that this Agreement should be legally enforceable.



2 Term of the Agreement

This Agreement enters into force upon signature by the parties. The agreement shall run for an initial trial period of four (4) weeks after which it may be renewed for three (3) month periods by mutual agreement.



3 Sexual Conduct

3.1 ROD shall continue to invite sex every night. If POLLY rejects ROD’s advances he shall accept this without any form of negativity. ROD accepts that his advances are purely to enable POLLY to decide if she wants sex. Furthermore POLLY is free to initiate sex at any time.

3.2 Whenever POLLY desires sex, ROD shall use his best endeavours to provide a satisfying and enjoyable experience for POLLY and will provide as many orgasms as she desires at that time. If ROD penetrates her, he shall do so solely for the purpose of providing pleasure and not for the purpose of achieving an orgasm himself. After POLLY has climaxed ROD shall gracefully withdraw.

3.3 If during such penetration ROD is in danger of having an orgasm he shall immediately stop any thrusting and inform POLLY of his failure. POLLY shall decide how ROD is to proceed on that occasion and ROD shall be obligated to obtain without delay the means for avoiding a recurrence of the problem (be it desensitizing creams and/or condoms) on future such occasions.

3.4 POLLY can at any time stimulate ROD’s body in any manner she chooses either for the purpose of generating additional frustration (an activity that is encouraged) or for providing ROD with an orgasm. ROD may only obtain an orgasm when POLLY has explicitly informed him of her permission to do so. In the absence of such permission he shall always warn POLLY if he is about to have an orgasm in which case she can choose to stop or to continue. If ROD expresses frustration when he is denied an orgasm after stimulation this shall not be considered a punishable offence. POLLY shall she be under no obligation to inform ROD in advance of when he might next get an orgasm.

3.5 POLLY can impose periods of abstinence for punitive reasons (“Punitive Periods”) if ROD breaches the Agreement in any way. Such Punitive Periods may last between 1 and 4 weeks as decided by POLLY. Examples of breaches are:

- an unauthorised orgasm

- a negative reaction when POLLY does not agree to sex

- failure to invite sex when going to bed

- failure to take measures to avoid orgasm during penetration

- non acceptance of a decision by POLLY as provided in clause 5.

3.6 For every 2 week period outside of Punitive Periods POLLY guarantees to grant ROD a minimum of one orgasm and a maximum of 3 orgasms at her discretion. All of ROD’s orgasms may be by any means POLLY determines. However, at least 50% of ROD’s orgasms in the initial term or in any subsequent three month period will be during sexual intercourse.

3.7 ROD is responsible for advising POLLY in the event that she is about to breach clause 3.6 by failing to meet the minimum or maximum orgasm limit or of not meeting the 50% rule. Failure to so advise POLLY shall absolve POLLY of any liability for such a breach but shall not be considered a punishable breach by ROD.



4 Termination

4.1 This Agreement shall automatically terminate at the end of the initial trial period or any 3 month extension thereof unless both parties agree to a further extension.

4.2 This Agreement may be terminated with immediate effect by mutual agreement.



5 Jurisdiction

ROD explicitly renouncing any jurisdiction that may otherwise apply to him shall for the resolution of any dispute regarding the interpretation or operation of this Agreement submit absolutely to the decision of POLLY. ROD is free to argue and put forward his view on any such matter without risk of punishment but once a definitive decision is made further appeal may result in the award of a Punitive Period.



To which the parties put their hands this day of , 2010.

 

Wow:
(i seem to start a lot of posts with that word...)

This stuff is HOT!!!

Mistress and i have just entered into a contract of sorts, really it is a list of fifty promises and things that i have to do. She has promised nothing and is already taking full advantage.

Again i say Wow!

Maybe we could use a contract...hmmmm....

subklik

 

Once we agreed to follow this path, my Wife instructed me to draft the broadest possible Agreement, as She didn't want to be bothered with non-essential detail. In 2007, She and i entered into the following contract, now in effect permanently, meaning i've been locked in a chastity device now for 3 years, during which time She has allowed me to cum maybe 10 times. My Wife is very loving, and very strict, and we are very happy with our arrangement. Lurking in the background, btw, is a post-nuptial contract drafted by my Wife, an expert in family law, that She says would be enforceable but that i know would be financially ruinous to me. Nowhere does our Agreement mention this, if only because to do so might invite unwanted scrutiny of the basis and purpose of the post-nup, which my Wife was careful to try to avoid. If ever i needed a further incentive to obey--and i don't--the post-nup would serve the purpose. Here's our Agreement:

(here's hoping it's attached, as this is my 1st post)

 

Maybe this is all just "fun" but - Who thinks up this crap? Slavery violates a number of laws and frankly is totally insulting to read. Have we sunk so low that this goes without anyone saying anything?

Why get "Married?" Just clamp on some leg irons and brand him. Sheesh. Ok, having said that I'm worried someone will think "Hey! Good idea!"

 

You've plenty to choose from or adapt...but two things to bear in mind.

1. Don't even TRY to make it legally binding or enforceable. it can't be done in those terms.

2. To give it a fair wind, set it out for starters as a fixed period, and as an expression of consent, but within those terms: the basis is if you can legally consent to anything that's the only limit!!

My draft was on that basis, but there are plenty of others...

BCWYWF

 

Thanks to all for sharing, and a special thanks to xcitex2, as Goddess B and I used the bulk of your contract (modifying it only slightly to meet our needs) for our own. Detailed enough to have meaning but open-ended enough to leave room for her interpretation! She was even so cruel as to put on some red lipstick and plant a kiss on the signature page of our contract!

 

Hi Joro:

Just to have a time out for those who take this too seriously we Mistress and I are really well grounded. We also have a house full of kids, so it really isn;t practical or in any way realistic to think that we could live this way full time.
Sure we jhave stuff like branks (scolds bridle) all the chains and cuffs you could want.
I even write about our adventures in "the vault". But reality for us is that I am essentially in charge and in reality She likes it better this way. Our adventures no matter how extreme they get (WOW) they are fantasy coming to lifethats all. These things are for those who want to engage in it and fantasy for everyone is on a different level. I sincerely hope that no one would even want to do anything against their partners will or to hurt them. But I don't think that hurting our partners is in the spirit of these "contracts". I think it would be very embarrasing to even TRY to enforce these things that anyone might try to is laughable. I really hope that most of us are mature enough to know fanasy from reality.

Honestly if I feel particularly submissive (it's called "subspace") I would sign any of these contracts BECAUSE, I know my Wife loves me and will never harm me in any way. This is all fantasy folks! Thats all. SOme of us are just lucky enough to be able to extend our fantasy plays longer than others.
If we ever get all these kids out of the house we may see a week or so with 100 percent fantasy.

But reality is not like that and life really is so much more than sexual stuff anyway.
If we all stay balanced we can have a lot more fun.

I had a girlfriend years ago who loved whipping my ass til it was red. Once she drew a little bit of blood with a particularly hard stroke. She stopped right away actually cried over it thinking She had gone too far. Well She had, but we remain friends to this day.

For me I want to play with people who actually care about me and other human beings first, I cannot submit to someone I don't fully trust.


Ok well I am rambling now but I just wanted a reality check while I am sick in bed with my Wife doting on me.
See that? She loves and caes for me that is what makes fantasy with Her work.


Subklik in love,

OK Now back to fantasy and serving Mistress's.

I just re read this and it does seem rambling and disjointed. I do hope that you all get the spirit of what I am saying thats all.
I love this forum and I think the people n it for the most part are very cool.






From what I read

 

Mistress and I's chastity contract is heavily reliant on a lot of concepts and some wording of what I have read here. Ours can conveniently be found at this link --> Chastity Contract

Let me know what you think!

Yours in a Prison of Pleasure,

O Man, Mistress A's Chastity Slave

 

The following is our current agreement. As it suggests, I am not a lifestyle submissive. I merely enjoy the fantasy during our chastity play. We are actually pretty vanilla and conservative otherwise. it works great for us!

CHASTITY AGREEMENT

CONTENTS
A) General Provisions
B. Power Exchange & Chastity Training
C) Chastity Sentence
D) Teasing & Orgasm Denial
E) Scheduled & Unscheduled Relief
F) Permission to Climax
G) Security Protocols
H) Temporary Release from Device
I) Daily Hygiene Regimen
J) Summary of Penalties
K) Additional Responsibilities

A) GENERAL PROVISIONS
1) The purpose of this document is to establish an anonymous and voluntary agreement between a husband, also to be known herein as the “submissive” or “sub”, and wife, also to be known herein as the “Keyholder” or “Mistress”, for the purpose of incorporating a male chastity and orgasm denial game within the confines of a happy and faithful marriage; and is entered into by both parties of their own free will. The idea has been brought forward voluntarily and unsolicited by the husband in hope that the experience will make him a better husband and lover, increase libido and enhance intimacy.
2) The purpose of this agreement is to outline the rules of the game. It is not a contract or in any way legally binding.
3) While the husband would like to explore his submissive fantasies, this agreement is not to be construed to establish a full-time Dominate/slave relationship or any other form of relationship that would violate the law of love (mutual consent), God’s laws or the marriage vows.
4) Mutual Consent Clause: If at anytime either party is no longer interested in participating, this agreement becomes null and void. This agreement may only be amended with mutual consent.

B. POWER EXCHANGE & CHASTITY TRAINING
1) Submissive agrees that his penis, testicles, orgasms and sexual function are the exclusive property of his Mistress. He surrenders his rights to the same willingly and without reservation. He shall allow access to her property at any time under any circumstances she dictates. She is allowed to use her property as she sees fit without expectation of resistance or whining.
2) Submissive agrees to wear a full-time chastity device tightly encircling the testicles and completely encasing the penis in order to control erections, prevent masturbation or any other unauthorized use of his Mistress’ property. The device is to be secured with a brass Master padlock or single-use plastic lock with serial number at all times providing confirmation that the Mistress’ property has not been misused.
3) Mistress agrees to take on the role of “keyholder” and has exclusive rights regarding the location and quantity of primary and emergency keys to the chastity device.
4) Under no circumstances will the submissive have control or free access to any key, except by special permission of his Mistress to facilitate her needs and schedule. Touching a key without permission is punishable by the maximum chastity sentence.
5) If the submissive has permission from his Mistress to carry a key for medical emergencies it shall be secured in such a way that it can be easily determined that it was accessed. Use of an emergency key for non-emergency purposes is a serious offence and shall be punishable by the maximum chastity sentence and/or special punishment as deemed by the Mistress. The submissive shall present the secured emergency key daily for inspection at his Mistress’ discretion.
6) If the submissive is carrying an emergency key and is encountering severe pain or pinching such that it is disrupting his work or activities, he may contact his Mistress and request permission to access the key; or he may access it without permission and take a chance that he will be punished for suspected misuse.
7) If a plastic lock is being used and it snaps open accidently, the submissive shall notify his mistress as soon as possible. Mistress may at her sole discretion add time to the chastity sentence as punishment up to the maximum chastity sentence.
8) During sexual contact, including tease and denial sessions, scheduled relief and unscheduled relief, the submissive shall:
a) Only address his wife as “Mistress”
b. Always refer to the penis and testicles as “her property”
c) Always request permission before touching her property
d) Always request permission to climax (see “Permission to Climax” section below)

C) CHASTITY SENTENCE
1) The chastity sentence may not exceed the maximum sentence of 30 days. This maximum duration may be changed by mutual consent.
2) Mistress shall determine the duration of the chastity sentence by one of four methods:
a) Set an arbitrary release date
b. Set a release date by chance (submissive rolls five six-sided dice, or similar)
c) Set no release date at all
d) Other method mutually agreed upon
3) When the sentence is fulfilled and relief has been allowed, Mistress shall “reset” the game by one of the methods listed above.
4) Mistress may allow an “unscheduled relief” at her discretion. Following an unscheduled relief, Mistress may either reset the game or continue the sentence as scheduled. (See “Scheduled and Unscheduled Relief” section below.)
5) Mistress may require submissive to service her sexually without relief as often as she desires during the chastity sentence. Failure to honor her request will result in the maximum chastity sentence to begin at the time of the infraction.
6) Mistress may engage in teasing and orgasm denial during the chastity sentence as described in the following section. Failure to cooperate on the part of the submissive will result in the maximum chastity sentence to begin at the time of the infraction.

D) TEASING & ORGASM DENIAL
1) Mistress may arouse her submissive as often as she likes during the chastity sentence for the purpose of heightening the intensity of his chastity training or for her own personal amusement.
2) Mistress may “edge” submissive near orgasm repeatedly and/or keep submissive in a constant state of arousal while denying orgasm/ejaculation as often as she likes during the chastity sentence.
3) Mistress may choose to “abandon” submissive’s orgasm as a form of denial. This method drains the seminal fluids while virtually eliminating the physical pleasure of ejaculation. The following is one example of how this may be achieved:
a) Mistress allows submissive to approach orgasm using any method she chooses
b. Submissive requests permission to climax as usual
c) Mistress grants permission; but a first sign of ejaculation, she verbally commands submissive to “stop”
d) Submissive must immediately cease all stroking or thrusting, removing his hands from the immediate vicinity of her property and remaining as still as possible
4) Ruining of an orgasm by severely restricting the flow of ejaculate is forbidden due to the unknown health risk. This technique is known to cause seminal fluid to flow back into the bladder and cause severe pain during ejaculation.
5) Submissive is forbidden to touch Mistress’ property once denied. If submissive looses control and ejaculation cannot be averted, he must immediately cease all stroking or thrusting, remove his hands from the immediate vicinity of Mistress’ property and remain as still as possible until the ejaculate is expelled. Loss of control shall result in the game being reset.

E) SCHEDULED & UNSCHEDULED RELIEF
1) When the submissive has fulfilled his chastity sentence, he is entitled to “scheduled relief” which his Mistress will allow at her leisure.
2) Mistress alone shall determine the circumstances around which the scheduled relief will be allowed, and the form it will take. Forms it may take include the following:
a) Intercourse resulting in orgasm.
b. Oral sex resulting in orgasm.
c) Supervised, guided or mutual masturbation resulting in orgasm.
d) Ruined (abandoned) orgasm (as described in previous section).
e) Orgasm by other creative means, as long as it is mutually acceptable.
f) Prostate massage (releasing seminal fluids without an orgasm). Mistress is not obligated to remove the chastity device during a prostate massage.
g) Any combination of the above.
3) Mistress may participate sexually in the scheduled relief; but she is not obligated to do so.
4) Mistress may postpone scheduled relief briefly if it is not convenient for her.
5) The rules for an “unscheduled relief” are identical, except it is unscheduled. The game may or may not be reset at the discretion of the Mistress.

F) PERMISSION TO CLIMAX
1) During scheduled or unscheduled relief, or during teasing for the purpose of arousal and orgasm denial, if the submissive feels he is nearing orgasm, he shall verbally request permission to climax.
2) Mistress has complete discretion in whether to allow a climax or not. She may repeatedly deny submissive if she desires.
3) If submissive climaxes without permission, whether having failed to ask permission or having climaxed after being denied, the game is reset.
4) If submissive fails to climax when his Mistress gives permission, he has lost his opportunity and she may at her sole discretion allow him another chance or reset the game and begin his next sentence immediately.
5) Following any climax, the submissive is responsible for cleaning up his Mistress, sex toys and disposing of the resulting ejaculate in whatever manner his Mistress instructs.

G) SECURITY PROTOCOLS
1) The submissive shall present himself to his Mistress to be unlocked. Only she may insert the key to unlock the device (except in a medical emergency as described above).
2) When free, submissive shall not misuse his Mistress’ property by stroking or touching her property without permission, and only in her presence and under her direct supervision.
3) When Mistress instructs her submissive to do so, he shall reinstall the device and place the lock into its place without locking it. He shall then present himself to her for inspection. She will inspect her property for security and proper fit, and when satisfied, snap the lock shut. During inspection, the submissive shall remain still and quiet until he hears the “click” of the lock closing.

H) TEMPORARY RELEASE FROM DEVICE
1) On occasion, Mistress may give permission to the submissive to release her property from the chastity device for a short period of time at her discretion. Circumstances under which this could be the case may include, but are not limited to, a doctor’s appointment, family event and teasing and arousal session.
2) If allowed freedom while physically separated from his Mistress, submissive shall continue to fulfill his chastity sentence as if he still wore the device. A confirmed violation of this condition will be punishable by the maximum chastity sentence.

I) DAILY HYGEINE REGIMEN
1) Submissive is expected to go about his morning routine by showering with the chastity device intact without the need to wake his Mistress. In the event that this is not possible, the following regimen shall be followed.
2) Prior to showering, submissive shall wake Mistress and request permission to be unlocked. She may instruct him to hand her the key, or she may retrieve it herself. Once the security protocol is complete, the submissive shall proceed directly to the bathroom to begin the regimen.
3) Submissive shall remove the chastity device in the bathroom and wash each component with soap and water. After drying and laying out each component on the sink, submissive shall proceed with his shower.
4) Submissive shall be responsible to take this opportunity to groom and maintain his Mistress’ property. The pubic area, areas around the testicular ring, shaft of the penis and the testicles shall be kept as smooth and hairless as possible. Mistress shall have final say regarding how submissive is to groom to her taste.
5) When the shower is complete, the submissive shall dry himself, replace the chastity device immediately and report to his Mistress for inspection before completing his morning routine.
6) Submissive must maintain chastity during the regimen as if the device where in place. Misuse of Mistress’ property during the regimen is strictly forbidden and is punishable by the maximum chastity sentence.

J) SUMMARY OF PENALTIES*
1) Maximum penalty…………………….………………….. 30 days (resets game)
2) Touching a key without permission……….……………… Maximum
3) Willing disregard for security protocols……….…………. Maximum
4) Unauthorized masturbation……………………………….. Maximum
5) Failure to service Mistress when requested…….………… Maximum
6) Failure to cooperate during teasing and denial……….…... Maximum
7) Climax w/o permission during session with Mistress……. Resets Game
8) Failure to climax when permitted………………………… Lost opportunity
*Mistress may at any time reduce sentence at her discretion. These represent maximum sentences only.

K) ADDITIONAL RESPONSIBILITIES
1) Mistress may request submissive to assist her with her personal needs such as dressing, showering, massaging her feet or back, painting her toenails, coloring her hair, plucking her eyebrows, etc. Submissive shall give his Mistress priority in all these matters.
2) Submissive is responsible to do the laundry and make sure that his Mistress always has an adequate supply of clothing available.
3) Submissive is responsible for putting the trash out on Tuesday evening, and retrieving the cans on Wednesday evening.
4) Submissive is responsible to keep the grass trimmed and cut on a weekly basis.
5) Mistress may require the submissive to perform tasks inside the house wearing only his chastity device at any time for any reason.
6) If submissive feels he cannot complete a task as expected, he shall communicate his excuse to his Mistress. She may accept or refuse the excuse and apply a consequence. Consequences for uncompleted tasks or submitting invalid excuses are subject to one-day penalties per infraction or other consequence deemed appropriate.

 

Chastity contract with Mistress Michelle. i trust Her completely. She owns me. She tells me what to do, i do it. Simple really. If i have concerns about something i am allowed to voice them but the FINAL decision is Hers alone.

MM's sweetpea
rachel

 

Hello all.
Let me give some background: my wife and I have been playing around with male chastity for six months, with me wearing a CB6000S It has been quite good fun for most of the time (except when life throws the odd curveball your way and upsets all of your carefully laid plans). Things became a bit more serious recently when she ordered me a Mature Metal Watchful Mistress for my Christmas present. This was on the proviso that I 'take things more seriously' which was a reference to both of us being a bit slack over the Festive Season (not wearing the CB6000S, her not enforcing its use).
For the last two weeks the ante has definitely been upped! Tease and Denial and a little CBTare a regular thing during our morning rituals and the CB6000S has been kept on. There has been more than the whiff of FemDom about the relationship dynamic as well, something that turns me on and I want to encourage.
In light of all of this, I thought it would be interesting to put together a contract for behaviour. This goes beyond a chastity contract in that there are FemDom overtones. It was singed this weekend, although we were working to some of the contract requirements over the last ten days or so.

I would appreciate any comments.

Contract

1. This contract has been created to provide the guidance and framework for Male Chastity as practised between the Wife and Husband. It is not exhaustive by any means and is intended to be a living document to which both persons can contribute at any time. It sets out the expectations of behaviour, roles as they currently stand and mechanism for discussions between both persons.

2. Background

a. This contract has been drawn up by the Husband as an expression of love and trust. He is granting the Wife complete control over his orgasms and offering this freely to the Wife, trusting Her to manage the Husband’s sexual needs. It is expected that the Wife should enjoy this and demonstrably luxuriate in the fact that Her sexual requirements are an overriding priority for the Husband. In short, the Husband is willingly surrendering sexually to his Wife.

b. The position of authority that the Wife is placed in by the Husband should be regarded as a loving gift from the Husband to the Wife.

c. The acceptance of said gift is highly valued by the Husband and should be demonstrated as so.

3. Persons, roles & items involved

a. The Wife, henceforth referred to as the Mistress, who is also the sole Keyholder for the Chastity Device;

b. The Husband, the spouse of the Mistress;

c. The Chastity Device, worn by the Husband so as to encase the husband’s genitalia, thereby preventing manual stimulation by the Husband. This item can be the CB-6000S or the Watchful Mistress or any other Chastity Device acquired by the Mistress or Husband subsequent to the signing of this contract. Choice of the Chastity Device to be worn is at the sole discretion of the Mistress and the Husband may not dispute this. The Chastity Device shall be locked when worn by the Husband. Locking may be from a number of methods chosen at the Discretion of the Mistresses.

d. The Mistress’ Property, also referred to as the Property; the Husband’s genitalia. Signing of this contract by the Husband automatically confers ownership of the Property to the Mistress.

4. Definitions

a. Male Chastity; the abstention of sexual climax for the male, normally enforced by the wearing of the Chastity Device.

b. Denial period; the duration between Sexual Releases of the Husband, a period set by the Mistress. The determination of this period can be any means necessary, including by games of chance, as chosen by the Mistress. The Mistress’ decision in this is final and will be accepted by the Husband.

c. Release; removal of the Chastity Device.

d. Sexual Release; orgasm for the Husband, which may be ruined or not depending on the wiShes of the Mistress; or orgasm for the Mistress;

e. Milking; the release of semen etc from the male by way of manipulation of the prostate gland either manually or by use of an instrument or a sex toy of the Mistress’ choosing.

f. Denial; the withholding of Sexual Release from the Husband. Sexual release may not be denied to the Mistress for any reason.

g. Keyholder; the person in possession of the Key to the lock on the Chastity Device. This will normally be the Mistress.

h. Punishments; penalties enforced by the Mistress in the event of any breaking of any term of the contract by the Husband.

i. Tease and Denial; the sexual teasing and arousal of the Husband by the Mistress without result of Sexual Release for the Husband.

5. Duration and revisions of the contract

a. The contract duration is in perpetuity or until either party decides the contract can be broken. This may be done unilaterally without recourse, however it is expected that the reason for breaking the contract will be explained.

b. The contract can be revised at any time after discussion between both parties. Either party can instigate this process.

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6. Denial Period

a. The period of denial is set by the Mistress. The methodology of setting the duration of the period is at the discretion of the Mistress.

b. The Husband may request reductions or increases to the period. The Mistress may choose whether or not to accept these requests.

c. Once the period of denial has been finalised by the Mistress, then the Husband should be informed.

d. No period should be less than 10 days except in special circumstances.

e. As and when the Mistress feels it is appropriate She may grant the Husband leave to not wear a Chastity Device or an extended period of Release. This period would normally last for a couple of days. During this period the Husband may enjoy as many Sexual Releases as he may desire. This may or may not be with Mistress’ involvement. At the conclusion of these generous Release periods the Husband will return to a state of Male Chastity; the Mistress’ Property will be placed inside a Male Chastity Device.

f. Under normal circumstances the Mistress will inform the Husband of the duration of the Release period, however She reserves the right to end the period as and when She sees fit.

7. Behaviours

a. Hygiene

i. The Husband is responsible for daily cleaning of the Chastity Device in use and the Mistress’ Property. This may need to be done without Release from the Chastity Device.

ii. Husband will notify the Mistress immediately regarding any concerns over the effectiveness or cleanliness of the Chastity Device.

iii. The Mistress will permit at least weekly Release from the Chastity Device for inspection and cleaning of Her Property and the Chastity Device in use. During this procedure the Mistress may choose request that the Husband shaves the Mistress’ Property. This may be supervised by the Mistress or even carried out by Her. The Mistress may choose to restrain the Husband during these cleans or inspections.

iv. The Husband agrees that the Chastity Device will be replaced after removal as soon as is reasonably practicable and will assist in this as Mistress sees fit. In the event of sexual arousal of the Husband and resultant tumescence of the Mistress’ Property, thereby preventing enclosure of Her Property by the Chastity Device, then the Mistress may [font="Tahoma"][size="2"]utilise methods [/size][/font][s1] to reduce tumescence as She so wishes.

b. Keys

i. The Keys can be a physical Key, a code or the permission to remove a breakable tag all resulting in the release of the Chastity Device.

ii. The Keys are to be held by the Mistress at all times.

iii. In the event of a physical Key being in use, this should be worn or held on a chain by the Mistress about Her person. In the privacy of the home this would normally be about the Mistress’ [font="Tahoma"][size="2"]neck[/size][/font][s2] .

iv. Emergency access to the Key is at the Mistress’ discretion.

c. Chastity Device

i. This should be worn at all times so as to prevent the Husband from manually stimulating the Mistress’ Property without Her permission.

ii. The Husband may remove the Chastity Device, with the permission of the Mistress when;

1. Going to the gym, rugby training or playing rugby.

2. Visiting a medical practitioner or similar.

In these circumstances, permission from the Mistress would not necessarily be needed by the Husband, but should be sought as an indication of the [font="Tahoma"][size="2"]high esteem [/size][/font][s3] in which She should be held.

d. Sexual release for the Husband

i. This will be at the sole discretion of the Mistress. Any Sexual Release for the Husband that is not expressly authorised by the Mistress will result in punishment of the Husband by the Mistress.

ii. The Mistress shall determine the time and manner of the Husband’s Sexual Release and may choose to abandon an attempt at [font="Tahoma"][size="2"]any time [/size][/font][s4] up to the point of the Sexual Release being sought.

iii. The Husband should warn the Mistress if Sexual Release is imminent during a Tease and Denial session especially if permission for Sexual Release has not been given by the Mistress.

e. Sexual release for the Mistress

i. This will be at a time and place chosen at the sole discretion of the Mistress.

ii. There is a duty on the Husband to ensure that Mistress achieves Sexual Release at least daily, if she so wishes. If he is unable to do this then he should make arrangements for it to happen.

iii. The Mistress may choose the Husband to assist Her in Sexual Release, but is free to use other methods. Typically, if the husband is present he will be expected to assist the Mistress in achieving Sexual Release with enthusiasm.

f. Reinforcing

i. The Husband will thank the Mistress on a daily basis for being his Mistress and [font="Tahoma"][size="2"]Keyholder[/size][/font][s5] . The Mistress may ritualise this process e.g. insisting that the Husband does this on his knees etc.

ii. The Husband will refer to the Mistress as ‘Mistress’ or any other term that the Mistress should desire in the bedroom

iii. The Mistress may refer to the Husband as She chooses but should remember and understand Her [font="Tahoma"][size="2"]position of authority[/size][/font][s6] .

iv. The Mistress may choose to subject the Husband to as much teasing as possible in order to reinforce his dependence on her for Sexual Release. This may include using such methods as:

1. Tease and Denial sessions.

2. Dressing provocatively, whether in private or public.

3. Verbal teasing and stimulation.

4. Viewing of pornography; normally the Mistress may choose the pornography to viewed.

g. Health and Fitness

i. There is a duty on the Husband to maintain a degree of fitness in order to fulfill the Mistress’ needs, be they physical, sexual, or otherwise.

ii. For the foreseeable future the Husband is expected to:

1. Lose at least [font="Tahoma"][size="2"]1kg[/size][/font][s7] per week. Weight loss cannot be ‘banked’ so that any additional weight lost during one week contributes to the total for another week.

2. Lose [font="Tahoma"][size="2"]0.5% [/size][/font][s8] body fat per week. Body fat loss cannot be ‘banked’ so that any additional body fat lost during one week contributes to the total for another week.

3. Attend rugby training, play rugby or go to the gym for a workout or class at least three times per week as a minimum. Twice per week is acceptable, but not for more than two weeks. In the case where only two sessions have been attended in a week Mistress may request that the Husband attends four sessions. Failure to do this will be punished.

4. Refrain from eating dessert more than twice per week without the specific permission of the Mistress. The Mistress may choose to determine when this should occur.

5. Refrain from drinking alcohol during the week except with the express permission of the Mistress or during holiday periods.

iii. Both parties are expected to maintain their own health.

h. Appearance

i. It is the duty of the Husband to look good for his Mistress’ aesthetic pleasure. To this end he will maintain an appearance that is pleasing to his Mistress. To this end, his duties will be to:

1. Be pleasant smelling and have minty, fresh breath.

2. Maintain trimmed pubic hair around Mistress’ Property, specifically the scrotum and penis.

3. Wear [font="Tahoma"][size="2"]smart clothing [/size][/font][s9] in public when accompanying Mistress.

4. Maintain a clean shaven face when in situations where intimacy between the Mistress and Husband may occur. The Mistress may request that the Husband shaves at any time.

ii. The Mistress should understand the need to maintain appearances;

1. Visual stimulation is very important in reinforcing the benefits of this contract to the Husband. To this end the Mistress should consider wearing sexy clothing around the Husband but not to the detriment of her standing at her place of work or in the community.

8. Sex

a. At any time the Husband may ask for Sexual Release, unless told not to do so. It may please the Mistress for the Husband to beg. There is no obligation on the Mistress to grant Sexual Release even if She has said that She will. A decision to grant Sexual Release for the Husband may be revoked at any time by the Mistress up to the point of Sexual Release.

b. The Mistress has the right to refuse any request for Sexual Release by the Husband. Note: excessive begging, nagging etc by the Husband is a punishable offence.

c. The Mistress is the sole owner of Her Property and may treat it in any manner She sees fit during Tease and Denial or Sexual Release.

d. The Mistress may perform any sexual act, be it on the Husband or on herself, by any method She sees fit.

e. The Mistress may order the Husband to perform any sexual act, be it on the Mistress or on himself, by any method She sees fit.

f. Husband acknowledges and agrees that Mistress has certain sexual needs that may need to be fulfilled and such releases for Mistress do not constitute a release for Husband.

g. Husband agrees to satisfy Mistress by whatever means Mistress deems necessary for Her own sexual gratification.

h. Husband agrees that Sexual Releases may be accompanied by being restrained as determined by Mistress. Husband agrees that Mistress may release husband for the means of sexual play but that no orgasm is permitted until Mistress permits one.

i. Husband agrees to use any sexual aids such as (but not limited to) vibrators, strap-ons, dildos, and other aids to satisfy Mistress.

j. Husband agrees that Mistress may use devices mentioned above in addition to other restraints on Husband and Husband will have no say in objecting to such devices. (Although begging up to a point will be allowed, once Husband is told by Mistress to stop, the expectation is compliance. Failure will result in punishment both immediate and future.)

9. Rights, Privileges and Understandings

a. All lingerie for the Mistress will be bought by the Husband upon Her request, which will be met with cheerful acceptance by the Husband. The request can be as specific as the Mistress decides. The Husband may purchase lingerie for Mistress as a gift at any time.

b. All sexual toys and equipment for the Mistress or Husband will be bought by the Husband upon Her request, which will be met with cheerful acceptance by the Husband. The Husband may purchase toys and equipment for Mistress as a gift at any time.

c. Any purchase of sexual toys or equipment by the Husband for his own use, if not requested by the Mistress, should be authorised by the Mistress. This authorisation should be preceded by the Husband offering a full justification and explanation of his need for the toy. Permission will be granted by the Mistress solely at Her discretion.

d. Husband agrees and understands that Mistress may use various methods to tease and torment Husband at any time. Further more, Husband understands that he has no say in such teasing and that Mistress may continue or stop at will.

e. Mistress understands that She is free to receive any form of sexual gratification needed from the Husband or other sources during Denial Periods.

f. Husband is aware that rewards up to and including Sexual Release are given for good behavior including but not limited to pampering, dinner dates, gifts, massages, and other ideas Husband comes up with.

g. Both parties agree that modifications to this agreement may be needed during the period of this agreement and that such modifications can be made as long as both parties are in agreement.

10. Privacy

a. Both parties agree that every day life decisions such as household finances and other marital decisions outside the bedroom will have no effect on terms of this agreement, and that such decisions made can have no impact on the terms of this agreement.

b. This contract is between the Mistress and Husband. Release of knowledge of the existence of the contract, whole or in part, by the Husband is wholly forbidden.

c. The behaviours dictated by this contract are to be the standard when the Mistress and Husband are in a private area e.g. at home. There will need to be a degree of judgement as to what is acceptable outside of this area.

11. Typical Punishments

a. Withholding of Sexual Release, period to be determined by the Mistress

b. Corporal punishments e.g. whipping, flogging, nipple twisting etc

c. Withholding of Tease and Denial.

d. Sexual punishment e.g. wearing CBT items e.g. Humbler, ball stretcher, Kali’s Teeth, Points of Intrigue (Note: These are also sexual acts and, as such, the Mistress may instigate these at any time for her own pleasure).

e. Humiliation e.g. sitting on the floor, not the sofa, when watching TV with Mistress, verbal humilation.

f. Any other punishment Mistress may feel is appropriate.

12. Specific Punishments

a. Both parties agree that deviation from contract will result in either cancellation of contract or punishments to correct errant behavior.

b. Breach of contract by Mistress will constitute a cancellation of contract.

c. Cancellation of contract will result in immediate release of Husband from device.

d. Breach of contract by Husband will be handled at the discretion of the Mistress as outlined below.

e. Unauthorized removal of device will result in a ten-day period of lock up and denial for Husband. Absolutely no Sexual Releases will be allowed for Husband during this penalty period.

f. Unauthorized removal of device that includes a Sexual Release will result in a fifteen day period of lock up and denial for Husband. Again, absolutely no Sexual Releases will be allowed for Husband during this penalty period. Additional punishment may be added as determined by Mistress.

g. Husband agrees that additional restraining, flogging, private humiliation, servitude, and any other means of punishment may be administered by Mistress to correct or punish infractions from contract.

h. Husband agrees that failure to accept terms of punishment for infractions is means for immediate termination of this agreement and that such refusal could lead to other detrimental behaviour on part of Mistress.

13. Safe words

a. Yellow means stop.

b. On cessation with reason for stopping may be discussed. The Mistress is the sole arbiter as to whether or not the decision to stop is justified and may mete out any punishment She sees fit if the cessation was not justified.

14. Signatures

 

Your opinion brings to mind the two main reasons for having a chastity, slave or cuckold agreement:

1) The submissive signs such a contract of his own free will. He wants to be enslaved. He wants to be obedient. He wants to have his sexuality controlled. Indeed, not only does he want these things, he needs them and craves them. Even though these contracts have no legal binding whatsoever, no contract is enforcible if it is entered into under duress or coercion.

2) These contracts are drawn up to protect both parties from people with your attitude, who might feel that the submissive needs to be "rescued" from enslavement. Again, even though these contracts have no legal standing of their own, they could be entered into evidence to prove the mindset and willingness of both parties.

Love to all,

Mistress Angelique

 

Hi.
This is the contract that I'm about to sign on Valentines day. We negotiated it back and forth for about a week. I retain no copywrite on this. I was asked to pull contracts from the Web, and send them to my wife. This is her mixing, matching contracts as she decided. The contract duration extension is a compromise solution, in that I only wanted 3 months, while she wanted longer.

I'm documenting the journey here.
http://www.chastitym...ng-of-chastity/

 

Are there any misspelling penalties or are you, like me, often 'prostrate' after too much 'wine'?

 

Thank you to everyone that posted. MissMaddy'sPet and I still have to write our contract and these will really help. Two of my favorites things that will be in our contract is that he must kiss my feet before he leaves for work in the morning(while I'm still sleeping in bed) and kiss my pussy upon entering the house at the end of the day!

 

The security clause in section 4 of this contract gives the mistress considerable security to insure that the slave continues in his part for the duration


Defined Relationship in Marriage Contract


This contract is provided as a secure and binding agreement that defines in specific terms the relationship and roles of two married individuals, hereafter termed the slave and the Mistress. Both parties agree to explore a relationship whereby the Mistress can become totally confident in her rightful role a superior to expect the absolute love and obedience of her husband slave while the slave learns to understand his true place as an inferior male whose is to be trained to view himself as a thing who places service and devotion to his Mistress above himself. This agreement is entered voluntarily with both parties agreeing to the conditions.

Section One: The Slave's Role

• His main purpose in life is to love, honor, obey, and serve the pleasure of his mistress.
• The slave hereby transfers ownership of his body to the Mistress to be used and controlled as she desires.
• The slave agrees to give his time, talents and ambition over to the mistress.
• The slave agrees to give complete control of shared property and his wages to Mistress.
• The slave agrees and desires to submit as a true inferior to the Mistress in all ways.
• Within the conditions of this contract, there is no place, time, or situation in which the slave may willfully refuse to obey the directive of the Mistress without risking punishment, except in the use of a safe-word to be agreed upon and covered in this contract under the rules section.
• The slave agrees to please the Mistress to the best of his ability.
• The slave agrees to serve and suffer for her displeasure or pleasure.
• The slave agrees to put the happiness and well being of Mistress above his own.

Section two: The Mistress's Role

• The Mistress accepts the responsibility of training slave to serve her needs, wants and desires without concern for his wants and to impose a fundamental understanding that he is truly inferior.
• The mistress accepts ownership of the slave's body, to do with as she sees fit, under the provisions determined in this contract.
• The Mistress agrees to care for the slave and to arrange for the safety and wellbeing of the slave as long as she owns the slave. The Mistress will provide for draining the prostate at least once every 30 days either by prostate massage or by orgasm.
• The Mistress also accepts the commitment to treat the slave as valuable property, to train the slave, punish the slave, humiliate the slave, and use the slave as she sees fit.
• It is understood that the Mistress will have training goals and will impose many rules for the slave to follow and will routinely give commands to the slave.
• It is understood that the mistress may control the slave’s time, activities, clothing adornment, sexual conduct, access to funds, access to electronics, use of furniture and anything else she may desire.
• It is understood that mistress will keep the special relationship private from family, the community at large and the slaves work place unless there is a breach of contract as described in section Four. The mistress may disclose the relationship to discreet friends and strangers outside of the community or area of probable reconigtion.

Section Three: Alteration of Contract
This contract may not be altered, except when both Mistress and slave agree.

Section Four: Termination of Contract
This contract is in effect until ____________. This contract may only be terminated for breach of contract wherein the slave refuses to continue as slave for a protracted period as determined by the Mistress.

Security: In order to insure continued compliance by the Slave, the mistress may keep such photos, videos, documents and other records which she may release at her discretion to the workplace, on the internet, to family and friends only if the slave refuses to carry out his responsibilities (a breach of contract) under this contract while she has carried our her responsibilities in full faith. All copies of said photos and documents will be turned over to the slave upon successful completion of the contract period. Slave understands that breach of contract may lead to social humiliation and possibly job loss.


Section Five: Code of Conduct
1. Obedience is required. When an instruction is given, it is not the time to negotiate. Discussion will be allowed later if needed. Hesitation to follow instruction will be met with punishment.
2. The slave agrees to obey his Mistress in all respects. his mind, body, heart and time belong to Her. The slave accepts the responsibility of using her safe word when necessary, and trusts implicitly in his Mistress to respect the use of that safe word. If a condition arises in which the slave needs to use the safe word or gesture, his Mistress will assess the situation, and determine an appropriate course of action.
3. The slave shall keep his body available for the use of his Mistress at all times. In addition, the slave agrees that his Mistress possesses the right to determine whether others can use his body and what use they may put it to. The slave acknowledges that his Mistress may use his body or mind in any manner She wishes within the parameters of safety. She may hurt him without reason.

4. The slave will answer any questions put to him honestly and directly, and will volunteer any information his Mistress should know about his physical or emotional condition. While his Mistress expects Her slave to speak honestly and forth rightly about anything that bothers him, he is not to interpret that as permission to whine or complain. he will phrase his concerns politely and respectfully, and then gracefully accept his Mistress's judgment in these matters without further complaint.
5. No part of their agreement while slave is performing his responsibilities is intended to interfere with the slave's career. The Mistress wishes the slave to work hard and honestly, in general to conduct himself in a manner calculated to bring honor and respect to them both. During periods of work, the slave is permitted to schedule appointments, to dress in a manner appropriate to work, and to leave the house when necessary.
6. A chastity device is to be worn at all times unless circumstances as determined by the Mistress require otherwise.
7. A period of reflection is required when the slave returns home from work. This is to be done on his knees last for a period of at least 5 minutes. This is to remind the slave of his inferiority.
8. Clothing and other adornments will be selected and/or approved by the Mistress.
9. Respect of the Mistress’s friends and associates is required.
10. There is to be a discussion time regarding the relationship any time the slave or Mistress feels it is necessary, except during a session, or while being given an order. A request for discussion will assure one, within one day at both the Mistress’s and slave's convenience.
11. A safeword “RED LIGHT” will always be honored in this relationship and no circumstances negative or otherwise will occur upon the use of this safeword. The use of the safeword during punishment may cause the punishment to start over at a later date.

12. The slave will always use “please” and “thank you”, especially when being punished.

Section Six: Marriage, sex, and punishment:
We agree that our relationship will always come first in our lives. We will not put work, other relationships, or other outside interests before the relationship/marriage. We agree to always be honest with each other in all things including feelings, thoughts and actions. We agree that the slave shall remain monogamous unless otherwise directed by mistress while the mistress may engage in safe extramarital sex if she chooses. Slave understands that he may never be allowed an orgasm or sex with Mistress. The slave agrees to accept any punishment or discipline the Mistress decides to inflict, whether earned or not.<br style="">

Section Seven: Hard Limits
The following is a list of hard limits both Mistress and slave agree upon. This section may be added to or subtracted from upon the agreement of both Mistress and slave.
No acts involving feces.
No acts involving children or animals.
No acts that would leave permanent damage or markings unless agreed upon by the slave.

Section Eight : Slave's Signature
I have read and fully understand this contract in its entirety. I understand that henceforth I am the property of Mistress and hereby relinquish my freedom, I understand I will be used, trained to truly understand my inferior status and punished as a slave, and I promise to be obedient and to fulfill the pleasures and desires of my Mistress to the best of my abilities. I understand that I cannot withdraw from this contract without agreement by mistress.


Signature:___________________________ Date:________________________


Section Nine: Mistress's Signature
I have read and fully understand this contract in its entirety. I agree to accept this slave as my property and possession, and to care for him to the best of my ability. I shall command him, train him, humiliate him and punish him as a slave and strive to imbue a real understanding that he is an inferior whose sole purpose is to serve my needs. I understand the responsibility implicit in this arrangement, and agree that no permanent physical harm shall come to the slave.


Signature:___________________________ Date:________________________

 

i get so excited when i read a well written and such an inclusive agreement like this previous one. i can only hope that someday my wonderful Wife will even consider something such as this!!